{"id":20923,"date":"2020-07-18T08:55:04","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T08:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20923"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:01","slug":"e-altura-de-o-verem-como-ele-realmente-e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-altura-de-o-verem-como-ele-realmente-e\/","title":{"rendered":"Est\u00e1 na altura de o veres como ele realmente \u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ele mudou. Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o mesmo homem por quem te apaixonaste e tu n\u00e3o \u00e9s tu mesma por causa disso.<\/p>\n

Antes eras cheia de vida, radiante e sorridente, e agora s\u00f3 guardas as recorda\u00e7\u00f5es de como eras feliz, de como eras feliz por causa dele.<\/p>\n

Agora, est\u00e1s cansada. Est\u00e1 exausta da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele, de pensar, esperar, investir, chorar, perdoar e esperar por algo que fa\u00e7a com que tudo volte a ficar bem.<\/p>\n

You are tired, but you are still putting up a fight because you can\u2019t imagine giving up on love. <\/strong><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t see is that it wouldn\u2019t be giving up on love. It would be letting go of something that\u2019s not right for you, of something not meant for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He is not what you deserve. He is far from it. He doesn\u2019t see all your efforts.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see that candlelight dinner you made because something came up and he couldn\u2019t come. He doesn\u2019t respond to that sweet goodnight text you sent him.<\/p>\n

He ignores any attempt at you having a heart-to-heart conversation. He is there and he isn\u2019t there at the same time.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t ask about the things that make you feel down and upset. He doesn\u2019t feel happy when something good happens to you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even remember to ask how your day, went let alone anything else. You feel like you don\u2019t exist and like your feelings don\u2019t matter to him, and it\u2019s tearing you apart.<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 se preocupa consigo pr\u00f3prio e com a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o das suas necessidades. Tudo o que voc\u00ea diz ou faz ele toma como garantido, como se tivesse direito a tudo o que recebe de si.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see the need to reciprocate because he is not missing anything.<\/p>\n

He has your full attention at all times. You listen to everything he has to say even if it\u2019s not something that you find interesting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to him and that makes it important to you, too. You make sure he knows he has your support.<\/p>\n

Retribuis a sua frieza com calor e do\u00e7ura. Abra\u00e7as as suas dist\u00e2ncias. Fazes o teu melhor para lhe mostrar o quanto ele significa e ele, como sempre, n\u00e3o faz absolutamente nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Abre os olhos e v\u00ea o ego\u00edsta ele<\/a>.<\/strong> Aquele que espera que estejas ao seu dispor sempre que lhe apetece e lhe d\u00e1 jeito.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Aquele que apenas tira sem dar nada em troca. Aquele que nunca te valorizar\u00e1 e apreciar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Trust that little voice inside of you screaming that he can\u2019t be trusted.<\/strong> Que os seus beijos s\u00e3o frios. Que os seus abra\u00e7os j\u00e1 n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o apertados como dantes.<\/p>\n

That he doesn\u2019t show affection in the way that he used to. That his mind is elsewhere when he is with you.<\/p>\n

A woman always knows, you know, when something is off. It\u2019s just a matter of time until you\u2019ll be ready to face the truth.<\/p>\n

Remove that blindfold and see that he doesn\u2019t love you in the way you deserve to be loved.<\/strong> It\u2019s preventing you from loving yourself.<\/p>\n

He is building up your insecurities. He is making you question whether you are the real reason things aren\u2019t working out.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a fazer-te pensar que \u00e9s dif\u00edcil de amar, quando devia estar a agradecer aos c\u00e9us pelo teu amor.<\/p>\n

Deixem de se agarrar \u00e0quele in\u00edcio m\u00e1gico que tiveram.<\/strong> Ele era o homem dos teus sonhos. A vossa felicidade significava o mundo para ele.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

His texts were never late. His free time was all yours. You had his full attention. Unfortunately, that\u2019s not the man you have standing before you now. He changed or he showed his real face.<\/p>\n

Parem de avan\u00e7ar rapidamente para esse lugar no futuro onde voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o felizes.<\/strong> Onde ele estar\u00e1 pronto para dar o pr\u00f3ximo passo.<\/p>\n

Onde ele deixar\u00e1 de a tratar mal. Onde toda a bondade que v\u00eas nele vir\u00e1 \u00e0 tona. Onde ele te amar\u00e1 como deves ser amada.<\/p>\n

Veja-o como ele realmente \u00e9 e n\u00e3o como voc\u00ea quer que ele seja.<\/strong> V\u00ea a tua for\u00e7a e afasta-te dele.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared to walk alone into the unknown when what you do know is failing you in every aspect.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay because things won\u2019t change for the better. They will only get worse.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay where you feel unloved, unnoticed, betrayed and underappreciated. Be brave! Be your own hero! Love yourself! Make yourself happy!<\/p>\n

\"Est\u00e1<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

He changed. He is not the same man you fell for and you are not yourself because of it. You used to be full of life, radiant and smiling, and now you only hold onto the memories of how happy you were, of how happy you were because of him. Now, you are tired. You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":120654,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Its-Time-You-See-Him-For-Who-He-Really-Is-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20923"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20923\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120654"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}