{"id":20946,"date":"2019-12-01T09:41:37","date_gmt":"2019-12-01T09:41:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20946"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:39:27","slug":"aconteceu-por-tua-causa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aconteceu-por-tua-causa\/","title":{"rendered":"A morte da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o aconteceu por tua causa"},"content":{"rendered":"

I speak the truth when I say I want you to know from the bottom of my heart how much of an impact you have made in my life. You have changed my life for the better, as I\u2019m now no longer the leading role in your web of lies.<\/p>\n

The death of our relationship happened because you simply couldn\u2019t make a change. You simply couldn\u2019t be a man and own up to your own demons\u2014those demons to whom you so willingly lost the battle. You simply couldn\u2019t care for anyone other than yourself.<\/p>\n

Decidiste acabar com a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o quando colocaste continuamente os teus amigos e os teus pr\u00f3prios desejos e necessidades acima dos meus.<\/strong> Sobre o meu quando eu simplesmente largava qualquer coisa a qualquer momento s\u00f3 para te fazer sorrir.<\/p>\n

Fiz de ti a minha principal prioridade e tu fizeste de mim a menor. Eu estaria l\u00e1 literalmente num estalar de dedos! Se eu soubesse o que esfregar a tua l\u00e2mpada causaria, nunca teria deixado o g\u00e9nio sair da garrafa. Nunca teria continuado esta batalha intermin\u00e1vel com um idiota manipulador.<\/p>\n

Mas, agora que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estamos juntos, tenho tempo. Tenho tempo para respirar. Tenho tempo para pensar. Tive tempo para perceber que nunca fui eu que tive todas aquelas inseguran\u00e7as. Na verdade, eras tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por isso, dou-te os parab\u00e9ns. Felicito-te por perderes a melhor coisa que alguma vez entrou na tua vida. Dou-te os parab\u00e9ns por me fazeres pensar que foram as minhas inseguran\u00e7as que falharam a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I want to congratulate you on also being the BEST manipulator there was. You truly avoided any responsibility for your own conduct throughout this relationship. And you avoided it constantly by blaming me in order to deflect the real issue in the relationship\u2014you. So, cheers to you!<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Quando olhas para o espelho retrovisor enquanto te deitas na cama \u00e0 noite, espero que te assombre como tu me assombraste durante tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Espero que vejas a b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o que fui para a tua vida<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Espero que percebas que fiz de ti a melhor vers\u00e3o de ti mesmo enquanto estiveste comigo. Espero que compreendas que nunca haver\u00e1 outra mulher como eu para ficar e lidar com as tuas tretas.<\/p>\n

I hope you search for those simple yet sweet love letters I left you when you traveled. I hope you search for that care packet I left you because you were always leaving something behind that I knew you needed. I truly held you down through your darkest moments and that\u2019s the most fucked up part of our story.<\/p>\n

Espero que percebas que amar algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o significa destruir cada grama dessa pessoa.<\/strong> Quero que saibas o quanto tentei ganhar o teu amor. No entanto, nunca foi suficiente. Nunca pude for\u00e7ar-te a amar-me como eu te amava.<\/p>\n

Lembro-me de me sentir t\u00e3o vazia, a tentar ajudar-te a travar essas batalhas interiores contigo mesma. Lembro-me de tentar mostrar-te o que era o amor. Lembro-me de ser a \u00fanica rapariga que esteve t\u00e3o perto de te mudar a ti e aos teus maus h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\n

I remember once being the girl whom you thought had changed the game. The thing is though, no matter how much I learned lessons through our brokenness, it didn\u2019t matter because ainda n\u00e3o interiorizaste o conceito de amar outra pessoa para al\u00e9m de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Durante todo este tempo da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, Estava a amar-te mais<\/a> e mais a cada dia, apesar das tuas tretas, mas tu nunca me amaste. S\u00f3 te amaste a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se que o que vai, volta.<\/strong> Maybe that\u2019s why you jump from relationship to relationship with each ending being the same? Leaving each woman you\u2019ve played your games with insecure and broken-hearted.<\/p>\n

But sweetie please don\u2019t worry about me because Agora compreendo o meu valor pr\u00f3prio e sei como detetar um narcisista da pr\u00f3xima vez que o vir.<\/strong> Nunca mais vou prender algu\u00e9m como tu. Por isso, vai em frente e diverte-te com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se que o que vai, volta. And if karma is anywhere near my side, I\u2019ll be able to watch it unfold as you did with our relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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