As I finished packing up my belongings, I grabbed one last box and glanced over the memories we had once shared. The memories that were both good and bad. The memories of you pushing me into the pool on a hot summer\u2019s day. The memories of me encouraging you in your darkest moments, and the memories of us and our laughter that echoed up the staircase\u2014memories of a life once shared.<\/p>\n
No entanto, a mais recente e que mais revira o est\u00f4mago foi a mem\u00f3ria de n\u00f3s sentados no sof\u00e1. At\u00e9 me lembro do programa que estava a dar quando decidiste dizer-me que isto tinha acabado.<\/strong> Apesar de te teres sentado perto de mim naquele dia chuvoso, eu conseguia sentir a dist\u00e2ncia e os quil\u00f3metros que nos separavam. Lembro-me de cada palavra que saiu da tua l\u00edngua. Lembro-me de cada palavra como um poeta se lembra da sua estrofe favorita.<\/p>\n You told me you saw a future with me, you saw me being your wife and you most certainly saw me having your kids. But you couldn\u2019t explain the halt to the notion or the fear of moving forward. And the mistake it was by moving too fast. You couldn\u2019t explain this so-called missing link of chemistry you thought wasn\u2019t there. Or you couldn\u2019t explain to me why the advances in our relationship were seemingly just too much for you to handle. You looked so confused while you said this, yet you also looked at me with your big brown eyes and said that you knew this was coming. You knew this was coming because of past behavior. You knew this was coming because you were scared of possibly being happy and accomplishing so much more with who was supposed to be your better half, me. No entanto, deixaste-me ir. Tudo por causa de um medo<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n I wish I would have known the consequences and acted on the signs you showed me when you didn\u2019t seem to care com a ideia de me perder<\/a>. Quem me dera que a minha l\u00e2mpada se tivesse acendido quando disseste que tinhas medo que as coisas estivessem a andar demasiado depressa. Quem me dera ter sido suficientemente forte para te deixar ir<\/a> e suficientemente inteligente para perceber que isto tinha acabado.<\/strong><\/p>\n Yet I fought for our love so many times because in my mind I knew you were the person who I was planning to spend the rest of my life with. You were the person who I knew was worth fighting for. I knew you were my person who I was ready to spend the rest of my life with. However, that\u2019s the funny thing about relationships\u2014sometimes we come to a fork in the road and we take opposite directions.<\/p>\n As you glanced in your rear-view mirror of our memories, you chose to continue in your direction, not mine. I guess that\u2019s the only way I can explain my feelings. This whole time I was loving you, you were barely loving me. This whole time you could have intervened to stop the moving truck from pulling away from the driveway one last time.<\/p>\n But you didn\u2019t. You didn\u2019t because you simply weren\u2019t ready to fight for something like Eu estava a lutar por ti<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tenho de vos agradecer por me mostrarem o que devo evitar da pr\u00f3xima vez<\/strong> e o que fazer a seguir. Vou descobrir que o HOMEM, n\u00e3o um rapaz cujo verdadeiro medo \u00e9 perder-me<\/a>. Whose true fear is losing me when things may go bump in the relationship. Whose true fear is knowing I\u2019m the best thing that walked into your life, and the thought of me never coming back would just be the death of them.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t have to spend time being stuck reading between the lines with a boy who doesn\u2019t know what he truly wants. I\u2019ll know it because of his actions. I know I will never be caught in this mind game of confusion or ever question his character ever again. I don\u2019t ever want to think twice about if he\u2019ll abandon ship when waves splash over the bow. I don\u2019t ever want to think twice about if this is moving too fast. I don\u2019t ever want a relationship where we need a break because the intensity of loving someone is just too much. I just want a man who won\u2019t fear that I might not be the one. I want a man who is excited about our future and what it means for the both of us. I don\u2019t ever want a man who\u2019s scared of losing his freedom more so than losing me.<\/strong><\/p>\n Portanto, este \u00e9 um obrigado ao homem<\/a> I once loved so much more than myself. Thank you for helping me become one step closer to finding happiness. Thank you for showing me what true love is. True love isn\u2019t letting someone walk away so easily. Amor verdadeiro e um homem verdadeiro<\/a> nunca vos deixar\u00e1 ir embora.<\/strong> True love\u2019s biggest fear is losing the best thing to ever walk into their life. That is true love. That\u2019s what I\u2019ll find next in the start to my new beginning while this chapter is ending. Agora sei que devo encontrar algu\u00e9m cujo maior medo seja perder-me. 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