{"id":20955,"date":"2020-06-19T11:31:09","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T11:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20955"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:02:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:02:55","slug":"5-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-precisa-de-um-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-precisa-de-um-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es para n\u00e3o precisar de um homem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Muitas pessoas pensam que precisam de algu\u00e9m na sua vida para se sentirem completas.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que a \u00fanica pessoa de que precisas \u00e9 de ti pr\u00f3prio. Tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico ser humano do qual n\u00e3o podes fugir.<\/p>\n<p>Os outros s\u00e3o bem-vindos se contribu\u00edrem com energia positiva para a sua vida. Aqueles que o fazem sentir-se mal podem arrumar as suas coisas e ir embora.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need them. Just like you don\u2019t need a man to live your life. You can handle things well on your own.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t fool yourself by thinking you need a man. You really don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Pode viver uma vida muito feliz sem ele. <strong>Um homem n\u00e3o vai resolver magicamente todos os seus problemas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De facto, um homem errado s\u00f3 lhe trar\u00e1 ainda mais problemas.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, aproveita a vida, lembra-te de quem \u00e9s, faz-te feliz.<\/p>\n<p>E sempre que pensares que precisas de um homem na tua vida, l\u00ea estas raz\u00f5es para te convenceres do contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Tu \u00e9s o teu pr\u00f3prio her\u00f3i<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91290\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher feliz a sorrir na praia num dia de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is nothing a man can do that you can\u2019t. Maybe you\u2019ll find a different way, but you\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n<p>You can change the light bulb by yourself. You can change the tire by yourself. It\u2019s not that hard.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re healthy, you can do anything. Having a man in your life is not a fairytale.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not that Prince Charming who will keep you safe and protect you by all means.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s only human, too. He sometimes needs to be protected, as well.<\/p>\n<p>He has the same capabilities and needs as you. So don\u2019t sit around and wait for someone to change that freaking light bulb.<\/p>\n<p>Altere-o voc\u00ea mesmo. <strong>Se um homem o consegue fazer, tu tamb\u00e9m o consegues.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>2. He\u2019s not perfect<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91291\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma rapariga bonita ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As said before, men have the same needs as women. Don\u2019t think of him like he\u2019s the perfect example of life that will make everything better. Hercules doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, when you fall in love with someone you look at him like he\u2019s perfect, but always keep in mind the fact that he\u2019s only human.<\/p>\n<p>Define que tipo de homem achas que precisas na tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, tente implementar na sua personalidade todos esses atributos que escolheu para ele.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se achas que precisas de um homem forte, isso significa que tens de te tornar mais forte.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se achas que precisas de um homem engra\u00e7ado, isso significa que tens de ver mais com\u00e9dias.<\/p>\n<p>Bring into your life what you need and want. Don\u2019t wait for it to come. It won\u2019t come as easily as you think.<\/p>\n<p>Your life won\u2019t be perfect when some perfect man becomes a part of it. <strong>Ser\u00e1 perfeito quando decidires que ser\u00e1 perfeito.<\/strong> It\u2019s all up to you.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 sin\u00f3nimo de felicidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91292\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a gesticular sem cantar com as m\u00e3os\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The same way a man won\u2019t bring perfection into your life, he won\u2019t bring you happiness either.<\/p>\n<p>Mais uma vez, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/felicidade-nao-sentir-escolha\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">it\u2019s up to you to make yourself happy<\/a> e construir uma vida feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Aposto que consegues nomear pelo menos tr\u00eas casais infelizes que conheces. A felicidade \u00e9 t\u00e3o rara. S\u00e3o precisos dois pais para fazer um filho.<\/p>\n<p>Love and understanding are happiness\u2019 parents. If they\u2019re not a part of your relationship, then neither is happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t take your smile for granted. Don\u2019t be in a relationship for the sake of being in one.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele a faz feliz e amada e a compreende completamente, ent\u00e3o pode ficar com ele.<\/p>\n<p>But if he\u2019s not, then you don\u2019t need him. Relationships are usually very stressful and full of drama.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel you need drama in your life, you can always re-watch &#8216;Titanic&#8217;.<\/p>\n<h2>4. H\u00e1 outras pessoas na sua vida que merecem o seu tempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91293\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a tirar uma selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o exige muito tempo e energia. Concentramo-nos apenas numa pessoa e esquecemo-nos dos outros.<\/p>\n<p>Mas h\u00e1 outras pessoas na sua vida que merecem aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>A primeira \u00e9 o pr\u00f3prio. Deve sempre arranjar tempo para trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio. Fa\u00e7a uma viagem, aprenda coisas e compet\u00eancias novas.<\/p>\n<p>Conhe\u00e7a a sua mente e a forma como ela funciona. Seja ativo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-lessons-i-learned-while-i-was-single-that-saved-my-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nunca se pode ser demasiado instru\u00eddo<\/a> ou demasiado saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Aqueles que tamb\u00e9m merecem aten\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o os seus amigos e familiares. Estas s\u00e3o as pessoas mais importantes da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e3o ao seu lado em qualquer situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Leva-os a almo\u00e7ar fora.<\/p>\n<p>See what\u2019s going on in their lives. Maybe you could help them with something.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Time is the only thing that you can\u2019t get back in your life, so spend&nbsp;it wisely<\/strong>. Gastem-no com pessoas que valham a pena.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste it on thinking that you need a man or, even worse, on a relationship with a wrong one.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Tem tempo para se conhecer a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91294\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente apoiada numa parede de flores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o s\u00f3 merece investir algum tempo em si pr\u00f3prio, como tamb\u00e9m o deve fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de se conhecer a si pr\u00f3prio como pessoa. Conhecer as suas necessidades, desejos e expectativas.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t define what you want from life, how can life know what to give you?<\/p>\n<p>If there was a man in your life right now, you wouldn\u2019t have time for that because you\u2019d be focusing on getting to know him. <strong>Don\u2019t get to know anyone before you get to know yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se precisa de ajuda para se conhecer melhor, aqui est\u00e3o algumas perguntas para responder:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What is the one word that describes you?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What is your dream job?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What do you truly believe in?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Who is your best friend?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Who is the person that taught you the most things in your life?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What makes you angry?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What makes you smile?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; When was the last time you cried?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; How do you think other people see you?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Do you like the way you think and the way you\u2019re presenting yourself to others?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; If not, why don\u2019t you change it?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91288 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es para n\u00e3o precisar de um homem \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of people think that they need someone in their life to feel complete. The truth is that the only person you need is yourself. You are the only human being you can not escape from. Others are welcome to stay if they contribute positive energy to your life. Those who make you feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":91289,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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