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<\/p>\nQuando olho para a minha vida, muitas pessoas causaram-me diferentes tipos de dor emocional.<\/p>\n
There were people whose goal was to play with my heart and to hurt my feelings and there were some who probably didn\u2019t do it on purpose.<\/p>\n
Mas o que interessa \u00e9 que todos eles me magoaram.<\/p>\n
And when I think of you, I don\u2019t know in which group to put you.<\/p>\n
Estavam a fazer-me passar por tanta dor emocional de prop\u00f3sito ou estavam a faz\u00ea-lo apenas porque eram insens\u00edveis e porque nunca tiveram em considera\u00e7\u00e3o os meus sentimentos?<\/p>\n
De qualquer forma, the point is that the pain you put me through can\u2019t be compared to anything else I\u2019ve experienced in life.<\/b> E n\u00e3o estou a falar apenas de emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas.<\/p>\n
I am trying to tell you that the pain you put me through has been the most intense emotion I\u2019ve ever felt in my life. You may say I am exaggerating but it is the truth.<\/p>\n
The emotional pain I felt because of you was stronger than all the happiness I\u2019ve ever felt in my life, of all the excitement and of every single positive emotion I\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n
Quando penso nisso, \u00e9 ainda mais forte do que o amor que sentia por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n
E o pior \u00e9 que nunca te apercebeste do quanto me magoaste.<\/b><\/p>\n
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De alguma forma, sempre afirmou que eu estava a exagerar e que estava a ser demasiado emocional e sens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n
Estavas sempre a acusar-me de me fazer de v\u00edtima ou de que eu era a culpada de todas as coisas que me fazias.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know if you were acting this way because you couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you were hurting another human being that much. That you were destroying and breaking the woman who loved you.<\/p>\n
Talvez fosse mais f\u00e1cil para ti olhar para as coisas desse ponto de vista do que olhar a verdade nos olhos. Talvez nunca conseguisses aceitar o facto de que eras um monstro que fez da minha vida um inferno.<\/p>\n
Ou talvez soubesses o que me estavas a fazer, mas continuaste conscientemente, sem o menor sinal de remorsos.<\/p>\n
Seja como for, o facto \u00e9 que nunca assumiu qualquer responsabilidade pelas suas palavras ou ac\u00e7\u00f5es em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a mim.<\/b><\/p>\n
At least, you never confessed that you were guilty of hurting me and you never acknowledged my pain or all the sacrifices I made for the sake of our relationship. You always acted like you shouldn\u2019t be held accountable for the way you mistreated me.<\/p>\n
Como se as minhas l\u00e1grimas, as minhas noites sem dormir, as minhas inseguran\u00e7as que causaste e os meus desgostos n\u00e3o fossem da tua conta.<\/b><\/p>\n
E, \u00e0s vezes, acho que esse teu comportamento me magoou ainda mais do que todas as coisas que me fazias.<\/b><\/p>\n
And that is why I sincerely hope that a day comes when you\u2019ll understand everything you put me through.<\/p>\n
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But I mean really get it because I don\u2019t want you telling me you understand something just to be the bigger man in both of our eyes.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 despite all the pain you caused me, I still don\u2019t wish for you to experience anything similar.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want you to go through all the things I went through because that is something I wouldn\u2019t wish for my worst enemy to have to live through.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want you to be consumed by guilt either. After all, what was done was done and your conscious waking up all of a sudden can\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want you to apologize either. I am not going to lie\u2014it would be nice to hear an honest apology but when I come to think of it, even that wouldn\u2019t make a significant difference inside of me and I am not sure if it would make me feel better.<\/p>\n
My pain wouldn\u2019t be erased if you experienced the same. No matter what you do, how you live your life and what happens to you, the scars on my soul will remain.<\/p>\n
I just want you to realize what you\u2019ve done to me and to take responsibility for your actions, even if you do it alone, without me ever finding out about it.<\/b><\/p>\n
E quero que isso seja uma li\u00e7\u00e3o para v\u00f3s<\/b>\u2014<\/b>para nunca pensares em fazer algo semelhante a outra mulher na tua vida.<\/b> <\/p>\n
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