{"id":20996,"date":"2020-07-19T13:01:05","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T13:01:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20996"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:00:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:00:34","slug":"a-pessoa-mais-dificil-de-esquecer-e-aquela-que-nunca-se-teve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-pessoa-mais-dificil-de-esquecer-e-aquela-que-nunca-se-teve\/","title":{"rendered":"A pessoa mais dif\u00edcil de esquecer \u00e9 aquela que nunca se teve"},"content":{"rendered":"

There was something but you aren’t really sure what to call it anymore. There was this skipped heartbeat and this slight touch of his face.<\/p>\n

Tiveste-o por um momento, tiveste um namorado, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, um futuro e o sonho de ter algu\u00e9m ao teu lado em todos os momentos dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n

Quando olhamos agora para tr\u00e1s, perguntamos se alguma vez tivemos realmente todas essas coisas?<\/b> But why does it hurt this bad if you didn’t?<\/p>\n

You are torn apart from the inside out and you can’t even remember the last morning when you woke up without your chest screaming his name and begging for him to voltar \u00e0 sua vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil deixar ir algu\u00e9m que nunca teve<\/a>Porque n\u00e3o tens realmente algo de que te desprender.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have the memories and the feeling of his hands brushing your skin but how does a person erase their memories? Are you even able to move on if you didn’t have anywhere to go now that he’s out of your life?<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Pensou que estava a ir devagar.<\/b> A sua mente dizia-lhe que ele devia estar destro\u00e7ado pela sua \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o, disse-lhe que o amor o assustava e que precisava de tempo para compreender o que se passava entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

What is left right now is a picture of you two, frozen in a moment where you are wondering what the hell is going on between the two of you and if you’ll ever move on past that one picture frame.<\/p>\n

Havia tanto potencial em voc\u00eas os dois!<\/b> Ele tratou-te com amor e carinho, tratou-te como se n\u00e3o houvesse ningu\u00e9m no mundo mais valioso para ele do que tu e o que aconteceu foi t\u00e3o devastador<\/a> porque agora n\u00e3o tens mais nada disso.<\/p>\n

Instead, you go back in time, recalling those memories that are telling you that it isn’t over, trying to convince you that you are wrong for letting everything slip away.<\/p>\n

But it’s not you letting everything slip out of your hands! <\/b>Ele queria que fosse assim, queria que tudo acabasse assim, sem um desfecho, sem nunca ter algo real a que se agarrar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You never got to saving his number with a cute nickname that’s actually an inside joke.<\/p>\n

Nunca tiveste a oportunidade de o apresentar \u00e0 tua fam\u00edlia como ‘the one’<\/a> and you never got the chance to one day stand by his side while you make important decisions in life. It’s so devastating, so sad and so miserable.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter that it wasn’t real for him, it was for you. <\/b>As suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, desde o in\u00edcio, devem ter sido terr\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca quis que voc\u00eas chegassem ao ponto de dizerem que estavam felizes por estarem juntos.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca quis que acordasses ao lado dele, vendo o teu futuro nos seus olhos sonolentos, ele nunca quis amar-te para sempre. Ele s\u00f3 queria algo tempor\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que tenha sido tempor\u00e1rio, continua a doer. <\/b>It hurts like hell and you aren’t even able to find a way to get past this stage of despair where you wake up in the morning, wishing that he was there with you.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Acordas, queres que ele te cumprimente com um sorriso caloroso e queres vestir-te de forma elegante e sair com ele.<\/p>\n

Perceber que todas essas coisas eram apenas sonhos \u00e9 como levar um tiro no cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Now you’re bleeding and you feel like it’s taking your breath away, because it’s hurting so much.<\/p>\n

I know that this pain is unbearable but believe me, it won’t last forever!<\/b> One day there will be no trace of this almost relationship left in your life and you will be grateful that you weren’t stuck in it for much longer, because it could have been going on for years without any trace of an ending.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o fortalecer-se-\u00e1 e, da pr\u00f3xima vez, ser\u00e1 capaz de ver os primeiros sinais e afastar-se imediatamente.<\/p>\n

For now, give yourself time. Forgive yourself. Give yourself all the time you need to recover from what has happened and don’t beat yourself up about it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Agora tens um lugar livre na tua vida que pode ser ocupado por algu\u00e9m que te quer a ti e s\u00f3 a ti!<\/b><\/p>\n

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