{"id":21022,"date":"2020-07-20T09:07:03","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T09:07:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21022"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:13:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:13:37","slug":"o-que-e-o-duty-dating-e-porque-e-que-deve-experimentar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-o-duty-dating-e-porque-e-que-deve-experimentar\/","title":{"rendered":"O que \u00e9 o \"Duty Dating\" e porque \u00e9 que deve experimentar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Namorar por obriga\u00e7\u00e3o significa basicamente dizer sim a quase todos os convites para encontros que recebe. Parece loucura no in\u00edcio, eu sei, mas pode melhorar a sua vida amorosa e social tremendamente.<\/p>\n<p>Pode tamb\u00e9m criar uma oportunidade para encontrar o Sr. Certo num mar de erros.<\/p>\n<p>Duty dating is a term formed by Dr. Pat Allen, author of Getting to \u2018I Do\u2019 and she states that people engage in duty dating for various reasons.<\/p>\n<p>Pode ser a sua forma de voltar a sair depois de terem estado fora da cena dos encontros durante um longo per\u00edodo de tempo e est\u00e3o a aprender a relacionar-se novamente.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t even matter if you don\u2019t feel attraction to or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/15-powerful-signs-of-chemistry-between-two-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">qu\u00edmica instant\u00e2nea<\/a> with a person; what matters is that you go out with them three times and if your heart doesn\u2019t start beating more loudly, you can simply say your goodbyes.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>O objetivo principal \u00e9 dizer sim a um encontro, mesmo que n\u00e3o haja qu\u00edmica ou uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o imediata.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12.jpg\" alt=\"casal a tomar caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>To say, \u201cYes,\u201d even if you don\u2019t find somebody attractive or if he is not the type of guy you would usually go out with. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This doesn\u2019t mean you are settling for anything, it means that you are getting to know other people and in the process of doing that, you are getting to know yourself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>By dating multiple people at once, you are learning to differentiate between what you need and what you want and usually, it\u2019s not the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>Ensina-nos que as apar\u00eancias enganam e que algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos num primeiro encontro pode revelar-se um completo idiota no terceiro encontro.<\/p>\n<p>But it can also prove that there is more to that other guy you didn\u2019t feel so attracted to the first time you saw him.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why three dates are mandatory before you decide whether you want to continue dating someone or stop seeing them.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Also, dating three people at the same time is a good idea too, so that you can see what\u2019s out there and not to move too fast with someone who hasn\u2019t said<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-tantos-homens-sofrem-de-problemas-de-compromisso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> se ele quer ou n\u00e3o comprometer-se consigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal jovem e bonito num caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ao namorar por obriga\u00e7\u00e3o, estabelece-se uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o com as pessoas a um n\u00edvel emocional, n\u00e3o f\u00edsico.<\/strong> Sex is not a good idea when duty dating and it shouldn\u2019t be a part of it.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 vai dar confus\u00e3o. Deixe isso para o fim do namoro de servi\u00e7o, quando estiver exclusivo de uma s\u00f3 pessoa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Os encontros por dever de of\u00edcio devem ser divertidos.<\/strong> N\u00e3o se deve sobrecarregar com grandes expectativas e com o facto de as coisas estarem ou n\u00e3o a correr bem.<\/p>\n<p>You are getting the practice you need to be less nervous about dating in general. If one date doesn\u2019t go as planned, you always have another one waiting around the corner.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Vale mesmo a pena experimentar os encontros por obriga\u00e7\u00e3o; n\u00e3o s\u00f3 lhe dar\u00e1 a pr\u00e1tica de que necessita e o far\u00e1 voltar a sair \u00e0 rua, como tamb\u00e9m lhe ensinar\u00e1 muito.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ensin\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a lidar melhor com a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>When the tables are turned and you are the one deciding whether you are going to stay or leave, you will see that in most cases, it\u2019s nothing personal.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado num caf\u00e9 a sorrir e a conversar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t like everyone you meet, even if they are good and kind and perfect boyfriend material on paper. Something just won\u2019t add up and you will trust your instincts.<\/p>\n<p>You will realize that in the past, some of your relationships didn\u2019t work out because you were simply mismatched. It didn\u2019t have anything to do with you.<\/p>\n<p>Perceber\u00e1 que sempre foi mais do que suficiente, mas algumas pessoas simplesmente n\u00e3o conseguiram ver isso em si. A pessoa certa ver\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mais uma boa raz\u00e3o para experimentar o duty dating \u00e9 o facto de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/how-to-stop-obsessing-over-someone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ajuda-o a n\u00e3o ficar obcecado<\/a> sobre uma pessoa de quem j\u00e1 se gosta.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>They won\u2019t be your sole focus and you won\u2019t spend your days waiting for them to call or text.<\/p>\n<p>Manter\u00e1 as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto e ter\u00e1 uma perspetiva totalmente nova quando voltar \u00e0 cena dos encontros. Por isso, porque n\u00e3o tentar???<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O que \u00e9 o &quot;Duty Dating&quot; e porque \u00e9 que deve experimentar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Duty dating basically means saying yes to almost every date invitation you get. Sounds crazy at first, I know, but it can improve your love life and social life tremendously. It can also create an opportunity for you to find Mr. Right in a sea of wrongs. Duty dating is a term formed by Dr&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":117972,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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