{"id":21032,"date":"2018-07-20T10:52:09","date_gmt":"2018-07-20T10:52:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21032"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:15:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:15:59","slug":"seguir-em-frente-nao-significa-deixar-de-amar-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/seguir-em-frente-nao-significa-deixar-de-amar-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"Seguir em frente n\u00e3o significa deixar de amar algu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

When people tell you to ‘move on’ it sounds so easy. Like it’s something that could be done overnight. They make it sound like a magic trick, you just wish for that person to disappear out of your life and they just do. They make it sound like moving on is all about walking away from them and erasing <\/span>todas essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a> you had for that special someone, when in actuality it’s nothing like that. Moving on isn’t about not loving someone anymore!<\/span><\/p>\n

Seguir em frente \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil. Pode querer apress\u00e1-la, pode querer que toda a dor desapare\u00e7a agora mesmo, mas deixe-me dizer-lhe que n\u00e3o \u00e9 disso que se trata. Por isso, evite que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido se parta mais uma vez, evite que os seus olhos chorem e salve-se desta ideia errada que foi introduzida na sua vida sem o seu consentimento.<\/span><\/p>\n

Moving on is about still being able to say that you love someone, saying that you regret the things that you have done wrong, saying that you would love for things to have turned out in a different way, but still not wanting to go back. This is what moving on truly is because you’re able to say:<\/b><\/p>\n

\u201cI still love you but you do not deserve me because you weren’t able to treat me right!\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s that feeling of melancholy that makes you remember your heartbreak the moment you realized that they didn’t love you as purely as you loved them. <\/span>Seguir em frente<\/span><\/a> daquele sentimento m\u00e1gico quando sabemos que fomos suficientemente fortes para nos afastarmos de algu\u00e9m que nos era t\u00e3o querido e continuamos a p\u00f4r um p\u00e9 \u00e0 frente do outro enquanto nos afastamos, tanto quanto poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why you should feel sad about not having them in your life anymore. They were there, by your side when you needed them the most, and now they simply do not deserve to be there and hold your hand any longer. You have put too much time and effort into this person and their love that now you have for yourself is a much bigger priority to you than they are.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is better this way. It’s better for you to stop something at the right time instead of waiting <\/span>para que mude<\/span><\/a> e convencendo-se de que um dia tudo ser\u00e1 como deve ser, apesar de n\u00e3o ver essa pessoa a fazer nada para melhorar e mostrar-lhe o seu amor e carinho. <\/span>So why stay any longer and try to fix something that’s broken beyond repair?<\/b><\/p>\n

Just because something ends, doesn’t mean that it should have never happened. <\/b>You loved in a way that you didn’t think to be possible. You loved him so purely, so kindly and gently. You loved him like you never loved anyone before him and that was your success because you were able to look past everything and still love him. He has taught you a lesson. He has made you stronger, because he made you come to these conclusions and make these decisions. It should have happened just the way it did.<\/span><\/p>\n

So do not beat yourself up about the fact that you still love him. Your heart is big enough to hold the love you have for him inside. It doesn’t mean that you should hate yourself for doing so, it means that you will just need more time. <\/span>Ama-o<\/span> e vai am\u00e1-lo durante mais algum tempo, mas n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema nenhum nisso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi capaz de se afastar de um homem que amava. <\/b>I can\u2019t even describe how impressed I am! I love the way your strength has increased, so do not stop here! Keep on walking, keep on building a road that leads away from him. One day you can say that you have let go for sure.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, por agora, seguir em frente sem deixar de o amar \u00e9 suficiente. N\u00e3o te pressiones. N\u00e3o se culpe. N\u00e3o se sinta mal por o amar. Simplesmente tem um passado que a faz continuar a pensar nele e isso \u00e9 perfeitamente normal. Abrace-o e deixe que ele a inspire a continuar a caminhar!<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When people tell you to ‘move on’ it sounds so easy. Like it’s something that could be done overnight. They make it sound like a magic trick, you just wish for that person to disappear out of your life and they just do. They make it sound like moving on is all about walking away…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":21033,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29630],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-no-contact"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29630,"label":"no contact"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/eduardo-dutra-456388-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29630,"name":"no contact","slug":"no-contact","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29630,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","parent":29627,"count":30,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29630,"category_count":30,"category_description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","cat_name":"no contact","category_nicename":"no-contact","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21032","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21032"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21032\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21033"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}