{"id":21073,"date":"2018-07-23T07:30:57","date_gmt":"2018-07-23T07:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21073"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:12:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:12:49","slug":"foi-assim-que-me-perdi-a-amar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-assim-que-me-perdi-a-amar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Como me perdi ao amar-te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Algures pelo caminho, comecei a amar-te mais do que a mim pr\u00f3prio. Algures ao longo desse mesmo caminho, deixaste de me amar completamente.<\/p>\n

I was living on cloud nine when I was with you. I really felt like we connected on every possible level. That\u2019s probably why I didn\u2019t mind us moving so fast in our relationship. We were taking major steps so early on that it scared and thrilled me at the same time.<\/p>\n

Everything felt so right that I couldn\u2019t or wouldn\u2019t stop myself.  I wasn’t even aware that our life was in an express lane and we were unknowingly falling behind.<\/p>\n

I guess I wanted a happily ever after so badly that I ignored the fact that I still hadn\u2019t had the chance to get to know you very well. That we hadn\u2019t had the chance to construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Entr\u00e1mos logo em a\u00e7\u00e3o e esper\u00e1mos pelo melhor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But there are no shortcuts in love. There are no express lanes and skipping the steps. If you don\u2019t build your foundations right, everything will fall apart like a deck of cards\u2014especially when one side gives and feels more, like I did for you.<\/p>\n

Antes de te conhecer, tinha uma vida que me apaixonava. Mas desde que te vi, tornaste-te na minha \u00fanica paix\u00e3o. You became the only thing I thought about and I lived to make you happy. And that\u2019s where everything started going downhill.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I made it my life’s mission to make you happy. I followed your plans and postponed all of mine, so you would be pleased. On the other hand, whenever I wanted us to go somewhere or do something, you would discard it as stupid. I stopped doing so many things and seeing people who were important to me just so you wouldn\u2019t blame me for being lonely.<\/p>\n

I was exaggerating. Every time you even said you like something you saw in a store or online, I would buy it for you. When you wouldn\u2019t shut up about how much you craved pancakes or pizza, I would get up and make it for you. You did some sweet things for me, too, at the beginning, but as soon as it got old, you stopped.<\/p>\n

Nunca parei. Fiz sempre um esfor\u00e7o suplementar para vos satisfazer.<\/strong> Sempre me certifiquei de que todas as tuas necessidades eram satisfeitas e negligenciei as minhas. Tu tamb\u00e9m negligenciaste as minhas. Eu desejava a tua proximidade. Queria que me mostrasses que gostavas tanto de mim como eu de ti.<\/p>\n

Queria que me perguntasses como foi o meu dia. Queria saber que podia recorrer a ti sempre que precisasse. Queria que me ouvisses como eu te ouviria sempre que precisasses de falar. Queria que fosses tu que pusesses o teu orgulho de lado, como eu fiz tantas vezes, e me encontrasses a meio caminho quando est\u00e1vamos a discutir. Mas nunca o fizeste.<\/p>\n

Tu continuavas a tirar e eu continuava a dar at\u00e9 n\u00e3o ter mais nada para dar.<\/strong> Nessa altura, os meus olhos abriram-se. Disse-te como estava infeliz, como esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o era unilateral, como tu tamb\u00e9m devias fazer um esfor\u00e7o. Mas tu disseste que eu estava a pedir demasiado, que te estava a aborrecer com a minha constante insist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Tinha raz\u00e3o, eu era aborrecida. Queria um homem que reparasse em mim. Que me fizesse sentir especial e amada como tu fizeste quando come\u00e7\u00e1mos. Mas esse homem j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estava l\u00e1. Tudo o que eu tinha era um homem que tomaram-me por garantido<\/a>. Who ignored my existence in his life unless he needed something. The one who didn\u2019t know how to love anybody but himself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Parece que amei demasiado. Amei por n\u00f3s os dois e isso custou-me muito.<\/strong> Perdi-me sem o saber. Perdi a minha auto-confian\u00e7a e esqueci-me do meu pr\u00f3prio valor. Em todos os aspectos da minha vida, comecei a dar-te prioridade. Esqueci-me de quem eu era e do que queria. Todos os meus sonhos e aspira\u00e7\u00f5es tornaram-se uma mem\u00f3ria distante.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t blame you. This was my mistake and I am going to make it right. I am going to rebuild my life. The life I am proud of. I am going to find that smile that I lost while I was with you. I am going to make myself happy and and I have already started that journey by leaving you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Somewhere along the way, I started loving you more than I loved myself. Somewhere along that same way, you stopped loving me altogether. I was living on cloud nine when I was with you. I really felt like we connected on every possible level. That\u2019s probably why I didn\u2019t mind us moving so fast in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21078,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jorge.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21073"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21073\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}