{"id":21079,"date":"2020-09-23T07:37:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T07:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21079"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:44:04","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:44:04","slug":"dentro-da-mente-de-uma-rapariga-que-pensa-que-nao-pode-seguir-em-frente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dentro-da-mente-de-uma-rapariga-que-pensa-que-nao-pode-seguir-em-frente\/","title":{"rendered":"A mente de uma rapariga que acha que n\u00e3o consegue seguir em frente"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 uma rapariga que eu conhe\u00e7o. Quando olhamos para esta rapariga, ela parece-se com qualquer outra rapariga normal.<\/b><\/p>\n

Levanta-se todas as manh\u00e3s com um sorriso no rosto, vai para o trabalho e d\u00e1 o seu melhor para ser o mais simp\u00e1tica poss\u00edvel com todos os que a rodeiam.<\/p>\n

Tem amigos e uma vida social. Sai e tem uma \u00f3ptima rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a fam\u00edlia. As pessoas adoram-na e algumas at\u00e9 a admiram.<\/p>\n

Este a rapariga parece estar sempre feliz<\/a> e tem sempre um grande e largo sorriso no rosto. As pessoas admiram a sua for\u00e7a e a forma como lida com tudo na vida.<\/p>\n

When they look at her, they assume that her life is perfect and that she doesn\u2019t have a single worry on her mind.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta pensa que ela \u00e9 a a rapariga mais forte <\/a> sempre. Mesmo quando tem algum inconveniente na vida, lida com ele com uma facilidade e paci\u00eancia incr\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Mas ningu\u00e9m conhece a verdadeira mulher. Ningu\u00e9m sabe que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada do que est\u00e1 a representar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m conhece as suas dificuldades e a dor emocional que ela esconde no seu \u00edntimo.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que todos os seus amigos e familiares sabem que ela teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria. Sabem que existia um homem que ela amava mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

E eles sabem que este homem a abandonou quando ela mais precisava dele. Eles sabem que ele lhe causou muita dor e que ela ficou magoada.<\/p>\n

Mas eles assumem que esse per\u00edodo da vida dela j\u00e1 passou h\u00e1 muito tempo. Assumem que ela deixou esse tipo no passado, onde ele pertence, e que j\u00e1 o ultrapassou h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

After all, she never mentions him to anyone. She doesn\u2019t look sad.<\/p>\n

When they wonder why she hadn\u2019t had a rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria <\/a> ever since the two of them broke up, they justify her by thinking that she hasn\u2019t found the right guy just yet. Besides, she works a lot and she always looks so busy\u2014maybe she doesn\u2019t have time for a relationship.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o fazem ideia do qu\u00e3o ignorantes s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Eles n\u00e3o fazem ideia de que esta rapariga est\u00e1 em constante sofrimento emocional. Isso luta para se levantar da cama todas as manh\u00e3s<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sim, est\u00e3o conscientes de que este homem a magoou, mas n\u00e3o fazem ideia at\u00e9 que ponto.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know he changed her, although on the outside, she looks the same.<\/b><\/p>\n

They have no idea all of her smiles are fake and that she is constantly fighting not to cry. And she does it because she is embarrassed and because she is afraid she\u2019ll appear to be weak.<\/p>\n

But when she\u2019s alone, everything that this guy has done to her is the only thing she can think about.<\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know she cries herself to sleep almost every night.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that she breaks all over again whenever she sees someone looking like her ex or hears a voice similar to his.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that she doesn\u2019t mention him to anyone because she is scared that she would burst into tears the moment she saya his name out loud.<\/p>\n

But most importantly, they don\u2019t know she can\u2019t move on and that <\/b>seguir em frente<\/b><\/a> is the scariest thing for her.  They don\u2019t know that living her life without this guy existing in the back of her head is the thing she wants the most. <\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that he is still blocking her somehow, although he is not present in her life. That this guy is the only reason she is still single.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

All think that she has moved on with her life a while ago, but actually, she hasn\u2019t moved a single inch.<\/p>\n

Porque ela luta. Ela luta para mostrar ao mundo que consegue viver sem ele e luta para lhe mostrar o mesmo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas o mais importante \u00e9 que ela luta todos os dias consigo pr\u00f3pria e com os seus sentimentos. <\/b><\/p>\n

She thinks she can\u2019t move on because she expects that every guy she meets next will be just like her ex. She is certain that the next guy will break the pieces of her already broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that fear paralyzes her. It cages her and she feels like she\u2019ll never free herself from all the pain and misery this man has put her through.<\/p>\n

The only truth is that she hasn\u2019t moved on and that she hasn\u2019t gotten over everything that she went through.<\/p>\n

Mas mant\u00e9m tudo isto escondido dentro de si porque sabe que ningu\u00e9m compreenderia o seu sofrimento e a sua fraqueza.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente perguntam-se como \u00e9 que eu sei tudo isto. Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: eu sou esta rapariga.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t wish for any other woman to be me.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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