{"id":21108,"date":"2018-07-24T07:05:44","date_gmt":"2018-07-24T07:05:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21108"},"modified":"2022-02-10T11:06:59","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T11:06:59","slug":"6-dicas-para-estar-sozinho-sem-se-tornar-solitario","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-dicas-para-estar-sozinho-sem-se-tornar-solitario\/","title":{"rendered":"6 dicas para estar sozinho sem se tornar solit\u00e1rio"},"content":{"rendered":"

A solid\u00e3o \u00e9 o pior sentimento que existe. Pode ser descrito como a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de vazio. Sente-se como se tivesse um enorme buraco no peito e na vida. <\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you constantly miss someone who wasn\u2019t even there and who\u2019s not going to come. And no matter how hard you try to get your shit together and feel happy for a second, you fail. Esse ligeiro sentimento de felicidade que sente \u00e9, na verdade, falso. <\/strong><\/p>\n

The moment you start feeling happy, something inside you simply blocks that feeling. Your subconscious is telling you that happiness is not good for you and that you shouldn\u2019t feel that way at all.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s telling you that you\u2019re meant to feel that empty and that lonely for as long as possible. You can\u2019t shake off that feeling.<\/p>\n

If you recently broke up with someone, you will feel like he\u2019s the only one who could make you feel fulfilled once more.<\/em> But he will never be yours again. And God knows when that feeling will disappear. It could be gone by tomorrow. But it might be that it\u2019s here to stay.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se quiser evitar sentir-se sozinho, aqui ficam algumas dicas que deve seguir:<\/p>\n

1. Conhecer-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Estar sozinho sem se tornar solit\u00e1rio \u00e9 uma tarefa dif\u00edcil. Para n\u00e3o se sentir s\u00f3, \u00e9 preciso conhecer-se a si pr\u00f3prio e aos seus sentimentos.<\/em> Quando compreender os seus sentimentos, saber\u00e1 o que funciona melhor para si e o que o faz feliz.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a mais coisas que o fa\u00e7am feliz.<\/strong> Put all your effort and focus into that, and you\u2019ll find yourself stronger than ever before.<\/p>\n

2. Arranjar um passatempo<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s already been mentioned that you should do more things that make you happy. Find one thing you truly enjoy doing and make a hobby out of it or take some classes, so you could learn something new.<\/p>\n

Existem in\u00fameras possibilidades. Take time to explore and see what you\u2019re interested in.<\/strong> If you prioritize your happiness among other feelings, you\u2019ll forget what loneliness even is.<\/p>\n

3. Sair com os amigos<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sair com os amigos \u00e9 sempre uma boa ideia. Leve-os ao seu restaurante favorito, para que possam p\u00f4r tudo em dia durante uma boa refei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s only one rule: every topic you talk about should be a positive one.<\/strong> Friends who laugh together stay together\u2014and those who eat, as well.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t think about relationships<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

When you see your friend with her boyfriend, don\u2019t instantly think, \u201cI want that\u201d. Think how happy you are that she\u2019s found someone who\u2019s worth her time and makes her happy. Their relationship isn\u2019t perfect.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o o \u00e9.<\/em> But when you\u2019re alone, you create that picture in your head of how the only thing that brings happiness to people is being with someone.<\/p>\n

The reality is much different. Don\u2019t let your imagination fool you. You won\u2019t be happy if you find a boyfriend. You\u2019ll be happy if you decide to be happy.<\/strong> That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t even think about relationships and how others feel. Focus on making yourself happy.<\/p>\n

5. Ocupar-se<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

In order to avoid thinking about relationships, you should get busy, whether it\u2019s with work or with the hobby you\u2019ve created for yourself. The time you have while you\u2019re single is too valuable to waste.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a tua oportunidade de fazeres tudo o que sempre quiseste fazer sem depender de ningu\u00e9m.<\/strong> Tem todo o tempo e energia para fazer o que lhe apetece.<\/p>\n

Por isso, ocupem-se e trabalhem nos vossos sonhos.<\/em> Tornar os seus sonhos realidade<\/a>. You shouldn\u2019t wait for anything. You are the only person who knows how to be you. No one will achieve your dreams for you. If you surround yourself with your dreams, you can never be lonely.<\/p>\n

6. Divertir-se<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

A coisa mais importante na sua vida, em geral, \u00e9 divertir-se.<\/em><\/p>\n

In order to be happy with your life, you need to have fun while living it. Taking every step in your life with a smile on your face is what life should be. You are the only person you have in your life and it\u2019s important to learn how to have fun with yourself. While having fun with yourself, you won\u2019t even think of having fun with anyone else.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being lonely is the worst feeling there is. It could be described as the feeling of emptiness. You feel like you have a huge hole in your chest and in your life. It\u2019s like you constantly miss someone who wasn\u2019t even there and who\u2019s not going to come. And no matter how hard you try…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":21109,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21108","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/kyle-loftus-592091-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21108","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21108"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21108\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21109"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21108"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21108"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21108"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}