{"id":21111,"date":"2019-07-24T07:12:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T07:12:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21111"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:26","slug":"quando-se-encontrar-viciada-naquele-homem-inatingivel-leia-isto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-se-encontrar-viciada-naquele-homem-inatingivel-leia-isto\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando te encontrares presa \u00e0quele homem inating\u00edvel, l\u00ea isto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se eu pudesse espreitar a mente dele e ver o que ele est\u00e1 a pensar. Estar\u00e1 ele a pensar em mim? Ser\u00e1 que ele sabe a cor dos meus olhos e a forma como as minhas sardas formam uma Via L\u00e1ctea no meu nariz? Porque \u00e9 que ele se sente t\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximo num momento e t\u00e3o distante no outro? Ser\u00e1 que ele lutar contra os seus sentimentos<\/a> ou \u00e9 apenas a enganar-me<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Milh\u00f5es de perguntas devem estar a passar ininterruptamente pela sua cabe\u00e7a quando se encontra agarrada a esse homem inating\u00edvel. Para si, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 outro como ele neste mundo. Ningu\u00e9m pode despertar os seus sentimentos e faz\u00ea-la sentir-se t\u00e3o viva como ele.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, tamb\u00e9m ningu\u00e9m consegue fazer-nos sentir t\u00e3o em baixo como ele.<\/strong> Tears roll down your face every time you are alone, waiting for him to show up when he said he would…when you fall asleep without that text goodnight because he forgot to send it…when you are left for too long without his hugs.<\/p>\n

Medimos o tempo pelos momentos que pass\u00e1mos com ele e sem ele. Quando estamos com ele, o tempo voa e o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o bate t\u00e3o forte que ele consegue ouvir. Parece um sonho que acaba sempre demasiado cedo. Mas quando ele est\u00e1 longe, os minutos parecem horas, as horas parecem dias e os dias parecem uma eternidade.<\/p>\n

But he doesn’t have your sense of time. He doesn\u2019t mind that you are waiting for him. He doesn\u2019t know that he is hurting you\u2014or he does but he doesn\u2019t care. He is not rushing to see you. He doesn\u2019t make time for you and everything else seems to come first. Everything else is more important and it\u2019s killing you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ele vir\u00e1 atr\u00e1s de ti quando tu deixares de ir atr\u00e1s dele. Ele enviar\u00e1 uma mensagem de texto quando vir que a sua mensagem n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a chegar. Convid\u00e1-la-\u00e1 para sair quando deixar de lhe pedir tempo. Ele vir\u00e1 ver-te quando come\u00e7ares a pensar que ele n\u00e3o voltar\u00e1 a aparecer. Ele vai sentir a tua falta<\/a> quando j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estiveres dispon\u00edvel. Ele vai atr\u00e1s de si assim que sentir que lhe est\u00e1 a escapar por entre os dedos, mas assim que o apanha, perde o interesse.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow him to catch you if he has no intention to stay. Don\u2019t allow it if he has no strength to hold on tight. You don\u2019t need a part-time lover and half-assed commitments. You don\u2019t need a man who is going to be there only when it\u2019s convenient…only when he feels lonely and in need of a woman\u2019s touch. You deserve more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You deserve so much more than he is giving you and it\u2019s time you admit it to yourself. You deserve someone who will be able to commit, someone who will be sure about his feelings and show them in words or actions.<\/p>\n

His unattainability might have been interesting at first. But you always hoped that he would change. The crumbs he was serving you might have been enough at first, but they are not now. You want more now\u2014more of his time, efforts, investments and reciprocity.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o pensem que est\u00e3o a pedir demasiado. Est\u00e1 apenas a pedir para receber de volta o que j\u00e1 \u00e9 dando-lhe<\/a>\u2014nothing more and nothing less. You can\u2019t be the only one who makes all the efforts. You can\u2019t be the one who always loves more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mereces muito mais. Ter\u00e1s muito mais. Mas n\u00e3o com ele. Tem de o deixar ir e encontrar a sua felicidade noutro lugar. Comece a encontr\u00e1-la dentro de si e, um dia, aparecer\u00e1 algu\u00e9m digno para aumentar a sua felicidade.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay somewhere where you are not appreciated. Don\u2019t let him come in and out of your life like you are a stop along the way. Don\u2019t waste your time on someone who has one foot out of the door at all times. Break the spell he has on you and see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t chase someone unattainable. Guard your heart for the man who is going to be all in. The man who won\u2019t play games and be only partially involved. The man who will never make you feel like you are alone in all of this. The one you can trust. The one who is ready to be all that you need.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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If I could just peek into his mind and see what he is thinking. Is he thinking about me at all? Does he know the color of my eyes and the way in which my freckles form a Milky Way on my nose? Why does he feel so close at one moment and so distant…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blake-cheek-663682-unsplash.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21111"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21111\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}