{"id":21114,"date":"2018-07-24T07:32:36","date_gmt":"2018-07-24T07:32:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21114"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:10:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:10:32","slug":"nao-vou-perder-mais-o-meu-tempo-com-os-teus-sinais-contraditorios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-vou-perder-mais-o-meu-tempo-com-os-teus-sinais-contraditorios\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o vou perder mais o meu tempo com os teus sinais contradit\u00f3rios"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve already wasted 2 years, 25 days, 2 hours and 12 minutes deciphering your mixed signals and I won\u2019t waste another second. I won\u2019t wait for a miracle. I won\u2019t spend my life hoping for something that will never be. I am putting a stop to it here and now.<\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t agree. I know you will want me back now that I am slipping through your fingers. I know it because we\u2019ve already had situations like this. I would say how I can\u2019t put up with your crap anymore and that we are done. But you would always find a way to sneak back under my skin.<\/p>\n<p>Dizias-me tudo o que eu queria ouvir e eu acreditava em ti porque o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o queria acreditar em ti. Os meus instintos diziam-me que estavas a mentir, mas eu queria que eles estivessem errados, por isso decidi ignor\u00e1-los. Fui contra o meu bom senso e continuei a depositar toda a minha confian\u00e7a em algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o vago.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Usaste esses sinais contradit\u00f3rios para me manteres t\u00e3o perto quanto querias e nem um mil\u00edmetro mais perto. Eu estava sempre algures \u00e0 frente do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas nunca me deixaste entrar verdadeiramente. Por outro lado, todo o meu ser era todo teu e tu sabias bem disso.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sabias o qu\u00e3o fortes eram os meus sentimentos e tomaste isso como a minha fraqueza. Em vez de me apreciares e \u00e0 forma como te tratei, continuaste a fazer jogos. Um dia, estavas em cima de mim. Eu era o sol do teu dia e o luar que te guiava durante a noite e, no momento seguinte, desligavas-me completamente.<\/p>\n<p>You would send me the sweetest text and then go days without responding to a text from me. You would make plans for us to see a movie I\u2019d been telling you about for so long and then you would cancel plans last minute. You would say I was the most beautiful and most interesting woman alive then you would go weeks without seeing me, always having some lame-ass excuse.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-razoes-comuns-pelas-quais-um-homem-nao-quer-por-etiqueta-numa-relacao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nunca quiseste rotular<\/a> anything because you were not ready but then you would introduce me to your friends. You would say you can\u2019t commit right now but you don\u2019t know what the future will bring. You would say you don\u2019t want to be exclusive but you couldn\u2019t stand seeing me with anybody else.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Eras cheio de contradi\u00e7\u00f5es. Dizias uma coisa, fazias outra e s\u00f3 Deus sabe o que estavas realmente a pensar. Estavas a usar esses sinais contradit\u00f3rios. Confiavas em que eu visse o melhor de ti e h\u00e1 muito tempo que te tens safado.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>For way too long in fact and I should have put a stop to this a long time ago. I should have remembered that I am worthy of love\u2014that true, unconditional, can&#8217;t live without you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/amor-verdadeiro-beijos-palavras-doces\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tipo de amor<\/a>\u2014and not settle for this BS you were giving me. I should have seen that the message behind those mixed signals was obvious: you just don\u2019t care about me enough.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I\u2019ve finally gotten that message now. 2 years, 25 days, 2 hours and 12 minutes after but just in time to say my final goodbye and thank you for the lesson. I will never again waste my time on anybody who even tries to send me mixed signals. Next time, I will recognize the meaning behind the message. Next time, I will ignore it without giving it a second look.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve already wasted 2 years, 25 days, 2 hours and 12 minutes deciphering your mixed signals and I won\u2019t waste another second. I won\u2019t wait for a miracle. I won\u2019t spend my life hoping for something that will never be. I am putting a stop to it here and now. I know you don\u2019t agree&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21115,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/joshua-rawson-harris-665620-unsplash.jpg",800,541,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21114","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21114"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21114\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21115"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21114"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21114"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21114"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}