{"id":21124,"date":"2020-08-24T10:30:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-24T10:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21124"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:09:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:09:09","slug":"se-sentes-que-nunca-foste-a-prioridade-de-alguem-le-isto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-sentes-que-nunca-foste-a-prioridade-de-alguem-le-isto\/","title":{"rendered":"Se te sentes como se nunca tivesses sido a prioridade de algu\u00e9m, l\u00ea isto"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s frustrating…I know. It makes you give up on everything and just leave to somewhere no one will ever find you.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-nos vontade de nos fecharmos no nosso quarto e nunca mais sairmos. Faz-nos pensar se somos n\u00f3s o problema. Ser\u00e1s tu? Est\u00e1s t\u00e3o lixado que ningu\u00e9m te leva a s\u00e9rio?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m going to stop you right there. It\u2019s not you. You are not the one to blame for the shit that is happening to you. You are not the one to blame that destiny made you nothing but a acompanhante <\/a> para j\u00e1.<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019ve been living from one heartbreak to another. I know you can\u2019t and don\u2019t want to go through that anymore, but if you give up now, it means you\u2019ve lost the war.<\/p>\n

These are just life\u2019s battles that you need to win and overcome. These are just tests until the right thing comes along.<\/p>\n

Yeah, I know, right man? Like that exists! I know you\u2019ve become bitter and angry, and you don\u2019t trust anything and anyone anymore.<\/p>\n

But, as cheesy as it sounds, it\u2019s true. We all have someone out there for us. There is another half to every single person on this planet. You just haven\u2019t met yours yet.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You\u2019re still young and there is plenty of time ahead of you. There is plenty of time with hugs and kisses, of feeling loved and to love.<\/p>\n

Stop questioning yourself and thinking it\u2019s your fault that you can\u2019t find someone, the kind of man you deserve.<\/p>\n

No, you\u2019re not fat. You\u2019re not ugly. You\u2019re not bad in bed. It\u2019s not you! You\u2019re only making yourself insecure. You\u2019re putting such pressure on yourself.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to be perfect to be loved.<\/b><\/p>\n

But you have to stick up for what you believe in. The reason why you always end up being someone\u2019s plano de reserva <\/a> is because you won\u2019t settle for something you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Recusa-se a contentar-se com um homem que n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno do seu amor.<\/p>\n

Finding love is not such a big deal\u2014if you\u2019re willing to do whatever he wants you to…if you\u2019re willing to change for him and obey his every wish…if you\u2019re willing to be manipulated.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You can find that kind of \u2018love\u2019 anytime you want. But finding true, selfless love is a definite challenge. And you don\u2019t have to be sad because you are still searching.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing the right thing and one day in the future, you\u2019ll thank yourself for not giving up. You\u2019ll thank yourself for healing after every single heartbreak you\u2019ve lived through. You\u2019ll love yourself for not giving up on love.<\/p>\n

Next time you meet someone, don\u2019t play by their rules. Don\u2019t go up their street because they will take advantage of you. Be honest from the start.<\/p>\n

Tell them what you want and what you expect. They don\u2019t have to think the same as you. They don\u2019t have to agree on everything and that\u2019s more than okay.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to get things out in the open than to discover skeletons in their closet when it\u2019s too late, when you can\u2019t avoid getting your heart broken.<\/p>\n

You deserve to feel butterflies in your stomach when you see him. You deserve to be proud of him. You deserve to be genuinely happy without pretending to be something that you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Every time it\u2019s not like this, just walk away. It\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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