{"id":21142,"date":"2020-07-25T06:34:05","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T06:34:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21142"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:34:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:34:16","slug":"uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-o-seu-ex-namorado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-o-seu-ex-namorado\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a rapariga que quer voltar para o seu ex-namorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Please, don\u2019t do that. You\u2019ve spent more than enough time on someone like him. He\u2019s not worth it, and you should\u2019ve realized that by now. If you get back together with someone who never respected your love, you\u2019ll lose o seu respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll give him a second chance to manipulate you and to break your heart.<\/strong> Don\u2019t trust him when he says he\u2019s changed. Change is something that takes a lot of time and effort.<\/p>\n

Someone who easily breaks another person\u2019s heart will need much more time to change. And above all, he needs to have the will to change.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 ele o tipo de pessoa que estaria disposta a mudar a sua mentalidade? Duvido. Uma vez um destruidor de cora\u00e7\u00f5es, sempre um destruidor de cora\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

E tu? Do you even care about yourself? Because if you do, you wouldn\u2019t be thinking about this now.<\/strong> Estaria a fazer algo que realmente o beneficia e o realiza.<\/p>\n

You would be taking care of yourself and having the time of your life now that you don\u2019t have anyone to tie you down. Not only that you\u2019re single, but you\u2019re truly free.<\/p>\n

Your soul is now free of any bad substance that his toxic love brought you. You should be proud of yourself because you survived. You survived something that could\u2019ve left you broken you for good.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t take you much to heal your heart and to be brand new again. Of course, that will happen when you stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n

Outro aspeto que deve ser tido em conta \u00e9 que someone who truly loves you wouldn\u2019t let anything bad happen to you, let alone do something bad to you himself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Was his love really true love? No, honey, it wasn\u2019t. And you\u2019re still thinking of him? He\u2019s not worth it. Someone who doesn\u2019t know what love is is definitely not worth your time.<\/p>\n

The one who is worth your time is the one who respects it. He respects your time, your love and your personality. Don\u2019t settle for less than that.<\/p>\n

Deves a ti pr\u00f3prio continuar solteiro at\u00e9 encontrares algu\u00e9m que te trate como mereces ser tratado.<\/strong> Deve a si pr\u00f3prio cuidar de si.<\/p>\n

Let him go. Letting him go is part of your healing process and it\u2019s the only way you can move on with your life.<\/p>\n

You might be lonely and hurting now, but that doesn\u2019t mean good things won\u2019t start happening tomorrow.<\/strong> E v\u00e3o acontecer, se realmente quiser que aconte\u00e7am.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But if you want to be stuck with a guy like him, then good things will take time. You might be thinking how he\u2019s the only guy you love and the only one you will ever love.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sure, if your love for him was true, he will never be completely erased from your heart. But he will be forgotten some day. You won\u2019t be able to remember the way he made you feel when you meet someone who is ready to give you everything you need.<\/p>\n

Once you meet the love of your life, this guy you\u2019re thinking of right now will never cross your mind again. Maybe you\u2019re asking yourself if he\u2019s the love of your life.<\/p>\n

He might be. Seriously, it might be that he is, but you can\u2019t know that now. If he\u2019s the one you\u2019re meant to be with, your paths will cross again in the future.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not something you should worry about right now. Time will show you everything you need to know.<\/p>\n

The only thing you should do right now is find a way to relax. Spend some time with yourself and enjoy everything you didn\u2019t have a chance to do while you were with him. Live your life to the fullest.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a vossa oportunidade para um novo come\u00e7o, por isso \u00e9 melhor n\u00e3o a desperdi\u00e7arem.<\/strong> It\u2019s time to enjoy everything you are and everything you have. It\u2019s time to focus on yourself and your own needs.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Make yourself a priority and you\u2019ll see how much your life is going to change in a good way. Assim que curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e come\u00e7ar a colocar alguma energia boa no universo, essa energia encontrar\u00e1 o seu caminho de volta para si.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Good things happen to everyone. Sometimes they\u2019re so small that the majority of people choose not to see them. But if you give value to those little things, you\u2019ll know how to appreciate the big ones.<\/p>\n

Apreciem tudo o que entra na vossa vida. Mesmo esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9, \u00e0 sua maneira, uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> If there\u2019s one thing to learn out of this, it is to appreciate and love yourself.<\/p>\n

Lembra-te: tu ensinas as pessoas a tratarem-te<\/a>. Don\u2019t let anyone break your heart again. Love yourself in order to be loved by others. Those who see your true colors will love every shade of them.<\/p>\n

Show the world who you are and how strong you can be. It\u2019s your time to shine and his time to suffer when he realizes what kind of a woman he\u2019s lost.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Please, don\u2019t do that. You\u2019ve spent more than enough time on someone like him. He\u2019s not worth it, and you should\u2019ve realized that by now. If you get back together with someone who never respected your love, you\u2019ll lose your self-respect. You\u2019ll give him a second chance to manipulate you and to break your heart….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":114417,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Get-Back-Together-With-Her-Ex-Boyfriend-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21142"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21142\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}