{"id":21264,"date":"2020-07-26T11:58:40","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T11:58:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21264"},"modified":"2022-01-20T16:01:37","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T16:01:37","slug":"tenho-de-pedir-a-vossa-atencao-nem-sequer-a-quero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tenho-de-pedir-a-vossa-atencao-nem-sequer-a-quero\/","title":{"rendered":"Se tenho de pedir a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 porque nem sequer a quero"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hello! Let me tell you something about myself that might even shock you: I am a very strong-willed female who knows exactly what she wants and begging for your attention, gratitude or affection isn’t one of those things. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

J\u00e1 passei por demasiadas coisas para me ajoelhar e pedir-te que me ames, j\u00e1 passei por demasiadas rela\u00e7\u00f5es m\u00e1s para voltar a cometer o mesmo erro e ser educada em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos meus desejos e necessidades. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

That’s why, if you aren’t able to give me the things I deserve right away, I do not even want them.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

I see that you must be a nice guy. You seem like one of those who does not know that they are hurting a woman, you look like a man who thinks he knows how to respect a woman but also does not know that ‘respect’ includes so many more things than to <\/span>que uma mulher seja livre<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Why don’t you respect me by listening to me? <\/b><\/p>\r\n

Whenever I try to talk to you, your mind goes blank and your ears shut down. Repeating myself while you’re on your phone is not what I want a relationship to be.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Homem<\/p>\r\n

I want you to look me in the eyes while I’m talking and to give me a reason to continue telling you my story, for I find it to be very important, because I am giving a part of myself to you. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque continuas a revirar os olhos? Porque continuas a ignorar-me? Ser\u00e1 que eu quero saber? Se tenho de te pedir que me ou\u00e7as como deve ser, n\u00e3o te incomodes mais em ficar na minha companhia.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Independentemente do que penses, n\u00e3o sou pegajosa.<\/b> Ser pegajoso<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 algo muito diferente do que eu sou. Sou uma mulher que est\u00e1 farta que os homens a tratem como se fosse algo que lhes pertence, em que o que quer que eles fa\u00e7am, ela tem de lhes obedecer. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

N\u00e3o vou. N\u00e3o quero que penses que vou ficar por aqui, independentemente da forma como me tratares. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

N\u00e3o penses que te vou amar s\u00f3 por causa dos teus olhos encantadores, porque eu acredito que o amor \u00e9 algo muito mais do que isso.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

O amor \u00e9 sobre duas pessoas que est\u00e3o preparadas para trabalhar uma com a outra por causa daquele sentimento tr\u00e9mulo no peito que lhes diz que foram feitas uma para a outra.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

\"casal<\/p>\r\n

Are you prepared to work alongside me to make this life wonderful? To make this life full of magical moments that you and I will share? You can’t expect me to do all the work while those games on your phone keep on telling you that you lost. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Se continuar <\/span>transformar o nosso amor num jogo<\/span><\/a>, em breve ser\u00e1 o fim do jogo, meu amigo.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

I don’t want to be a woman who is nothing more than a conversation starter when you meet your friends.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Quero ser uma mulher cujas ambi\u00e7\u00f5es e intelig\u00eancia nos tocam profundamente porque nunca vimos ningu\u00e9m ou nada como ela. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Quero que vejam em mim um guerreiro quando olham para os meus olhos por causa de tudo o que j\u00e1 passei. Quero ser vista, apreciada e amada.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"casal<\/p>\r\n

Eu tenho direito a todas estas coisas que te estou a pedir, por isso, se achas que \u00e9 demasiado para ti, afasta-te imediatamente.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

<\/b>I do not want to waste your time, because you might find someone more suitable for you; a woman who doesn’t expect texts from you, a woman who does not <\/span>preciso que fiques<\/span>by her side when she is upset, because if you truly want that\u2014I am not the right girl for you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Se tenho de pedir a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o nem sequer a quero. Porque \u00e9 que eu havia de implorar a um homem para me dar algo que \u00e9 a raiz de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pelo menos na minha opini\u00e3o? Temos de mostrar amor um ao outro. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

I want you to talk to me and not ignore me. I want you to stay next to me, not walk away when I sit next to you. If you can’t accept my needs, then por favor, sai da minha vida<\/a> imediatamente.<\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n

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