{"id":21288,"date":"2020-05-27T10:16:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T10:16:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21288"},"modified":"2022-01-20T21:58:34","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T21:58:34","slug":"9-razoes-para-adiar-o-sexo-no-inicio-de-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-razoes-para-adiar-o-sexo-no-inicio-de-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"9 raz\u00f5es para adiar o sexo no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Porque \u00e9 que parece que tudo o que estamos a fazer \u00e9 ir para os extremos? Antigamente, as pessoas costumavam esperar pelo casamento para ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais, ao contr\u00e1rio do que acontece atualmente, em que as pessoas t\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais no primeiro encontro.<\/p>\n

I am not saying we should wait for marriage or even sincere love (unless for some reason we decide to do so); I am just saying we shouldn\u2019t make it so easy either. We should wait at least a little while.<\/p>\n

Veja o raz\u00f5es para adiar o sexo no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> que lhe mostrar\u00e1 porque \u00e9 que esperar \u00e9 realmente uma boa ideia:<\/p>\n

1. Gratifica\u00e7\u00e3o retardada<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ao esperar por um determinado momento para fazer sexo, estamos a aumentar as nossas hip\u00f3teses de o tornar fant\u00e1stico. Antes do ato sexual propriamente dito, os preliminares t\u00eam lugar na nossa mente.<\/p>\n

Ao esperar, permitimos que o nosso tens\u00f5es sexuais<\/a> to grow, we build anticipation and there is a sense of mystery that makes us eager to take each other\u2019s clothes off.<\/p>\n

Quando h\u00e1 tanta qu\u00edmica no ar, esperar n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada f\u00e1cil; vai exigir enormes quantidades de determina\u00e7\u00e3o e auto-disciplina, mas quando se pensa no objetivo final, que \u00e9 aumentar o prazer, tudo se torna um pouco mais suport\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

2. Criar la\u00e7os afectivos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando adiamos o sexo desde o in\u00edcio, damos tempo a outros aspectos da rela\u00e7\u00e3o para progredirem. Ficamos a conhecer a pessoa com quem estamos sem que o sexo interfira.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014who has time for deep conversations and really getting to know each other when our bodies do all the talking.<\/p>\n

Adiar o sexo d\u00e1-lhe tempo suficiente para estabelecer liga\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais e criar confian\u00e7a. Isso far\u00e1 com que se sinta mais confort\u00e1vel com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Sex won\u2019t be just sex, it will be so much more intimate. If you are looking for something long-term, it\u2019s a good idea to connect emotionally first.<\/p>\n

3. Falso sentimento de apego<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando se faz sexo no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, isso pode provocar sentimentos de proximidade e de liga\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 f\u00e1cil apanhar-se a ir depressa demais.<\/p>\n

What you feel and what you know in your mind won\u2019t be the same. You will be aware that you barely know the person but you will get this false feeling of love and connection.<\/p>\n

Most people can\u2019t separar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es do sexo<\/a>, even if they want to. If you caught yourself moving too fast after casual sex, being obsessed or too clingy, maybe that\u2019s a sign to slow things down.<\/p>\n

Also when our judgment is clouded by this false feeling of attachment, it\u2019s easier to overlook a person who is utterly wrong for us in every aspect. Be careful.<\/p>\n

4. Sex isn\u2019t glue<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Embora, por vezes, possa parecer que sim. H\u00e1 muitas pessoas que pensam que o sexo as aproxima do objeto da sua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t tie people to us using sex. We can\u2019t make anybody stay if there is nothing more to it.<\/p>\n

Claro que o sexo pode fazer com que passem um determinado per\u00edodo de tempo juntos. No entanto, o sexo em si n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para fazer com que uma pessoa se comprometa.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o houver subst\u00e2ncia ou uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda, nem mesmo o melhor sexo do mundo far\u00e1 com que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\n

5. Reduzir o risco de arrependimento<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Se dormir com algu\u00e9m que conheceu h\u00e1 horas ou mesmo dias, h\u00e1 uma grande probabilidade de se arrepender.<\/p>\n

As apar\u00eancias iludem e as pessoas nem sempre s\u00e3o t\u00e3o boas como se fazem parecer.<\/p>\n

V\u00e1 com calma e n\u00e3o se arrependa. Tenha a certeza do que sente antes de se tornar mais \u00edntimo de algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Um outro risco que est\u00e1 a correr \u00e9 o de contrair uma DST, que \u00e9 bastante comum hoje em dia.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t know anything about your sexual partner\u2019s history, you can\u2019t be sure that your health isn\u2019t on the line here.<\/p>\n

6. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de pressa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Vivemos numa era em que tudo se move t\u00e3o rapidamente. Por isso, por defeito, n\u00e3o vemos raz\u00e3o para esperar por nada.<\/p>\n

But where are we really rushing to? If we are forming a relationship with somebody, won\u2019t we have plenty of days ahead of us or even a lifetime to fazer amor<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Also if you feel pressured to sleep with somebody you are not really that much into because you are afraid that they will perceive you as a prude then that\u2019s one more reason not to do it.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t care what other people think or do anything that makes you feel even a tiny bit uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

7. Decluttering dos tipos errados<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se o facto de n\u00e3o ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais de imediato for um obst\u00e1culo para algu\u00e9m, saber\u00e1 imediatamente qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

The one who is looking for something more than just sex won\u2019t have a problem waiting for a while.<\/p>\n

Passar tempo consigo e conhec\u00ea-lo melhor deve ser mais do que suficiente para algu\u00e9m que gosta realmente de si e est\u00e1 aberto \u00e0 possibilidade de algo mais empenhado e significativo.<\/p>\n

8. Press\u00e3o social<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to feel like you are missing out when everyone around you is having sex and you are living the life of a celibate monk.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to crave sex and miss it but that doesn\u2019t mean you should be with just anybody.<\/p>\n

Especialmente se estiver mais inclinado para algo com significado.<\/p>\n

One-night stands and random hook-ups will maybe provide instant gratification but will most likely make you feel empty on the inside. So don\u2019t compare yourself with anybody.<\/p>\n

Think about what you really want from all of it before engaging in something that\u2019s not right for you.<\/p>\n

9. Voltar ao essencial<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muito mais na intimidade f\u00edsica do que simplesmente ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais e parece que devemos lembrar-nos disso.<\/p>\n

While holding off sex, it doesn’t mean we can\u2019t beijo<\/a>, abra\u00e7o<\/a> ou acariciar<\/a> para expressar a paix\u00e3o e o afeto que sentimos pela pessoa com quem estamos a namorar.<\/p>\n

By not going all the way but showing glimpses of what\u2019s coming, the anticipation just gets bigger and bigger. It awakens our imagination and makes us crave sex even more.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se do que leu no motivo #1 sobre adiar a gratifica\u00e7\u00e3o e obter mais prazer? Bem, esta \u00e9 a melhor forma de o conseguir.\"9<\/p>\n

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Why does it seem that all we are doing is going to extremes? In the past, people usually used to wait until they were married to have sex as opposed to today, where they usually have sex on the first date. I am not saying we should wait for marriage or even sincere love (unless…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":88453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21288","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/9-Reasons-To-Hold-Off-Sex-At-The-Beginning-Of-A-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21288","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21288"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21288\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21288"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21288"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21288"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}