{"id":21342,"date":"2018-07-30T10:49:31","date_gmt":"2018-07-30T10:49:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21342"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:01:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:01:45","slug":"ao-meu-ex-que-tentou-voltar-para-mim-dizendo-me-que-tem-saudades-minhas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ao-meu-ex-que-tentou-voltar-para-mim-dizendo-me-que-tem-saudades-minhas\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o meu ex que tentou voltar para mim, dizendo-me que sente a minha falta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando me deixaste, a \u00fanica coisa que eu queria que acontecesse era que tu <\/span>voltar<\/span><\/a>. Rezei para que viesses \u00e0 minha porta, para me dizeres que tinhas saudades minhas e para me pedires desculpa por tudo o que me fizeste.<\/span><\/p>\n

I hoped that with time, you\u2019d realize that I was the only woman you could ever love and that you\u2019d understand that you made a mistake when you walked away from me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas passaram-se dias e meses e nada disso aconteceu. Era mais do que evidente que tinhas seguido em frente com a tua vida e que te tinhas esquecido de mim.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this realization broke my heart all over again. I couldn\u2019t believe you were so heartless and that you could erase me from your life, as if I was never a part of it<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas apesar de toda a dor emocional que estava a sentir, sabia que j\u00e1 era altura de fazer o mesmo. J\u00e1 era altura de continuar com a minha vida e de admitir para mim mesma que tu fazias parte do meu passado.<\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014I didn\u2019t get over you easily. It took me a lot of pain and tears to accept the fact that you weren\u2019t coming back to me and that you\u2019d stopped loving me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas acabei por aceitar esse facto. E finalmente comecei a viver a minha vida sem ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that was when you reappeared. It was like you had a sixth sense, telling you that I was about to forget you completely and you weren\u2019t going to let that happen.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you were telling me everything I had wanted to hear for all those months I\u2019d spent suffering for you. All of a sudden, all of my dreams were coming true: <\/b>o meu ex sentiu a minha falta<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas adivinhem<\/b>\u2014<\/span>era demasiado tarde para poder fazer alguma coisa.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I didn\u2019t believe a word you were saying. Because finally, I knew better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Eu sabia que nunca me amaste.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because you don\u2019t leave the person you love without any reason. You don\u2019t walk away from them, knowing that you are breaking their heart. And you certainly don\u2019t leave them tearing apart, while you continue living your life, as if nothing has happened.<\/span><\/p>\n

E eu sabia que acabarias por me partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o outra vez se te deixasse voltar a entrar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sabia que voltarias aos teus velhos h\u00e1bitos assim que me visses a perdoar-te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sabia que o facto de eu te aceitar de volta seria um sinal de que podias fazer o que quisesses comigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

E que eu estaria sempre l\u00e1 para vos receber de m\u00e3o aberta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sabia que s\u00f3 precisavas de confirmar que eu ainda te amava e que ainda me podias ter sempre que quisesses. Eu sabia que s\u00f3 querias ter a certeza de que tinhas a tua rede de seguran\u00e7a e o teu plano de apoio, se tudo o resto na tua vida corresse mal. Eu sabia que s\u00f3 precisavas de algu\u00e9m para aumentar o teu ego.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you\u2019d come to the wrong person.<\/span><\/p>\n

When I sent you away, I couldn\u2019t believe what I was doing. But there I was, standing in front of you and telling you to go to hell. Telling you <\/b>era demasiado tarde<\/b><\/a> para fazeres o que quer que seja.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest<\/b>\u2014<\/span>o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o estava a partir-se em peda\u00e7os enquanto eu dizia estas palavras.<\/b><\/p>\n

But I knew that you didn\u2019t deserve a place in my life. And I knew this was something I had to do if I wanted to heal completely.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019d spent so many nights crying myself to sleep and praying for this to happen and now when it was finally happening, I was the one letting it slide through my hands. When you finally came to me, telling me everything I wanted to hear, I was the one chasing you away.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, tive medo de me arrepender da minha decis\u00e3o no momento em que te visse realmente a afastares-te outra vez. Tive medo que fossem os meus rancores e o meu ego a falar, e que acabasse por te implorar para voltares.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas, felizmente para mim, nada disso aconteceu. Mantive a minha decis\u00e3o, sabendo que era a coisa certa a fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that I never once regretted the fact I didn\u2019t take you back.<\/span><\/p>\n

E agora sei que foi a melhor decis\u00e3o da minha vida.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you left me, the only thing I wanted to happen was for you to come back. I prayed for you to come to my doorstep, telling me you miss me and telling me how sorry you were for everything you did to me. I hoped that with time, you\u2019d realize that I was the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":21343,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21342","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/taras-chernus-757005-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21342","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21342"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21342\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21342"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}