{"id":21382,"date":"2020-04-26T07:42:25","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T07:42:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21382"},"modified":"2022-04-25T00:02:45","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T00:02:45","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-tens-um-amigo-falso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-tens-um-amigo-falso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que tens um amigo falso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Everyone has experienced at least one fake friendship in his life. It\u2019s normal. It happens all the time that people pretend to be friends with someone just to get something from them.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, it\u2019s a very usual thing. And, to be honest, it\u2019s a really shitty thing.<\/p>\n

Those kinds of people don\u2019t have any conscience and will never be able to truly love somebody\u2014not to mention the number of people they will hurt in their life.<\/p>\n

Ser magoado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9, de certa forma, esperado porque a maioria das rela\u00e7\u00f5es acaba assim. Mas ser magoado numa amizade n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil de aceitar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nobody expects to be hurt by someone who\u2019s their friend. That word has a huge value to people. A friend is like a family member you choose and love without any conditions.<\/p>\n

It is a person that will always be around no matter what. It\u2019s someone who will always check on you. It\u2019s someone who shares your love for photography or shopping.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s someone who supports you and pushes you. It\u2019s someone who sits in the first row, cheering for you when you\u2019re on the stage.<\/p>\n

Those kinds of friends exist. But, it could be that you haven\u2019t been that lucky to find them yet.<\/p>\n

In the future, don\u2019t lose time on someone who\u2019s not ready to be your real friend. If you\u2019re not willing to settle for less in a relationship, then don\u2019t settle for less in a friendship either.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o os sinais que o podem ajudar a detetar mais facilmente um amigo falso. Quando o fizeres, acaba definitivamente com um amigo assim.<\/p>\n

F\u00e1-lo para o teu pr\u00f3prio bem. Ter zero amigos \u00e9 melhor do que ter amigos falsos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. S\u00f3 o contactam quando precisam de alguma coisa.<\/span><\/h2>\n

You never get a text that simply says \u2018How are you?\u2019. That\u2019s not their style. They will ask you that sometimes but will never expect the answer.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t care<\/a> how are you. That could only be an intro to what they\u2019re going to say next.<\/p>\n

You can guess\u2014they\u2019re going to ask you for a favor. And they won\u2019t take \u2018no\u2019 for an answer.<\/p>\n

They will insist that you make time for them because they secretly think that whatever you\u2019re doing in your life is not that important. They expect you to be there when they need you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not there, then you\u2019re not a friend. They treat you like you owe them something and they will never let you off the hook if you don\u2019t pay off your debt.<\/p>\n

2. You don\u2019t hang out with them that often.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Sure, it could be that you\u2019re both very busy, but it also could be that your friend doesn\u2019t want to spend time with you. Fake friends are like that.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t care about going out with you. They call you for a drink from time to time only because they feel obligated to go out with you.<\/p>\n

3. Eles falam e falam e falam.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even when you go out together, you\u2019re not the one who leads the conversation. You are the one who listens.<\/p>\n

Not only that they lead the conversation, but they can\u2019t stop talking. The only topic they talk about is something that\u2019s bothering them.<\/p>\n

Of course, they\u2019re not going to ask if something\u2019s bothering you. They won\u2019t even ask for your opinion about their problems.<\/p>\n

You are there to listen and nothing else. Basically, you\u2019re giving them a free therapy session.<\/p>\n

4. Vai-se sempre aos s\u00edtios que eles escolhem.<\/span><\/h2>\n

You\u2019re going with them to the concert of the band you don\u2019t even like?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re aware that you\u2019re being invited just to keep them company. They didn\u2019t have anyone else to go with them, so they called you.<\/p>\n

You are always their last option and are being used only as a plus one. You\u2019re not joining the party\u2014you\u2019re there so they wouldn\u2019t be alone.<\/p>\n

E, claro, nunca recusar\u00e1s um amigo. Ir\u00e1 com ele para onde ele precisar de ir.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t bother asking them to go somewhere with you because they will be extremely busy that day or even that whole week.<\/p>\n

5. You don\u2019t feel like yourself when you\u2019re around them.<\/span><\/h2>\n

This is the biggest red flag that you\u2019re spending your time with wrong people. If you don\u2019t feel like yourself when you\u2019re around someone, then you shouldn\u2019t be around him anymore.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso estar rodeado de pessoas que o preencham, que o fa\u00e7am feliz e que o aceitem completamente. Passar tempo com um amigo falso nunca o far\u00e1 sentir-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>f.<\/p>\n

They will never encourage you to be the kind of a person you want to be. They will only care about you encouraging them. And just like a relationship, a friendship can\u2019t be a one-way street.<\/p>\n

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Everyone has experienced at least one fake friendship in his life. It\u2019s normal. It happens all the time that people pretend to be friends with someone just to get something from them. Unfortunately, it\u2019s a very usual thing. And, to be honest, it\u2019s a really shitty thing. Those kinds of people don\u2019t have any conscience…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21383,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/elevate-755085-unsplash.jpg",800,538,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21382\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21383"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}