{"id":21403,"date":"2018-07-31T11:01:33","date_gmt":"2018-07-31T11:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21403"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:58:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:58:47","slug":"5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-foram-magoadas-fazem-para-se-protegerem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-foram-magoadas-fazem-para-se-protegerem\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que todas as raparigas que j\u00e1 foram magoadas fazem para se protegerem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas as raparigas que foram magoadas no passado, de alguma forma, carregam consigo a sua dor e a sua desilus\u00e3o, independentemente do tempo que passou desde que ficaram com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 com medo de amar de novo<\/a> and she is scared that she\u2019ll be hurt again. That is why she does some things to protect herself from potential emotional pain, even though she is not often aware of doing them.<\/p>\n

1. Ela tem cuidado com quem gosta<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve been hurt in the past, you won\u2019t give your heart away to just anyone who walks into your life.<\/p>\n

Therefore, a girl who has been through a lot will never fall for someone that easily. Instead, she will always question her feelings and she won\u2019t give some guy a chance just like that. This girl won\u2019t go out on dates often because she knows better than to give her heart and attention to some random fuckboy who\u2019ll hurt her the same way her ex did.<\/p>\n

Esta rapariga ser\u00e1 cuidadosa com tudo e prestar\u00e1 especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 primeira impress\u00e3o deixada por cada rapaz que a aborda.<\/p>\n

You might think this is funny but she knows she can\u2019t control herself when she loves someone, so she\u2019ll do everything in her power to prevent that from happening.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn\u2019t let her heart guide her<\/span><\/h2>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma rapariga que sempre seguiu o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. E, infelizmente, isso trouxe-lhe mais problemas do que coisas boas.<\/p>\n

So she decided not to allow her heart to guide her anymore. Even if she feels butterflies for a guy, she will always let her reason decide what\u2019s best for her. She will think her every move through carefully before she acts on her feelings.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean she is heartless. It\u2019s just that this girl simply doesn\u2019t believe her heart anymore and she\u2019ll rarely put it in front of her reason, even when it comes to love matters, because she believes following her emotions is what got her heart broken in the first place.<\/p>\n

3. She doesn\u2019t show her feelings<\/span><\/h2>\n

When a girl who has been hurt in the past grows to love you or even if she starts falling in love with you, she won\u2019t show you this easily.
\nDe facto, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que tamb\u00e9m tente esconder de si pr\u00f3pria as suas verdadeiras emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Esta \u00e9 uma rapariga que decidiu desistir completamente do amor e n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronta para perder o controlo sobre si pr\u00f3pria mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

So even when she starts noticing she has some feelings for a man, she\u2019ll try to run away from them or ignore them, thinking they\u2019ll go away.<\/p>\n

And if she finally accepts that she cares for a man again, she\u2019ll do everything in her power for the object of her affection not to notice it.<\/p>\n

Tem de compreender que ela foi magoada sempre que baixou a guarda e sempre que mostrou as suas verdadeiras emo\u00e7\u00f5es e que n\u00e3o quer voltar a passar por isso.<\/p>\n

4. She doesn\u2019t believe just anyone<\/span><\/h2>\n

When someone has been betrayed and disappointed by the person they\u2019ve shared their life with, it is natural for them to have serious abandonment and quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a.<\/a><\/p>\n

Therefore, even when this girl meets a man who is worthy of her love and trust, she won\u2019t believe him at first. It will take a lot of time and patience from this man to convince her that he is not like her ex.<\/p>\n

Ela pensa simplesmente que todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais e que este homem s\u00f3 lhe est\u00e1 a mentir para a poder comer ou para a poder magoar mais facilmente.<\/p>\n

5. Ela coloca-se em primeiro lugar<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you meet a girl who has been through a lot in the past, at first glance she might appear to be too selfish. But trust me\u2014that is not the case.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que ela deu o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a si pr\u00f3pria a muitas pessoas erradas no passado. E nenhuma dessas pessoas apreciou nada do que ela fez por elas.
\nE nenhum deles lhe dava prioridade, apesar de ela estar sempre a p\u00f4r as necessidades deles \u00e0 frente das suas.<\/p>\n

Por isso, decidiu que precisava de se colocar em primeiro lugar, se quisesse ser feliz. Percebeu que tinha de come\u00e7ar a respeitar-se e a amar-se a si pr\u00f3pria, antes de poder esperar isso de qualquer outra pessoa. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every girl who\u2019s been hurt in the past in some way carries her pain and brokenness with her, no matter how much time has passed since she had her heart broken. She is scared to love again and she is scared that she\u2019ll be hurt again. That is why she does some things to protect…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":21405,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21403","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/allef-vinicius-156194-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21403","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21403"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21403\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21405"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21403"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21403"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21403"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}