{"id":21520,"date":"2019-08-02T11:32:15","date_gmt":"2019-08-02T11:32:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21520"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:29:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:29:11","slug":"leia-isto-se-a-sua-quase-relacao-o-tornou-incapaz-de-amar-novamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-a-sua-quase-relacao-o-tornou-incapaz-de-amar-novamente\/","title":{"rendered":"Leia isto se o seu quase relacionamento o tornou incapaz de amar novamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Foi f\u00e1cil voltar para ele. Era como um acontecimento natural. Ele tornava a minha vida num inferno. Depois, eu perdoava-o e, quando dava por mim, est\u00e1vamos de novo no in\u00edcio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pareceu-me natural voltar para ele, uma vez que n\u00e3o tinha mais ningu\u00e9m por quem esperar. Ele era tudo o que eu conhecia, e perdi a capacidade de ver que existem outros homens por a\u00ed que me tratariam como eu mere\u00e7o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perdi a capacidade de me ver a mim pr\u00f3pria e o qu\u00e3o infeliz eu era em tudo aquilo. Cada vez que voltava aos seus bra\u00e7os, esquecia-me de tudo o que estava errado entre n\u00f3s. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Eu n\u00e3o sou a v\u00edtima aqui. N\u00e3o me estou a justificar. Fiquei numa coisa quase porque era demasiado<\/span> medo de estar sozinho<\/span><\/a>\u2014even though that almost made me lonelier than I have ever been. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was forcing something to work, even though it wasn\u2019t right for me. It was all messy with a lot of back and forths. And before I knew it, my subconscious was telling me that there is nothing better out there for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s incredible how something that doesn\u2019t seem so harmful like an almost relationship can do so much damage. It makes you lose your pride because you continuously forgive the unforgivable. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It makes you lose your sense of self and your confidence because you keep going back to someone who doesn\u2019t see you<\/i><\/b>\u2014n<\/b>n\u00e3o o verdadeiro tu. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

All he is interested in is your naked body and all the good you can do for him. He doesn\u2019t care how your day went. He doesn\u2019t know your dreams or hidden desires. He certainly has no idea about your problems. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is clueless about the fact that you couldn\u2019t sleep last night because he didn\u2019t text you back the entire day. He doesn\u2019t want to see that you love him so much that you put his needs before your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t mind that you worry about his troubles and that you are trying to make it easier on him. All he does is take your efforts for granted and play with your heart like it\u2019s not his business. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t know and it doesn\u2019t affect him in any way that he has made you think that you are unable to love again; that he has taken all your love and energy with him that day he chose to walk away for good.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Now, you are tired because the almost relationship exhausted you. It led you on this emotional roller coaster trip you weren’t prepared for. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fazia com que cada dia ou cada semana fosse diferente. Um dia seria cheio de l\u00e1grimas e o outro de risos, dependendo da sua vontade de entrar e sair da sua vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas o que n\u00e3o v\u00ea \u00e9 que o fim do uma quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> \u00e9 a melhor coisa que te poderia ter acontecido. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You can finally rest and recover all the energy it has taken from you. You don\u2019t have to wait around for him to call or text back. You don\u2019t have to ask for his time. You don\u2019t have to wait until he is ready to be in something more committed.  <\/span><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have to burden yourself with his problems. You will concentrate on you, on mending your heart and making your life better. You will learn to love yourself again. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are done waiting for anybody or anything, and it\u2019s the most liberating feeling ever. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

An almost relationship won\u2019t be something that\u2019s holding you away from love. It will be the exact thing that will help you recognize real love when it comes your way. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Saber\u00e1s como o amor nunca deve ser. Saber\u00e1s the things that you won\u2019t settle for<\/a> ou ignorar. Saber\u00e1 que o que precisa e quer num homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada parecido com o que j\u00e1 teve. <\/span><\/p>\n

Voltar\u00e1s a amar algu\u00e9m com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e mais do que alguma vez pensaste ser poss\u00edvel. <\/span>You will know it\u2019s real<\/span><\/a> porque ser\u00e1s amado de volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Essa quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tiveste em tempos n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 mais do que uma mem\u00f3ria distante e a melhor li\u00e7\u00e3o que poderias ter tido na vida.<\/p>\n

\"LEIA<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It was easy going back to him. It was like a natural occurrence. He would make my life a living hell. Then, I would forgive him, and before I knew it, we were right back at the start. It seemed natural to go back to him since I had nobody else to look forward to….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21521,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/vidar-nordli-mathisen-558121-unsplash-1.jpg",800,603,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21520"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21520\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}