{"id":21597,"date":"2018-08-06T11:57:03","date_gmt":"2018-08-06T11:57:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21597"},"modified":"2022-08-02T16:25:35","modified_gmt":"2022-08-02T16:25:35","slug":"a-dura-verdade-sobre-estar-apaixonado-pela-pessoa-errada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-dura-verdade-sobre-estar-apaixonado-pela-pessoa-errada\/","title":{"rendered":"A dura verdade sobre estar apaixonado pela pessoa errada"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s not so hard to <\/span>apaixonar-se<\/span><\/a>. There are so many handsome man around, so many sweet talkers and heartbreakers. It\u2019s so easy to fall in love with anyone, but it\u2019s so hard to fall in love with the right person.<\/span><\/p>\n

Podemos tentar evitar apaixonarmo-nos pela pessoa errada. Podemos ter cuidado, mas quando nos apaixonamos, tornamo-nos literalmente est\u00fapidos. Toda a l\u00f3gica desaparece de repente. <\/span><\/p>\n

All the warning signs that scream \u2018he is not the man for you\u2019 are there, but you simply can\u2019t see them. You\u2019re in a delirious state of infatuation, and all you see is the person you fell in love with; the person you idealize. <\/b><\/p>\n

Acaba por se tornar um tolo por causa do seu amor. D\u00e1s por ti a conduzir na estrada dos riscos. Colocas o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o em jogo porque os teus olhos est\u00e3o fechados.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every next minute is a gamble for you because that is not the man you\u2019re supposed to be with. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you even know it deep inside, but you\u2019re happy at the moment. And people don\u2019t usually look that far into the future, especially if the present is so pleasant. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to step out out of their comfort zones.  <\/span><\/p>\n

The honeymoon phase which lasts too short and too long at the same time blinds you. When you\u2019re happy in your ignorance and when it\u2019s over, you\u2019re sad because it lasted too short. <\/span><\/p>\n

But when you wake up from the dream you were living in that period and see you\u2019ve been in a wrong relationship, you realize your ignorance lasted for far too long. <\/span><\/p>\n

Muitos de n\u00f3s cometem o mesmo erro. No fundo, sabemos que estamos a seguir um caminho errado, que fizemos a escolha errada em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0quele homem. Mas seguimos o fluxo e desfrutamos da nossa felicidade tempor\u00e1ria, porque a alternativa \u00e9 simplesmente dura. <\/span><\/p>\n

We don\u2019t want to admit to ourselves that we made a wrong choice. Reality is harsh and frankly, who would like to be aware of it and live in it?<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so much better to live in a fairy tale ruled by your own rules. <\/b><\/p>\n

Why do we do this? Why do we pretend real life doesn\u2019t exist and criar a nossa pr\u00f3pria realidade<\/a>?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Porque nos ensinaram que esse \u00e9 o caminho certo. Ensinaram-nos a evitar a dor e a desilus\u00e3o, mas ningu\u00e9m nos disse que, ao viver a dor, nos tornamos mais fortes. <\/span><\/p>\n

No one told us that it\u2019s the way we grow to become even better. We reach our maximum, and life becomes everything but a challenge to us. Then, we have to break the cocoon of our life because we can\u2019t fit in anymore. <\/b><\/p>\n

That process is painful and long. It hurts. We use the last of our strength to get out. But once we do, we have a world of opportunities and options ahead of us. A whole new world. We\u2019re stronger and better than ever. <\/span><\/p>\n

But what they are teaching us\u2014the society, the TV, the social networks\u2014is to avoid pain and be satisfied with what you get. Stick to it because who knows? Maybe that\u2019s the best you will ever get.<\/span><\/p>\n

They tell us that we have to have that person next to us to take care of us when we\u2019re sick. They have told us that romantic getaways are a must. It\u2019s normal to expect roses at your doorstep, but is that the real definition of love?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 disso que se trata o amor? Pequenos sinais de afeto e coisas materiais?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not important where he takes you or what he owns. It\u2019s not important whether he buys you flowers or not. That isn\u2019t love, and it\u2019s not supposed to be. But if you watch any kind of romantic movie, all you see is romance and gestures, and you\u2019ll think it\u2019s love. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you keep choosing <\/span>tipos errados<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esse tipo de coisas s\u00f3 nos faz felizes durante algum tempo, mas a verdadeira e real felicidade s\u00e3o coisas muito maiores e melhores do que isso. A verdadeira felicidade \u00e9 encontrada no amor real e puro. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s when you love someone because of the way they walk and talk. Because of the way their hair falls on their cheek. Because of the way he pronounces words. Because of the trivial things he does that make you happy. That\u2019s the real deal.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea apaixonar-se por uma pessoa errada<\/a> because you\u2019re scared to be alone. You\u2019re becoming obsessed with the idea of love. You just want to be with someone, so you\u2019re not alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

The biggest mistake you\u2019re making is that you\u2019re not going to be happy with a wrong person. You\u2019re not going to find peace with someone that doesn\u2019t give you what you need and deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n

The right kind of love is not supposed to drain you. It\u2019s not supposed to make you feel bad and sweat in the middle of the night because you\u2019re having nightmares\u2014because your conscience kicks in when you least expect it. <\/span><\/p>\n

O tipo certo de amor deve fazer com que queiras lutar mais e ser melhor. O amor certo vai desafiar-te. O amor certo deve fazer-te sentir feliz e especial sem grandes gestos e presentes caros.<\/b><\/p>\n

The right love should make you feel excited all the time. You should feel butterflies in your stomach every time you see him, no matter how long you\u2019ve been together. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in love with a wrong person, you just know it. You see that you\u2019re unhappy and dissatisfied, but you\u2019re afraid to admit it. Because when you do, what\u2019s next?<\/span><\/p>\n

O que fazer a partir da\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que fazer?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s not so hard to fall in love. There are so many handsome man around, so many sweet talkers and heartbreakers. It\u2019s so easy to fall in love with anyone, but it\u2019s so hard to fall in love with the right person. You can try to avoid falling for the wrong one. You can be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21599,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21597","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/shine-tang-425878-unsplash-2.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21597","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21597"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21597\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21597"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21597"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21597"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}