{"id":21622,"date":"2020-08-07T07:50:08","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T07:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21622"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:45:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:45:00","slug":"10-sinais-de-que-o-seu-namorado-planeia-continuar-a-ser-um-fedelho-imaturo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-o-seu-namorado-planeia-continuar-a-ser-um-fedelho-imaturo\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que o seu namorado planeia continuar a ser um fedelho imaturo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser emocionalmente imaturo n\u00e3o tem de durar para sempre. Talvez seja apenas uma fase que durar\u00e1 apenas um curto per\u00edodo de tempo.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s survived some kind of a trauma, and he doesn\u2019t know how to deal with it.<\/p>\n

Whatever is at stake, you don\u2019t have to judge him right away. First, you have to find a way to help him. Try to be there for him because he really won\u2019t ask you to.<\/p>\n

Try to let him know that you are there, but don\u2019t be too pushy because you\u2019ll only push him away.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o primeiro cen\u00e1rio, mas o segundo \u00e9<\/strong> que ele \u00e9 mesmo assim e que n\u00e3o tenciona mudar. Ele gosta que fa\u00e7am tudo por ele. Gosta desse tipo de aten\u00e7\u00e3o e, por isso, n\u00e3o tem necessidade de mudar as coisas.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life living with a spoiled brat that wants everything done his way, pay attention to these signs that he is not planning on changing.<\/p>\n

Ele sabe mesmo como ser mau \u00e0s vezes<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

His jokes sometimes really hurt. This only shows that he doesn\u2019t care, and he is not planning on changing.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about your feelings, and he feels it\u2019s funny to make jokes which are simply not appropriate. Either he is doing it on purpose or he has no idea he\u2019s a magoar-vos.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you take it either way, it\u2019s bad.<\/p>\n

Ele guarda os seus sentimentos para si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

\u00c9 suposto as rela\u00e7\u00f5es serem sobre a partilha de sentimentos e n\u00e3o ter medo de ser vulner\u00e1vel em frente da pessoa que se ama.<\/p>\n

You have nothing to hide from that person, and you\u2019re supposed to be completely open with them. But, he doesn\u2019t seem to act that way.<\/p>\n

He keeps things to himself, and he deals with his problems all by himself. Don\u2019t get me wrong, that is great for a single guy, but a man in a relationship has to understand that he is not alone anymore.<\/p>\n

There is no longer \u201cI\u201d\u2014it\u2019s \u201cus\u201d now.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t keep his promises<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll promise you so many things. And maybe even in that moment, he really means it, but as the moment goes by, he forgets it. You\u2019re no longer important to him. Well, at least not as important as he himself.<\/p>\n

That is real emotional immaturity. He says a lot of things to keep you calm and satisfied, but he doesn\u2019t do anything about it. He is too selfish for that. He only cares about himself.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 bom com o dinheiro<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t know how to manage money. He doesn\u2019t know how to save it. It\u2019s not so much that he doesn\u2019t know as he doesn\u2019t really want to learn how to. He never had to take care of the finances.<\/p>\n

He spends as much money as he has. It\u2019s pure irresponsibility. Today, he is being irresponsible regarding money. The next day, it\u2019ll be something even more serious.<\/p>\n

You just can\u2019t trust such a man.<\/p>\n

Ele aborrece-se muito rapidamente<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Nothing can hold his attention for that long because once again, he doesn\u2019t care about anything but himself. He needs constant entertainment in order to stay in contact with you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you just hate when you talk to someone and they keep scrolling through their phones? That is a classic sign of emotional immaturity.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to have serious conversations with him because that is extremely boring for him. He\u2019ll just try to find a way to loosen things up by cracking a joke.<\/p>\n

Now, isn\u2019t it frustrating if you have a problem, and you want him to listen to you and give you advice, and he does completely the opposite? He wants to get off the topic instead of staying on it.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t care about your feelings<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sad and a bit under the weather, of course he\u2019ll see it. But he won\u2019t care. He has his own plans, and he doesn\u2019t want to change or cancel them because you\u2019re feeling down.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s just self-centered, and he doesn\u2019t want to be bothered with the feelings you\u2019re experiencing as long as he is fine.<\/p>\n

Mas quando ele tem um problema, ent\u00e3o o mundo inteiro tem de parar porque ele precisa de ajuda.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never the one to blame<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Mature people don\u2019t pretend to forget something they\u2019ve done or said. Mature people know when and how to say they\u2019re sorry. But immature brats, mama\u2019s boys<\/a> will never admit they\u2019ve done something wrong.<\/p>\n

They will never apologize because they think they are always right, and that is just impossible. Even if you are as smart as hell, you can\u2019t be right all the time.<\/p>\n

Ele recusa-se a assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos e isso significa que tens de ser tu a culpada. Queres mesmo dar-lhe cobertura e aturar as merdas dele para o resto da tua vida?<\/p>\n

He\u2019e emotionally dependent<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Isto significa que ele pede muito e n\u00e3o d\u00e1 nada em troca. Ele \u00e9 capaz de a esgotar emocionalmente e n\u00e3o lhe dar absolutamente nada em troca.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s sucking your energy dry, leaving you empty, and becoming cheerful and full of life himself. That makes you feel like an hollow shell all the time. And when you recharge, he does the same thing again.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s too close to his mom<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

It really doesn\u2019t look like a healthy relationship. It\u2019s a one thing to love your mother and talk to her, visit her, but it\u2019s completely another thing when you are an adult who is incapable of living without your mother meddling in your life.<\/p>\n

He has no problem with borrowing money from his mother and never paying her back because he knows he doesn\u2019t have to, or canceling on you to go and spend time with her. Theses mean that he is still so dependent on his mother.<\/p>\n

And at his age, that is just not healthy. It means he\u2019s emotionally immature and probably will never grow up.<\/p>\n

Ele tem medo de compromissos<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll start panicking instantly if you just mention children or commitment. Why? Because he knows that if he commits, he is in it for real. There is no more time or space to be selfish and self-centered.<\/p>\n

E isso \u00e9 algo de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a abdicar. Ainda n\u00e3o. Esta \u00e9 definitivamente uma enorme bandeira vermelha de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a planear mudar, e que voc\u00ea deve definitivamente deix\u00e1-lo e seguir em frente com a sua vida.<\/p>\n

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Being emotionally immature doesn\u2019t have to last forever. Maybe it\u2019s just a phase that will last only for a short period of time. Maybe he\u2019s survived some kind of a trauma, and he doesn\u2019t know how to deal with it. Whatever is at stake, you don\u2019t have to judge him right away. First, you have…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":109716,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21622","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/10-Signs-That-Your-Boyfriend-Plans-On-Staying-An-Immature-Brat-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21622"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21622\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}