{"id":21640,"date":"2018-08-07T08:22:34","date_gmt":"2018-08-07T08:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21640"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:51:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:51:11","slug":"porque-e-que-tem-de-ser-uma-rapariga-que-simplesmente-nao-quer-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-tem-de-ser-uma-rapariga-que-simplesmente-nao-quer-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que tens de ser uma rapariga que simplesmente n\u00e3o quer saber"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser ego\u00edsta. A s\u00e9rio. S\u00ea ego\u00edsta. Desde quando \u00e9 que se pode ignorar completamente a nossa vida e as nossas necessidades para fazer com que outra pessoa se sinta melhor? E quanto a ti? E a tua vida? A tua vida conta?<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can\u2019t turn back time and if you don\u2019t take care of yourself, one day you’ll be sorry. One day you\u2019ll regret putting yourself last.<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on your goals and your dreams because if you don\u2019t try to make yourself happy, no one else will do it for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Eu sei quem tu \u00e9s porque eu sou tu.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9s o \u00fanico ombro onde os outros podem chorar. Quando os teus amigos se sentem <\/span>merdoso<\/span><\/a>, they go to you because they know you\u2019ll make them feel better. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll tell them to put themselves first, to love themselves and do what makes them happy. But are you doing the same thing for yourself?<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me tell you the answer: You\u2019re not. When someone else is hurting, you know just the right thing to say but in the meantime, you don\u2019t even see that you\u2019re going through the same thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ignoras completamente a tua pr\u00f3pria dor. \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even see that you are unhappy, that you put everyone else before you. Your dreams and your goals decay because you\u2019re too busy saving other people\u2019s lives. Just stop it!<\/span><\/p>\n

Siga o seu pr\u00f3prio conselho e viva a sua vida ao m\u00e1ximo!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Muda toda a tua vida se for preciso. Come\u00e7ar tudo de novo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil falar do que fazer, mas se queres que as coisas melhorem, n\u00e3o tens outra op\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can pretend that you\u2019re happy and keep living the way you live but you\u2019ll reach your <\/span>ponto de rutura<\/span><\/a> and you\u2019ll want to start all over. The thing is, it may happen too late. Maybe then you won\u2019t be able to do anything about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, fa\u00e7a-o agora!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Mude-se para outra cidade, se quiser. Se se levanta todas as manh\u00e3s com um mau pressentimento no est\u00f4mago porque tem de ir para um emprego que detesta, mude de carreira. Encontre algo que o fa\u00e7a sentir melhor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a thought: If it\u2019s possible, do it. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry about other people. Don\u2019t worry about what they are going to say to you or how they are going to react. Think of your new decisions as a means of understanding who actually gives a damn about you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see; people who really care for you, people who love you, will support you. They will try to make your path easier and they won\u2019t judge you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aqueles que lhe viram as costas s\u00e3o os que consomem a maior parte da sua energia. S\u00e3o vampiros emocionais, pessoas que se alimentam de ti para se sentirem melhor.<\/b><\/p>\n

Life is not easy and this is the cheesiest sentence ever but it\u2019s true: You never know where it\u2019s going to take you. You never know what you are going to live through. <\/span><\/p>\n

All the roads you have taken, you chose to take for a reason. All the wrong choices you\u2019ve made led you to maturity and realization. Not giving a fuck is just one of the things you have to do.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Temos de aprender com os nossos erros e trabalhar em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. \u00c9 preciso aprender a <\/span>ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio <\/span><\/a>porque ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 mais importante para ti do que tu pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared of the people who judge. They will always have a reason to say something, no matter what you do. Even if you give it everything you\u2019ve got, they will find a reason to say something bad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hang out with whomever you want to hang out with. Do whatever you want to do, even if you know it\u2019s wrong. You have to do it to make sure you won\u2019t do it ever again. Blow off some steam and never hold anything inside. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you do, it will explode eventually. You won\u2019t be able to hold it in any longer, and then you\u2019ll be screwed. Then you\u2019ll realize that every time you wanted to do something and you didn\u2019t, that was a time you destroyed yourself a little bit more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Veste o que quiseres vestir e mant\u00e9m a cabe\u00e7a erguida. Caminha pela estrada como se fosses o dono dela, porque se quisesses, podias. Ningu\u00e9m te pode fazer mal e tu sabes disso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mostre o seu respeito por si pr\u00f3prio e brilhe com confian\u00e7a. Deixe simplesmente de se preocupar.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not supposed to live life unnoticed. You were born one of a kind, unique. Live your life that way. Don\u2019t let that beautiful interior of yours perish. Don\u2019t let it go unnoticed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Brilha o mais poss\u00edvel porque s\u00f3 tens uma oportunidade para o fazer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hoje.<\/p>\n

Agora.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Be selfish. Seriously. Be selfish. Since when is it okay to completely ignore your life and your needs to make someone else feel better? What about you? What about your life? Does your life count? You\u2019re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can\u2019t turn back time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":21641,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/daryn-stumbaugh-433249-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21640"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21640\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}