{"id":2169,"date":"2020-04-05T09:29:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T09:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2169"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:08:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:08:01","slug":"compreender-e-amar-uma-pessoa-com-uma-personalidade-reservada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/compreender-e-amar-uma-pessoa-com-uma-personalidade-reservada\/","title":{"rendered":"Compreender e amar uma pessoa com uma personalidade reservada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A sua primeira pergunta quando se depara com algu\u00e9m que tem uma personalidade reservada pode ser: \"O que \u00e9 que se passa com esta pessoa?\".<\/p>\n<p>May I share a little secret with you? There is nothing wrong with guarded people. It\u2019s just that their past has made them that way.<\/p>\n<p>Eles n\u00e3o s\u00e3o diferentes de n\u00f3s, exceto que escondem um cora\u00e7\u00e3o guardado com medo de serem magoados mais uma vez.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uma pessoa com uma personalidade reservada pode sentir desconforto em demonstrar afeto por si ou por qualquer outra pessoa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that (s)he doesn\u2019t really feel like hugging you nor being too close.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se abra\u00e7a uma pessoa, est\u00e1-se a prometer conforto e talvez amizade intencionalmente, e uma pessoa cautelosa est\u00e1 bem ciente disso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87076\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado num abra\u00e7o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It might be the case that (s)he refuses to bond with you in such a way because she\u2019s running away from any close affection.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al\u00e9m disso, as pessoas que s\u00e3o consideradas solit\u00e1rias podem ser apenas pessoas com uma personalidade reservada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o seletivamente sociais, podem andar \u00e0 sua volta, mas apenas enquanto se sentirem confort\u00e1veis consigo. Precisam de confiar em si para se abrirem consigo.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is they don\u2019t really like to waste their energy nor time on people who don\u2019t matter that much to them.<\/p>\n<p>Escolhem bem os seus amigos e podem ser vistos como solit\u00e1rios sociais.<\/p>\n<p>Um pouco paradoxal, eu sei.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that they are social, but only when they choose to be so.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, that is why they don&#8217;t have a big group of friends, but those who&#8217;ve earned a place in their lives are the best friends a person could wish for.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/yoganonymous.com\/the-secret-to-connecting-with-guarded-people\" rel=\"noopener\">Pessoas com uma personalidade reservada<\/a> s\u00e3o muitas vezes misteriosas, mas n\u00e3o intencionalmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87078\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t like sharing their privacy with anybody, and they rarely invite you into their worlds.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 uma certa zona que nunca pode ser ultrapassada porque eles gostam de se proteger.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, they don\u2019t want you to be interested in their lives; it\u2019s not the reason they behave the way they behave.<\/p>\n<p>You get as much cake as they let you. You\u2019ll probably have a rough time finding any info about them on social media, and don\u2019t even try bugging their friends to ask for any info.<\/p>\n<p>You will be denied it. Their personal information is theirs to keep. If you want to get close to them, you&#8217;ll have to earn it.<\/p>\n<p>Your only opportunity to know what\u2019s going on in their world will be when, and if, they decide to let you in.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A maior parte das vezes, t\u00eam medo das suas pr\u00f3prias emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They perceive the world in a bit of a different way. They have incredibly intense emotions and often so many questions in their head that they\u2019re afraid of showing to others.<\/p>\n<p>Their trust has been tampered with, and they have been hurt. That&#8217;s the reason for the extra layer of protection around them.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It\u2019s like a small universe inside their heads.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87080\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher de p\u00e9 no casaco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It even gets worse when they hide their feelings and stop them from getting out. Once their emotions find a way to come to light, it\u2019s like a volcanic eruption, and you\u2019ll probably get surprised by it.<\/p>\n<p>That will be the first time you\u2019ll see that human being acting strange and seemingly &#8216;out of order&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As pessoas reservadas sentem-se bem sozinhas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the main reason you can\u2019t buy them with promises or sweet talk. They\u2019ve seen that one too many times in their lives, and it has always ended up in heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>What you can do is show in your actions all those things you\u2019ve promised, and you might even get a chance to be welcomed into their mysterious world.<\/p>\n<p>Devido \u00e0 experi\u00eancia anterior que tiveram com outras pessoas, os reservados s\u00e3o capazes de ler facilmente as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se tem algo em mente, deve seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p>Gra\u00e7as \u00e0s suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas falhadas, est\u00e3o treinados para reconhecer novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas potencialmente perigosas.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pointless to even try to sneak your way into their lives.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Este tipo de personalidade tem, no entanto, um grande problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87082\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t instantly see your good intentions, only the bad ones. Even if they notice your good emotions instantly, it\u2019s highly unlikely they\u2019ll react to them.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that the dose of distrust is always boiling in them, and it takes time for them to get used to other people. This is the personality trait that <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">descreve <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">introvertidos<\/span> at\u00e9 ao osso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00e3o assim porque sabem que nem toda a gente tem boas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned this a couple of times so far, but it&#8217;s the essential personality trait that makes them so unique and interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de iniciarem uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, avaliam o que pode acontecer se abrirem o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a um estranho.<\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;ve already said, first they will assume only the bad things and who are you to blame them?<\/p>\n<p>What they&#8217;re assuming about people, in general, is not that far from the truth. Some people are indeed out to get you.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s because they are jealous of you, or they simply don&#8217;t like you\u2014it doesn&#8217;t matter. Their goal is to hurt you in any way they know how.<\/p>\n<p>A guarded person is one step ahead of those people because they&#8217;ve already been through this unpleasant experience.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, this explains them being extra cautious and acting all &#8216;weird&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87084\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>O que toda a gente n\u00e3o percebe \u00e9 que as pessoas reservadas n\u00e3o nascem assim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o a pr\u00f3pria consequ\u00eancia dos seus passados e de tudo aquilo por que passaram.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a long process of betrayal and disappointment in others that has brought them to the spot they are to be found in today.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, they still have love for others. They are funny and extremely sociable, but only if you\u2019re worthy.<\/p>\n<p>If they get to know you and decide not to welcome you into their lives, it\u2019s because they see you for who you truly are.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, se fores um dos sortudos a ser recebido no seu mundo, tens a oportunidade de significar o mundo para eles, mas apenas se o mereceres.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que nunca ser\u00e1 perdoado \u00e9 a sua trai\u00e7\u00e3o a eles.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you get to that spot of trust with them, then you\u2019re among the few privileged ones, and you shouldn\u2019t take advantage of it.<\/p>\n<p>Your kindness is more than welcomed, but don\u2019t push it. Let things fall into their places and be the backbone to a guarded person.<\/p>\n<p>Only then, you\u2019ll truly gain a companion for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Compreender e amar uma pessoa com uma personalidade reservada \" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your first question when you stumble onto somebody who has a guarded personality might be: \u201cWhat is wrong with this person?\u201d. May I share a little secret with you? There is nothing wrong with guarded people. It\u2019s just that their past has made them that way. They are not any different from you and me,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":87087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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