{"id":21706,"date":"2020-08-08T08:19:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T08:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21706"},"modified":"2022-08-12T08:04:36","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T08:04:36","slug":"ser-bom-para-as-pessoas-mesmo-quando-elas-nao-merecem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-bom-para-as-pessoas-mesmo-quando-elas-nao-merecem\/","title":{"rendered":"Seja bom para as pessoas, mesmo quando elas n\u00e3o o merecem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 conhecemos a vida e podemos dizer, com confian\u00e7a, que ela tem os seus altos e baixos.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, esses altos e baixos s\u00e3o causados por outras pessoas na nossa vida, independentemente de querermos ou n\u00e3o que elas nos afectem.<\/p>\n<p>Num momento, est\u00e1 no seu ponto mais alto, mais alto do que alguma vez esteve. Sorri, ri, torna-se t\u00e3o destemido.<\/p>\n<p>That person who makes you feel this way means the world to you, don&#8217;t they?<\/p>\n<p>These people are so rare! The ones who would do anything needed just to make you feel fulfilled and welcome. It&#8217;s the worst when these people decide to put you down.<\/p>\n<p>Quando menos esperamos, as pessoas que mais significam para n\u00f3s enganam-nos, desaparecem da nossa vida e, no final, a \u00fanica coisa que nos resta \u00e9 perguntarmo-nos o que fizemos de errado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106040\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/worried-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/worried-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/worried-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/worried-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/worried-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/worried-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Deixem-me dizer-vos: nada!<\/p>\n<p>A vida \u00e9 uma batalha constante e, por vezes, vamos lutar ao lado de algu\u00e9m, mas outras vezes acabamos sozinhos, a lutar por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>Mas aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, por mais vezes que digam algo insultuoso, n\u00e3o importa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/vai-partir-o-coracao-de-acordo-com-o-signo-do-zodiaco\/\"> se te partirem <\/a> ou mostrar-vos como s\u00e3o desonestos: continuem a ser gentis.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que, em primeiro lugar, deve ser gentil consigo pr\u00f3prio. Quando vir que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira de fazer com que a sua amizade\/rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada melhor a fazer do que afastar-se completamente.<\/p>\n<p>But they will come back. People who can&#8217;t get enough of the tears and agony of other people, they always come back.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pode combat\u00ea-las com bondade. As tuas palavras podem ser balas e ferir todos \u00e0 tua volta ou podem ser o som mais suave do mundo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106041\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/kind-woman-in-minds-with-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bondosa de olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/kind-woman-in-minds-with-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/kind-woman-in-minds-with-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/kind-woman-in-minds-with-closed-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/kind-woman-in-minds-with-closed-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/kind-woman-in-minds-with-closed-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por que n\u00e3o escolher fazer algo de bom por outra pessoa, mesmo que ela n\u00e3o possa fazer o mesmo por si?<\/p>\n<p><b>Be good to the people around you, even when they don&#8217;t deserve it, because maybe they need it more than you do.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente conhece todas aquelas hist\u00f3rias de que os rufias na escola s\u00e3o na realidade crian\u00e7as inseguras que precisam de afeto?<\/p>\n<p>Grown-up people aren&#8217;t any different. The people who hurt you and make you feel all this pain <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/a-bondade-nao-era-a-sua-fraqueza-era-a-sua-forca\/\"> preciso das vossas palavras am\u00e1veis <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 estar a perguntar-se: porqu\u00ea dar-lhes esse prazer?<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque eles saber\u00e3o que n\u00e3o podem quebrar-te. Saber\u00e3o que \u00e9s suficientemente forte para aguentar qualquer coisa que te atirem, porque te manter\u00e1s firme durante todo o processo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106042\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confident-woman-posing-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher confiante a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confident-woman-posing-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confident-woman-posing-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confident-woman-posing-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confident-woman-posing-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confident-woman-posing-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A kind word or gesture can change someone&#8217;s day. It can even make someone think about their actions and maybe even change.<\/p>\n<p>Pensem no que podem fazer. Pode influenciar algu\u00e9m para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-foram-magoadas-fazem-para-se-protegerem\/\"> nunca magoar outro ser humano <\/a> novamente. Apenas por ser uma boa pessoa.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mas nunca se esque\u00e7a de que o aspeto mais importante de tudo isto \u00e9 ser bom para si pr\u00f3prio!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando os tempos s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis e quando se acorda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-inutil\/\">sentir-se in\u00fatil<\/a> e n\u00e3o merecedor de amor, lembre-se de ser gentil consigo mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>Olhe-se ao espelho e diga a si pr\u00f3prio que est\u00e1 bem como est\u00e1, diga a si pr\u00f3prio que tudo correr\u00e1 bem desde que continue a amar-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Olhe para todo o seu corpo e diga que ama cada cent\u00edmetro dele. Feche os olhos e pense no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e no quanto ele suportou, agrade\u00e7a e diga ao seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que est\u00e1 orgulhoso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106043\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-with-closed-eyes-on-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de olhos fechados ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-with-closed-eyes-on-fresh-air.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-with-closed-eyes-on-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-with-closed-eyes-on-fresh-air-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-with-closed-eyes-on-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-with-closed-eyes-on-fresh-air-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You really can&#8217;t find an excuse to not be good to other people. You can&#8217;t tell me that there is a reason for you to hurt someone, because that way all you&#8217;re actually doing is poisoning your own soul.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ripostar a algu\u00e9m nos fa\u00e7a sentir aliviados, sabemos que, l\u00e1 no fundo, temos aquela pequena comich\u00e3o que nos diz que fizemos algo extremamente errado.<\/p>\n<p>Continua a envenenar-nos por dentro e, um dia, tornar-nos-emos uma dessas pessoas t\u00f3xicas que tanto tem\u00edamos.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-apenas-a-aproveitar-se-da-sua-bondade\/\"> deve ser gentil com toda a gente <\/a> . Os dias tornam-se mais dif\u00edceis, as horas mais longas, as pessoas est\u00e3o cada vez mais exaustas e zangadas.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let them think that everyone&#8217;s life is miserable, let them know that you can be happy and kind to everyone. <b>Show them how it&#8217;s done!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Be-Good-To-People-Even-When-They-Dont-Deserve-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Seja bom para as pessoas, mesmo quando elas n\u00e3o o merecem\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Be-Good-To-People-Even-When-They-Dont-Deserve-It-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Be-Good-To-People-Even-When-They-Dont-Deserve-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Be-Good-To-People-Even-When-They-Dont-Deserve-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Be-Good-To-People-Even-When-They-Dont-Deserve-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We have all gotten to know life by now and we can say, with confidence, that it has its ups and downs. Sometimes those ups and downs are caused by other people in our life, no matter whether we want them to affect us or not. In one moment, you are at your highest, higher&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":106044,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Be-Good-To-People-Even-When-They-Dont-Deserve-It.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21706"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21706\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106044"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}