{"id":21712,"date":"2020-06-08T09:54:41","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T09:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21712"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:46","slug":"7-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-usar-te-para-esquecer-a-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-usar-te-para-esquecer-a-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 apenas a usar-te para esquecer a ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, we can&#8217;t just shake off someone who was in our life and who meant so much to us as an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>But when you get back on the dating scene, it&#8217;s expected for you to at least have gotten over your ex just enough that it won&#8217;t affect your future relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Many men and women out there don&#8217;t even know when the right time is to start a new relationship, so they just jump from one to another.<\/p>\n<p>Essa \u00e9 a coisa mais doentia que se pode fazer para a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, porque assim traz-se toda essa bagagem desnecess\u00e1ria para a rela\u00e7\u00e3o e, no final, acaba-se por magoar algu\u00e9m da mesma forma que se estava a magoar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-o-seu-ex-namorado\/\">magoado pelo seu ex.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re in a relationship and things seem to be just a little bit off, there could be a possibility that he is just using you to get over his ex.<\/p>\n<p>So, in order to find out if that is truly the case, let&#8217;s go through these 7 signs that say he is still trying to forget about his ex:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Enviam mensagens de texto com frequ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga curiosa a espiar a amiga no smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o s\u00f3 guardava todas as mensagens de texto dela no telem\u00f3vel, como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/if-he-does-these-8-things-dont-even-bother-to-text-him-back\/\">v\u00ea-o enviar uma mensagem<\/a> com ela muitas vezes.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you two are out on a date he tells you that he just has to read this message &#8216;really quick&#8217; and then tells you how hilarious that joke she told him was.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele continua a ser muito pr\u00f3ximo dos amigos dela<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94299\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"amigos a divertirem-se sentados num caf\u00e9 de rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando acabamos com algu\u00e9m, normalmente ignoramos toda a sua fam\u00edlia e amigos mas, por alguma raz\u00e3o, este tipo continua a sair com o irm\u00e3o dela e todos os seus amigos em comum.<\/p>\n<p>Ele diz que n\u00e3o vai de maneira nenhuma separar uma amizade t\u00e3o fant\u00e1stica e, apesar de ela ainda andar com eles, diz-lhe que n\u00e3o tem nada com que se preocupar.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, irm\u00e3, tens tanto com que te preocupar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t seem to make any plans for your future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94300\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados numa doca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando lhe pergunta sobre qualquer coisa relacionada com um futuro em conjunto, ele diz que voc\u00eas os dois deviam preocupar-se com o aqui e agora e n\u00e3o com o futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Embora essa seja uma forma muito gira de viver, \u00e9 preciso fazer pelo menos alguns planos, como por exemplo, ele tenciona ficar por c\u00e1 durante mais tempo ou \u00e9 apenas um visitante na sua vida e vai-se embora de manh\u00e3?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele compara-vos muito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94301\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher confusa a olhar para um homem num caf\u00e9 de rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you do something sweet for him he goes, \u201cYou see, my ex did the same thing once,\u201d or, \u201cMy ex did it this way\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No matter how hard you try, he is constantly comparing you to his ex. Every little thing reminds him of her and it&#8217;s so freaking creepy.<\/p>\n<p>Ele fala dela durante o sexo? Porque isso pode acontecer.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Ela \u00e9 a primeira a receber a not\u00edcia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher ciumenta a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel de um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you might be sitting right next to him while he&#8217;s getting an email that said he got into college, he will still text her the news first and then tell you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s clear that he hasn&#8217;t gotten over her and that she is more important to him than you are.<br \/>\nLamento imenso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He didn&#8217;t throw away the gifts<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem desesperado deitado na cama e a olhar para a fotografia com a namorada\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be real, do you keep the stuff you got from a man who ruthlessly broke your heart? Of course you don&#8217;t because it reminds you of that awful time with an abuser who didn&#8217;t know his place.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o que \u00e9 que o teu namorado faz? Bem, ele guarda tudo o que recebeu dela, trancado em seguran\u00e7a no seu quarto.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode at\u00e9 estar a usar as camisas e as j\u00f3ias que ela comprou para ele, etc.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele vai a extremos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada com os bra\u00e7os cruzados ao lado de um homem no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 h\u00e1 duas possibilidades: ou ele est\u00e1 sempre a falar dela ou mant\u00e9m em segredo tudo aquilo por que passaram.<\/p>\n<p>You know, in normal relationships, people discuss their pasts, simply because they don&#8217;t want to repeat the same mistakes they made before and they want to make sure that their partner knows what happened.<\/p>\n<p>But in these two extreme situations, either he can&#8217;t stop talking about her to the point where you know her favorite cereal or you don&#8217;t even know why they even broke up.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s really frustrating in either of these scenarios.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94293\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 apenas a usar-te para esquecer a ex\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, we can&#8217;t just shake off someone who was in our life and who meant so much to us as an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. But when you get back on the dating scene, it&#8217;s expected for you to at least have gotten over your ex just enough that it won&#8217;t affect your future&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94294,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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