{"id":21720,"date":"2020-06-08T11:02:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21720"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:19","slug":"o-amor-da-tua-vida-geralmente-vem-depois-do-erro-da-tua-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-da-tua-vida-geralmente-vem-depois-do-erro-da-tua-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor da sua vida geralmente vem depois do erro da sua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acontece por vezes confundirmos o maior erro da nossa vida com o nosso pessoa para sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Puseste todas as tuas esperan\u00e7as e sonhos em cima dele s\u00f3 para que ele os pudesse destruir.<\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t imagine your life without him in it. However, he had other plans.<\/p>\n

Tirou-te o m\u00e1ximo que p\u00f4de e seguiu o seu caminho, deixando-te destro\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n

And how wouldn\u2019t you be when you gave your best to someone who wasn\u2019t worth it, to someone who didn\u2019t deserve you?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mas e se o facto de estar gravemente ferido for a melhor coisa que lhe poderia ter acontecido? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe you would never have moved from a shitty relationship if you weren\u2019t forced out of it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Por vezes, somos t\u00e3o teimosos, t\u00e3o persistentes em agarrarmo-nos a algo que acreditamos ser amor, que isso acaba por nos magoar ainda mais.<\/p>\n

Maybe there was no other way. This was the push you needed to move from something that wasn\u2019t meant for you.<\/p>\n

Talvez precisasse de ser quebrado, para que as suas pe\u00e7as pudessem ser montadas de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Talvez precisasses de te encontrar primeiro, para que algu\u00e9m certo pudesse encontrar o teu verdadeiro eu.<\/b><\/p>\n

What we don\u2019t see is that our ex is there for a reason. He was the mistake you had to make, so you could learn something; so you could see what love should never be like.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be one-sided<\/b>. Para ser real, tem de ser nos dois sentidos. Todos os investimentos, sentimentos e esfor\u00e7os devem fluir entre duas pessoas.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be <\/b>implorou<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>The one who wants to be in your life will find the time\u2014no matter how busy he is.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que n\u00e3o seja isso \u00e9 uma desculpa.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be cold.<\/b> Deve manter-te quente, seja qual for a esta\u00e7\u00e3o do ano. Nunca deve ser privado de todos os mimos, abra\u00e7os e beijos que deseja.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be deaf to your problems.<\/b><\/p>\n

You should always have somebody who is there for you, who will at least listen even if he can\u2019t help. You shouldn\u2019t feel so alone in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be torture.<\/b> It shouldn\u2019t make you cry more often than it makes you smile. It shouldn\u2019t be violent in a physical or emotional way.<\/p>\n

O amor deve apertar-te o suficiente para que sintas que pertences a outro ser humano, mas ainda assim \u00e9s livre. \u00c9s livre para seres tu pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Be grateful for the mistake of your life. It prepared you for what\u2019s yet to come. It prepared you for the real deal. It prepared you for the love of your life.<\/p>\n

Your mistake enabled you to recognize \u201cthe one\u201d when he comes. And you will recognize him\u2014there is no doubt about it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Os teus olhos v\u00e3o brilhar porque ele se lembrou de enviar uma simples mensagem que vai melhorar o teu dia.<\/p>\n

Quando ele est\u00e1 sobrecarregado com o trabalho ou com a vida, tira um minuto para lhe telefonar, porque voc\u00ea est\u00e1 na mente dele, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1 aquela paz interior que tanto procurou porque finalmente estar\u00e1 com algu\u00e9m que gosta de si tanto quanto voc\u00ea gosta dele.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

A liga\u00e7\u00e3o e a qu\u00edmica<\/a> que partilhar\u00e3o ser\u00e1 magn\u00e9tico. Vai puxar-vos cada vez mais para perto.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil fazer planos e passar tempo juntos porque ele vai querer v\u00ea-la tanto quanto voc\u00ea quer v\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Tudo ser\u00e1 correspondido e sentir-se-\u00e1 como se estivesse a flutuar nas nuvens. Ao mesmo tempo, esse amor mant\u00ea-lo-\u00e1 de castigo. Far\u00e1 com que te sintas seguro.<\/p>\n

Sentir-se-\u00e1 como se tivesse finalmente encontrado a sua casa e n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 d\u00favidas sobre isso. Pela primeira vez na sua vida, ter\u00e1 a certeza.<\/p>\n

Tudo isso ser\u00e1 gra\u00e7as ao erro da sua vida, aquele que a drenou emocionalmente, a abandonou e a quebrou completamente.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n

O seu erro fez com que pegasse nessas pe\u00e7as e as reunisse no seu estilo \u00fanico, belo e forte<\/i>\u2014a estilo que s\u00f3 o amor da sua vida reconhecer\u00e1 e acarinhar\u00e1 para a eternidade.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n

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