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<\/p>\nQuando pensa na ex-namorada do seu atual namorado, sente uma gama diferente de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n
Podes ter ci\u00fames dela e de tudo o que os dois tinham. Podes at\u00e9 odi\u00e1-la de certa forma.<\/p>\n
You might compare yourself to your boyfriend\u2019s ex, thinking about the things she had and you don\u2019t have, wondering if he loved her more than he loves you.<\/p>\n
Ou talvez nem sequer penses nela.<\/p>\n
If their relationship ended a while ago before you met this guy, you\u2019ll probably be completely indifferent to this girl because her existence in his life doesn\u2019t affect you in any way.<\/p>\n
But it is rare for a woman to be grateful to her boyfriend\u2019s ex. And this is especially true if this girl caused him a lot of emotional pain and if she broke his heart.<\/b><\/p>\n
First of all, you hate her for doing harm to the person you love this much. You can\u2019t believe that someone could intentionally hurt this kind and loving man.<\/p>\n
You hate her for all the pain he\u2019s been through because you know he never deserved to go through something like that.<\/p>\n
Mas, de certa forma, tamb\u00e9m tens ci\u00fames.<\/p>\n
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Porque sabe muito bem a intensidade do amor que ele deve ter sentido por esta mulher. Sabe que ele tinha de a amar at\u00e9 aos ossos, porque permitiu que ela tivesse um impacto t\u00e3o grande na sua vida.<\/p>\n
Porque as \u00fanicas pessoas que nos quebram s\u00e3o normalmente aquelas de quem mais gostamos.<\/p>\n
But I don\u2019t feel any of these things. Instead,<\/p>\n
Estou grato a ti, a mulher que partiu o homem que eu amo.<\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am in no way happy for the pain he has been through. I am not glad that he had his heart broken and that he had to suffer with you.<\/p>\n
But I am grateful for your existence in his life because if it hadn\u2019t been for you, he and I would never be happily in love, the way we are today.<\/b><\/p>\n
you hadn\u2019t broken his heart, he would never have learned the difference between a toxic girl who will cause him pain and a loving girl who will give him everything he needs.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know the difference between real and toxic love and the difference between an almost and a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know the difference between a trustworthy girl and a girl whom he can never trust.<\/p>\n
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If you hadn\u2019t broken his heart, he wouldn\u2019t know the difference between a girl who sees his worth and a girl who makes him feel insecure and not enough.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know how to recognize the love he deserves. And he would never be persistent enough to look for that love.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know that he should never settle for less and that he should never be with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve him because that could get him into a lot of trouble.<\/b><\/p>\n
If you hadn\u2019t treated him the way you did, he would never have known what a relationship shouldn\u2019t look like. And he would never have known how a person who doesn\u2019t love him enough treats him.<\/p>\n
Therefore, he wouldn\u2019t have recognized the love I felt for him from the beginning.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t have seen that I was different than you, and he wouldn\u2019t have seen the difference between the real love I was giving him and the love he thought you felt for him.<\/p>\n
If he hadn\u2019t begged for your love and attention, he wouldn\u2019t appreciate me giving myself completely to him.<\/p>\n
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If you hadn\u2019t made him go through all of this, he would be much weaker. He wouldn\u2019t face life\u2019s difficulties as easily as he is doing now.<\/b><\/p>\n
And most importantly, if he hadn\u2019t experienced the amount of pain he did, he wouldn\u2019t know how it feels to have your heart broken.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t have become this sensitive to other people\u2019s suffering, and he wouldn\u2019t be this careful when it comes to hurting me.<\/p>\n
A verdade \u00e9 que tiveste um grande impacto na vida dele.<\/p>\n
The truth is that he would probably be a different man if he had never met you, and he would certainly have been different if you hadn\u2019t broken his heart.<\/p>\n
But trust me\u2014everything you did to him made him a better man. It made him a man who loves me and the man I love.<\/p>\n
E isso \u00e9 algo pelo qual nunca poderei agradecer-vos o suficiente.<\/p>\n
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