{"id":21735,"date":"2019-09-03T11:29:30","date_gmt":"2019-09-03T11:29:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21735"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:16:06","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:16:06","slug":"quando-for-suficiente-ela-ira-embora-sem-duvida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-for-suficiente-ela-ira-embora-sem-duvida\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando \"j\u00e1 chega\", ela vai-se embora sem qualquer d\u00favida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ficou, n\u00e3o por obriga\u00e7\u00e3o, mas porque o seu amor era t\u00e3o grande e t\u00e3o forte que se agarrou \u00e0 esperan\u00e7a de que, um dia, ele come\u00e7asse a parecer-se com o homem por quem se tinha apaixonado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela nunca se teria apaixonado por ele se ele a tivesse tratado t\u00e3o mal desde o in\u00edcio. Na altura, as coisas eram diferentes. Ele regou-a com aten\u00e7\u00e3o, amor e afeto at\u00e9 ela ser completamente sua. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas esse homem j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 ao seu lado. O homem que est\u00e1 com ela est\u00e1 a jogar <\/span>quente e frio<\/span><\/a>O homem \u00e9 uma pessoa que \u00e9 boa ou m\u00e1, dependendo da situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele tornou-se algu\u00e9m que ela mal consegue reconhecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele tornou-se distante e desinteressado. Nunca se preocupava em perguntar-lhe como tinha corrido o dia, muito menos qualquer outra coisa. Sempre que ela tinha um problema, ele mudava de assunto ou ignorava-a completamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever she had something happy to say he wouldn\u2019t give her the time of the day. He wouldn\u2019t pay attention. He would take that happiness away from her so easily. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter the situation, no matter her state of mind or her mood, she could never count on him to be there for her. She couldn\u2019t count on him for anything. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele nunca aparecia quando era suposto aparecer. Deixava-a sempre \u00e0 espera ou telefonar \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora e cancelar os planos<\/a>. Ele tornou-se algu\u00e9m que a fazia sentir-se t\u00e3o s\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela guardava os dias bons, os dias em que ele achava conveniente estar l\u00e1 para a acariciar at\u00e9 adormecer e lhe dar um beijo de bom dia. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Those days were priceless to her. She could survive all the bad moments because of them. She didn\u2019t need much. She needed him to act normally, to get his shit together and see how valuable she was. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Instead, he became someone whose words would cut right through her soul. He wouldn\u2019t pay attention to the words coming out of his mouth. They were all insults one after the other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por vezes, ele fazia-as passar por uma brincadeira, mas ela percebia logo. Ficava zangada durante algum tempo, mas perdoava sempre. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela <\/span>perdoar tudo,<\/span><\/a> e acordava todos os dias cheia de esperan\u00e7a de que as coisas fossem diferentes. Mas nunca foram. <\/span><\/p>\n

O momento em que ela decidiu que j\u00e1 bastava foi um momento normal, um momento semelhante aos que tinha tido antes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But that moment filled the cup that was already full. She couldn\u2019t and wouldn\u2019t take it anymore. All the disrespect, neglect and all the loneliness became too much. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ela atingiu o seu limite. Chegou ao ponto de rutura em que percebeu que n\u00e3o faz sentido ficar; em que percebeu que a sua esperan\u00e7a \u00e9 um beco sem sa\u00edda que s\u00f3 lhe traz dor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tinha de se ir embora, mesmo que lhe doesse faz\u00ea-lo, mesmo que lhe custasse todas as for\u00e7as para n\u00e3o acabar novamente nos bra\u00e7os dele e voltar a cair no mesmo padr\u00e3o que tinha repetido durante tanto tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas desta vez foi diferente. Desta vez, bastava. Desta vez, ela decidiu ir embora e n\u00e3o tinha d\u00favidas de que estava a fazer a coisa certa. <\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She stayed, not because she had to, but because her love was so big and so strong that she held on to the hope that one day, he would start to resemble the  man she had fallen for. She would never have fallen for him if he had treated her this badly from the start….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":42596,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/casper-nichols-gqegalf39WM-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21735"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21735\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}