{"id":21788,"date":"2020-08-09T11:50:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-09T11:50:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21788"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:22:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:22:19","slug":"se-estas-9-coisas-nao-correrem-bem-desde-o-inicio-a-relacao-nao-vai-durar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-estas-9-coisas-nao-correrem-bem-desde-o-inicio-a-relacao-nao-vai-durar\/","title":{"rendered":"Se estas 9 coisas n\u00e3o correrem bem desde o in\u00edcio, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o vai durar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s sabemos que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es exigem trabalho. N\u00e3o ser\u00e3o sempre doces e picantes e tudo de bom. Haver\u00e1 inevit\u00e1veis solavancos no caminho.<\/p>\n

However, there are things that have to go smoothly right from the start\u2014simple things which modern dating has transformed into complicated.<\/p>\n

Se olhar para as coisas que se seguem, aperceber-se-\u00e1 de que, por vezes, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel prever a qualidade e a dura\u00e7\u00e3o da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o em fun\u00e7\u00e3o do seu in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

1. Manter-se em contacto<\/span><\/h2>\n

The way your boyfriend keeps in touch with you tells you a lot. It seems pretty simple, but it\u2019s usually the most complicated thing.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 uma verdade simples sobre as mensagens de texto: se ele estiver interessado, por muito ocupado que esteja ou por muito mau a enviar mensagens de texto que se julgue, enviar\u00e1 uma mensagem de texto pelo menos uma vez por dia.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 o primeiro sinal de que ele est\u00e1 interessado e disposto a fazer um esfor\u00e7o para estar consigo. Se estiver sempre a iniciar mensagens de texto e chamadas, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que esteja muito mais interessada do que ele.<\/p>\n

2. Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o nas redes sociais<\/span><\/h2>\n

Hoje em dia, partilhamos quase toda a nossa vida nas redes sociais, mas, de alguma forma, temos dificuldade em partilh\u00e1-la cara a cara. Por vezes, temos a impress\u00e3o de que os nossos parceiros preferem comunicar atrav\u00e9s das redes sociais ou de mensagens instant\u00e2neas do que pessoalmente.<\/p>\n

Face-to-face communication is important for a long-lasting relationship. We can\u2019t solve our problems or communicate our feelings through text and emojis.<\/p>\n

3. A quantidade de tempo que passam juntos<\/span><\/h2>\n

H\u00e1 casais que gostam de passar todas as horas do dia juntos e h\u00e1 aqueles que apreciam o seu tempo a s\u00f3s acima de tudo. O importante aqui \u00e9 n\u00e3o ir para nenhum dos extremos.<\/p>\n

Os casais que passam demasiado tempo juntos acabam por se fartar. Os que passam muito pouco tempo juntos come\u00e7am a sentir-se sozinhos.<\/p>\n

The key is in finding the balance between spending time together and making some time for yourself. If the extremes happen, that\u2019s something to be alarmed about.<\/p>\n

4. Encontros noturnos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Although you are already in a relationship, you still shouldn\u2019t go without date nights\u2014even if they include Netflix and chill or two glasses and a bottle of wine on your balcony.<\/p>\n

Se o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a tornar imposs\u00edvel encontrar-se consigo, dizendo que \u00e9 demasiado ocupado<\/a> e a sua agenda est\u00e1 cheia esta semana, ele est\u00e1 cheio disso.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 a pessoa mais ocupada do mundo precisa e pode arranjar algum tempo livre. A quest\u00e3o \u00e9: ser\u00e1 que ele quer pass\u00e1-lo consigo?<\/p>\n

5. Integration into each other’s lives<\/span><\/h2>\n

A vida de solteiro e a vida de rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o totalmente diferentes. Por isso, quando se passa de uma para outra, podem surgir dificuldades.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only natural to spend more time with friends and chase a broad spectrum of interests when you are single. And you shouldn\u2019t give that up when you are in a relationship either.<\/p>\n

No entanto, deve reduzi-lo. Tem de reservar algum tempo para essa outra pessoa importante na sua vida e n\u00e3o a deixar \u00e0 espera para sempre at\u00e9 lhe dar a hora do dia.<\/p>\n

6. Meeting each other\u2019s friends<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even if it\u2019s too early to meet each other’s families, meeting friends is a must. It\u2019s one part of integration into each other\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

If they start to act funny and make up excuses for why you haven\u2019t met their friends yet, they are not that serious. If you are in an exclusive relationship and if he is really into you, you should know the people who are important to him.<\/p>\n

7. Cuidar uns dos outros<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u00c9 claro que somos mais do que capazes de nos mantermos sozinhos. Mas um indicador de uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 ter algu\u00e9m que nos apoie emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

If someone doesn\u2019t show interest in you, your life and your wellbeing not only is he self-centered, but he is also not there to stay for the long run.<\/p>\n

8. Aceitarem-se mutuamente como s\u00e3o na realidade<\/span><\/h2>\n

If two people are compatible, they will be able to accept their faults as well as their strong points. They won\u2019t try to change one another or hope for some major changes in the future.
\nPor outro lado, dois incompat\u00edvel<\/a> as pessoas lutar\u00e3o tanto pela mudan\u00e7a que brigar\u00e3o por qualquer coisinha. As diferen\u00e7as entre elas acabar\u00e3o por as separar.<\/p>\n

Nobody\u2019s perfect, but if you can’t deal with each other\u2019s imperfections, you are not in the right relationship.<\/p>\n

9. Confiar plenamente um no outro<\/span><\/h2>\n

Todos sabemos que a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Sem ela, nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 duradoura. Um dos primeiros e mais comuns indicadores de falta de confian\u00e7a \u00e9 o ci\u00fame.<\/p>\n

Estar constantemente a duvidar, a fazer perguntas, a perguntar pelo paradeiro da pessoa, a verificar o telem\u00f3vel n\u00e3o \u00e9 forma de manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Jealousy slowly suffocates a relationship. It becomes harder and harder to handle. So if there is no trust, don\u2019t even bother staying together.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We all know that relationships demand work. They won\u2019t always be sugar and spice and everything nice. There are going to be inevitable bumps on the road. However, there are things that have to go smoothly right from the start\u2014simple things which modern dating has transformed into complicated. If you look at the things listed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21788","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/black-and-white-city-couple-159241.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21788","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21788"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21788\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21796"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21788"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21788"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21788"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}