{"id":21822,"date":"2019-08-10T08:07:12","date_gmt":"2019-08-10T08:07:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21822"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:04:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:04:22","slug":"estou-a-forcar-me-a-aceitar-que-estamos-mesmo-acabados","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-a-forcar-me-a-aceitar-que-estamos-mesmo-acabados\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou a for\u00e7ar-me a aceitar que estamos mesmo acabados"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chama-me pat\u00e9tica e idealista, mas desde o momento em que te vi pela primeira vez, fiquei convencida de que serias o homem com quem passaria a minha vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thought you\u2019d be the person to hold my hand even when I grew old. That you\u2019d be the person I\u2019d start a family with and the man who would be the father of my children.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was sure that our love story wouldn\u2019t be ordinary and that it would be something which would last a lifetime.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pensei que nada nem ningu\u00e9m se poderia interpor entre n\u00f3s e que o amor venceria tudo o que se atravessasse no seu caminho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I never thought it would be perfect.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was aware of the fact that we\u2019d have some rough times. I knew we\u2019d argue and that we wouldn\u2019t get along about everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

But somehow, I was always convinced we\u2019d surpass all of this.<\/span><\/p>\n

De alguma forma, sempre me convenci de que o amor que t\u00ednhamos seria mais forte do que todos os obst\u00e1culos e desafios que a vida nos colocasse \u00e0 frente.<\/b><\/p>\n

But I guess I couldn\u2019t have been more wrong. And I guess I was the only one who thought this way.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because you wouldn\u2019t have left me the way you did if you were sure of our love the way I was. And I know it has been a while since you and I were together.<\/span><\/p>\n

E a minha raz\u00e3o continua a dizer-me que tu <\/b>won\u2019t come back<\/b><\/a> para mim e que as coisas entre n\u00f3s nunca mais ser\u00e3o como dantes.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o continua a recusar-se a aceit\u00e1-lo. E ainda tem esperan\u00e7a, contra todas as probabilidades. Ainda me recuso a aceitar realmente que acab\u00e1mos.<\/b><\/p>\n

I am still forcing myself to accept that our love story has come to its end. And that it wasn\u2019t a <\/span>final feliz<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I still have to remind myself that I don\u2019t have a right to call you whenever I feel like it. That I can\u2019t share every single moment of my day with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s a primeira pessoa com quem posso partilhar tudo o que me aconteceu de bom e de mau.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ainda estou a crescer para perceber que \u00e9s <\/b>n\u00e3o \u00e9 a minha pessoa para sempre<\/b><\/a> and that you are not the person I\u2019ll share my life with.<\/b><\/p>\n

That all of our future goals, plans and dreams will never come true. That we\u2019ll never accomplish all of the things we talked about.<\/span><\/p>\n

That we\u2019ll never visit all the places we wanted to visit and that we\u2019ll never do everything we planned to do.<\/span><\/p>\n

That I\u2019ll never be your wife or the mother of your children.<\/span><\/p>\n

That I won\u2019t spend every morning of every day of my life waking up next to you. That I will never fall asleep in your arms again.<\/span><\/p>\n

That I\u2019ll never again hear your heartbeat.<\/span><\/p>\n

That I\u2019ll never kiss you and that you\u2019ll never hold me in your arms. That I\u2019ll never spend hours watching you sleep and listening to you breathe peacefully.<\/span><\/p>\n

That I\u2019ll never again see your face on my doorstep, waiting for me to come home. That I\u2019ll never see a text or a missed call from you on my phone screen.<\/span><\/p>\n

I even can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ll never annoy me anymore. That we\u2019ll never argue over silly little things.<\/span><\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll never make me angry the only way you knew how to. That I\u2019ll never fight with you and that we\u2019ll never again have makeup sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estou a for\u00e7ar-me a aceitar que um dia, no futuro, um novo homem far\u00e1 parte da minha vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

That someday, I\u2019ll be kissing another\u2019s lips and that I\u2019ll be waking up next to someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am still forcing myself to understand that someday, you\u2019ll be just a distant memory which I\u2019ll hardly remember.<\/b><\/p>\n

That it\u2019s about time for me to leave you in the past. That it\u2019s time for me to finally get over you and to let go of everything that\u2019s reminding me of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

That it\u2019s about time for me to stop holding on to the past and to focus on my present and future.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ainda me estou a for\u00e7ar a n\u00e3o te amar. E ainda me estou a for\u00e7ar a seguir em frente com a minha vida.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Estou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Call me pathetic and an idealist but from the moment I first saw you, I was convinced that you\u2019d be the man I\u2019d spend my life next to. I thought you\u2019d be the person to hold my hand even when I grew old. That you\u2019d be the person I\u2019d start a family with and the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21823,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/alex-jones-8205-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21822","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21822"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21822\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21823"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21822"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21822"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21822"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}