{"id":21923,"date":"2018-08-16T10:24:57","date_gmt":"2018-08-16T10:24:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21923"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:41:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:41:24","slug":"como-nao-ficar-agarrado-numa-relacao-nsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-nao-ficar-agarrado-numa-relacao-nsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Como n\u00e3o se apegar a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um NSA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que existem ‘no strings attached’<\/a> pode ser uma verdadeira dor de cabe\u00e7a para algumas pessoas, porque no in\u00edcio parece ser s\u00f3 divers\u00e3o e jogos, mas no final do dia sabe-se que se vai ficar emocionalmente ligado.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a receber aten\u00e7\u00e3o de algu\u00e9m muito atraente e est\u00e1 a ser muito \u00edntimo fisicamente com essa pessoa e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira f\u00e1cil de n\u00e3o envolver as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

O problema aqui \u00e9 se apenas uma pessoa come\u00e7a a ter sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos pelo seu parceiro enquanto a outra continua a faz\u00ea-lo apenas pelo sexo.<\/p>\n

Of course, it’s a no-brainer that if you two really do start having feelings for one another and if you really think that a romantic relationship could work out for the two of you, then go for it!<\/p>\n

But that isn’t really the intention of an NSA relationship, is it?<\/p>\n

Assim, para que possa aprender a manter uma dist\u00e2ncia emocional do seu parceiro NSA, vou dar-lhe algumas regras sobre como n\u00e3o se apegar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o NSA.<\/p>\n

1. Data!<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Just a great way to not develop feelings for someone is to continue dating while you’re in an NSA relationship.<\/p>\n

No one is limiting you to that one particular person and just because you two are having sex, it doesn’t mean that you have to stop seeing other people.<\/p>\n

Saia para encontros e tenha conversas significativas com potenciais parceiros que n\u00e3o estejam apenas interessados em fazer sexo consigo!<\/p>\n

2. Don’t talk about personal things<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 realmente a raiz de todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es significativas<\/a>, that’s why you shouldn’t be talking about meaningful things with your NSA partner.<\/p>\n

Se queres contar os teus problemas a algu\u00e9m, telefona a um amigo, a um irm\u00e3o, a um pai, a qualquer pessoa, menos a ele.<\/p>\n

Acrescentar conversas significativas a esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 como uma bomba de emo\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 espera de explodir. Vai pensar que ele \u00e9 a pessoa que a compreende e que est\u00e1 sempre l\u00e1 para si.<\/p>\n

Quando, na realidade, n\u00e3o o \u00e9.<\/p>\n

3. Ser ego\u00edsta<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um NSA \u00e9 o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se pode ser muito ego\u00edsta e n\u00e3o se sentir mal por isso.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to make him feel better and you don’t have to listen to his problems. You don’t even have to please him.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que tem de estabelecer algumas regras que n\u00e3o deixem ningu\u00e9m de fora, mas ponha as suas necessidades em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

When you don’t pay much attention or have demasiada empatia<\/a> para ele, o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ficar\u00e1 mais longe dele.<\/p>\n

4. Nada mais do que sexo<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Se sair com ele para encontros reais, para jantar, se decidir sair com ele para passear, etc., acabar\u00e1 por desenvolver sentimentos por ele.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que se apaixonar\u00e1 pela forma como ele a trata, em que as pessoas a ver\u00e3o de m\u00e3os dadas.<\/p>\n

That’s why you shouldn’t let the relationship get personal. Only answer messages that don’t include your personal life and do not ask questions like \u201cHow are you?\u201d but rather something that indicates that you just want to spend the night with him.<\/p>\n

5. Fazer pausas<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sex really is a good way to bond with someone, that’s why it’s very important to know when to step aside.<\/p>\n

No momento em que come\u00e7ar a sentir algo mais profundo do que apenas atra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual, fa\u00e7a uma pausa na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os INE.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to stick around constantly because it is not a committed relationship. You can walk away whenever you want.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se come\u00e7ar a sentir-se um pouco confuso em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, como se esta pudesse ser mais do que apenas sexo, diga ao seu parceiro INE que tem de fazer uma pausa.<\/p>\n

After that, if you feel like it, you can go back, and if not… it’s all up to you!<\/p>\n

6. Don’t meet his family and friends<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Se quer mesmo afastar-se emocionalmente dele, n\u00e3o conhe\u00e7a a sua fam\u00edlia e amigos.<\/p>\n

Also, don’t take him to meet your loved ones.<\/p>\n

Meeting the important people in his life automatically makes you important too and in an NSA relationship, there shouldn’t be this level of trust and affection.<\/p>\n

Going this deep into his personal life doesn’t bring anything good, it only brings disaster. Especially, if there’s only one of you who has feelings for the other.\"COMO<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A relationship in which there are ‘no strings attached’ can be a real pain for some people, because at first it seems to be all fun and games but at the end of the day you know that you will get emotionally attached. You are getting attention from someone very attractive and you are being…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21924,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/seth.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21923"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21923\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}