{"id":21932,"date":"2020-09-16T11:09:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T11:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21932"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:11:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:11:55","slug":"sobre-o-homem-que-me-ensinou-a-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sobre-o-homem-que-me-ensinou-a-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Sobre o homem que me ensinou a amar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tenho sa\u00eddo com homens desde que era adolescente. E neste per\u00edodo de tempo, conheci muitos homens.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been with fuckboys, nice boys, players, bad boys, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-reasons-many-toxic-guys-drawn\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tipos t\u00f3xicos<\/a>, men who friendzoned me and men whom I\u2019ve friendzoned.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been with some guys who just wanted to use me for sex and some who led me on and I\u2019ve been in a couple of serious relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Havia alguns tipos que eu amava e outros que me amavam.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, there were also some guys who never deserved a place in my life. There were some guys who mistreated me and who didn\u2019t love me enough, despite all the love I was giving them.<\/p>\n<p>Mas n\u00e3o estou aqui para vos falar desses homens.<br \/>\nAs I\u2019ve already said, not one of them deserved a place in my life and that means they don\u2019t deserve to be remembered either.<\/p>\n<p>Tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o estou aqui para vos falar de todos os outros homens da minha vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I am here to talk to you about this one guy who stands out from them all. He doesn\u2019t belong in any category because he\u2019s always been so special.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E depois de todos estes anos, ele continua a ter um lugar especial no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E quando falo assim dele, todos podem pensar que ainda o amo. Podem pensar que sofro por este homem e que continuo a procur\u00e1-lo em todos os homens que entram na minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 bem diferente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121172 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher olha-se ao espelho e ri-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>A verdade \u00e9 que este era o homem que eu mais amava na minha vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And when I come to think of it, it is possible that he is the only man I really truly loved. Yes, I\u2019ve loved or I thought I loved other men but the truth is that my love for him always stood out.<\/p>\n<p>E a verdade \u00e9 que<strong> este era o homem que mais me amava.<\/strong> O \u00fanico homem que amou o meu verdadeiro eu e que nunca me pediu para ser outra pessoa. O \u00fanico <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estar-com-alguem-que-nao-te-ama-apesar-dos-teus-defeitos-mas-por-causa-deles\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">homem que me amou n\u00e3o apesar dos meus defeitos mas por eles<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Isto foi <strong>o \u00fanico homem que me amou por inteiro<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>O homem que sempre procurou os meus lados bons, mesmo quando n\u00e3o havia nenhum para ser encontrado. O homem que me amava da mesma forma no meu melhor e no meu pior.<\/p>\n<p>The man who wasn\u2019t only my lover but also my best friend and my family. The man who took care of me and who knew the essence of my personality.<\/p>\n<p>O \u00fanico homem que conseguiu mudar-me, sem nunca o tentar fazer. Foi o homem que me ajudou a tornar-me na pessoa que sou hoje.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all\u2014<strong>isto foi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-assim-que-me-fizeste-voltar-a-acreditar-no-para-sempre\/\">o homem que me ensinou a amar<\/a>.<\/strong> O homem que me ensinou como deve ser o amor e como devo ser amada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O homem que me ensinou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-cant-miss-signs-youre-settling-less-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nunca se contentar com menos<\/a>.<\/strong> Que elevou os meus padr\u00f5es no que toca a homens.<\/p>\n<p>O homem que me mostrou como uma mulher deve ser tratada, respeitada, apreciada e amada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121173 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher de cabelo castanho comprido est\u00e1 na rua e ri-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>This was the man who made me believe that there is such a thing as true love, even when it doesn\u2019t have a happy ending.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A man who showed me that I wasn\u2019t foolish for believing in fairy tales or in romance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And this is something I\u2019ll always be grateful for. This is something I\u2019ll always remember him for.<\/p>\n<p>Podem perguntar-se como \u00e9 que este homem j\u00e1 n\u00e3o faz parte da minha vida. Podem perguntar-se como \u00e9 que eu deixei este homem maravilhoso ir embora.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, a verdade \u00e9 que este homem trouxe-me a maior felicidade da minha vida. Mas tamb\u00e9m me causou muita dor e \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m o homem que me magoou como nenhum outro.<\/p>\n<p>Mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que eu queira recordar.<\/p>\n<p>Because I don\u2019t want to think about the bad things when I think of him. I don\u2019t want to think of the things which happened after our fairy tale ended.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 quero record\u00e1-lo por todas as coisas que me deu e por tudo o que me ensinou.<\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 isso que \u00e9 realmente importante. E foi isso que deixou uma verdadeira marca na minha vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-121171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Sobre o homem que me ensinou a amar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been dating men since I was a teenage girl. And in this period of time, I\u2019ve met numerous guys. I\u2019ve been with fuckboys, nice boys, players, bad boys, toxic guys, men who friendzoned me and men whom I\u2019ve friendzoned. I\u2019ve been with some guys who just wanted to use me for sex and some&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121169,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121169"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}