{"id":21951,"date":"2020-08-16T12:42:02","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T12:42:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21951"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:50:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:50:46","slug":"no-final-do-dia-tem-se-a-si-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/no-final-do-dia-tem-se-a-si-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"No final do dia, tem-se a si pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You should not be feeling lonely. The amount of anxiety that is bubbling up inside you, those thoughts and feelings that you can&#8217;t really control, keep on haunting you.<\/p>\n<p>But let me tell you that just because you are alone, it doesn&#8217;t mean that the world is coming to an end.<\/p>\n<p>Este sentimento de solid\u00e3o \u00e9 mais forte \u00e0 noite, n\u00e3o \u00e9? Quando todas as luzes est\u00e3o apagadas e tudo o que se ouve s\u00e3o alguns carros a passar pelo bairro.<\/p>\n<p>This is the time when you are alone with your thoughts and alone with the day that has passed. That&#8217;s why you have to look around yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s sozinho. Est\u00e1s agora com a \u00fanica pessoa que esteve verdadeiramente ao teu lado durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s com o \u00fanico amigo que te protegeu desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p>Em muitas ocasi\u00f5es, esquecemo-nos de que temos de nos valorizar mais porque, no final do dia, estamos verdadeiramente entregues a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m consegue ler os seus pensamentos, ningu\u00e9m consegue sentir aquela ansiedade dentro do seu peito quando precisa de ir ao dentista ou aquele cora\u00e7\u00e3o a desfazer-se quando foi magoado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107402\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-sitting-on-her-bed-e1603789410502.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada sobre o seu mau\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-sitting-on-her-bed-e1603789410502.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/woman-sitting-on-her-bed-e1603789410502-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m que nos conhe\u00e7a melhor do que n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e, mesmo assim, colocamos os outros no topo da nossa lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 o puseste l\u00e1. O homem que quase te fez desistir completamente do amor, o homem que nunca quis que fosses feliz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ele era mais importante para ti do que tu para ti pr\u00f3pria, por isso, porque n\u00e3o mudar isso?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the end of the day. All your friends have gone home, he is not there anymore to hold your hand, but you have yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Acredita em mim, tu \u00e9s o maior presente que podes dar a ti pr\u00f3prio. E, independentemente do que possas pensar, n\u00e3o \u00e9 pat\u00e9tico.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas levam-nos a pensar que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eis-como-aprendi-a-amar-a-minha-solidao\/\">amar o tempo sozinho<\/a> e ser capaz de se dar bem consigo pr\u00f3prio n\u00e3o s\u00e3o mais do que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/5-ways-to-make-self-love-a-priority-because-its-not-selfish-its-necessary\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">actos de ego\u00edsmo<\/a> that don\u2019t bring you true love or any value.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas deixa-me ser o primeiro a dizer-te que o \u00fanico amor verdadeiro que podes encontrar est\u00e1 dentro de ti!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All the love and respect and all the things you need for true fulfilment are inside of you! Because you are not here to fulfill anyone else&#8217;s needs except your own.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107407\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/pensive-and-beautiful-young-woman-lying-in-bed-e1603789582980.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem, pensativa e bonita, deitada na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/pensive-and-beautiful-young-woman-lying-in-bed-e1603789582980.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/pensive-and-beautiful-young-woman-lying-in-bed-e1603789582980-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E isso tamb\u00e9m se aplica a todas as outras pessoas neste mundo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que aprendeu a depender dos outros para a sua seguran\u00e7a e amor, ent\u00e3o devo dizer-lhe que n\u00e3o \u00e9 realmente feliz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Deveria estar a confiar em si pr\u00f3prio para estas coisas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando as luzes est\u00e3o apagadas e quando estamos sozinhos no nosso quarto, ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para nos confortar ou para nos dizer que a nossa mente est\u00e1 a brincar connosco.<\/p>\n<p>Nestas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, tudo \u00e9 t\u00e3o real e a sua ansiedade torna-se mais dif\u00edcil de gerir todas as noites.<\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7amos a duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, come\u00e7amos a sentir que algo pode estar errado, mas acreditem em mim, no momento em que nos aceitamos por todos os nossos defeitos e por todos os nossos lados fant\u00e1sticos, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/desistir-do-homem-que-a-faz-sentir-se-insegura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fazer-te sentir assim t\u00e3o inseguro<\/a> nunca mais.<\/p>\n<p>No final do dia, tem-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo quando todos se foram embora, mesmo quando tudo est\u00e1 silencioso e escuro, ainda nos temos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107411\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/blond-woman-walking-in-park-e1603789800348.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira a passear no parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/blond-woman-walking-in-park-e1603789800348.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/blond-woman-walking-in-park-e1603789800348-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>At times when you feel like there is no one you can turn to and no one who understands you, in those times, it&#8217;s most important to remember that you have yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E ningu\u00e9m vos pode tirar isso.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas podem tentar convenc\u00ea-lo de que amar a si mesmo \u00e9 ego\u00edsta, que estar presente para si mesmo n\u00e3o \u00e9 o que voc\u00ea precisa, mas voc\u00ea pode lutar contra isso!<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why the next time you feel scared, lonely and abandoned, remember the one person no one can take away from you and thank yourself for that.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se de todos os momentos em que poderia ter desistido, todos os momentos em que a vida parecia demasiado dif\u00edcil, demasiado assustadora, e todos os momentos em que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/quebrou-foi-embora-suficientemente-bem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">times you felt like you weren&#8217;t good enough<\/a> para nada disto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bem, adivinha? Hoje est\u00e1 aqui connosco.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque escolheste manter-te fiel a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nunca se esque\u00e7am disso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107401\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No final do dia, tem-se a si pr\u00f3prio\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You should not be feeling lonely. The amount of anxiety that is bubbling up inside you, those thoughts and feelings that you can&#8217;t really control, keep on haunting you. But let me tell you that just because you are alone, it doesn&#8217;t mean that the world is coming to an end. This feeling of loneliness&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":107409,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21951","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/At-The-End-Of-The-Day-You-Have-Yourself.jpg",1000,668,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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