{"id":21954,"date":"2020-07-17T06:42:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T06:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21954"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:51:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:51:23","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-continua-a-construir-muros-a-volta-do-seu-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-continua-a-construir-muros-a-volta-do-seu-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que continua a construir muros \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey beautiful, I just wanted to tell you that it’s OK.<\/p>\n

It’s fine that you are shutting yourself off. The way you don’t want to let anyone inside and the way you decided to not form an emotional connection with anyone is understandable.<\/p>\n

It’s fine that you want to give yourself time. They say that o tempo cura todas as feridas<\/a> e estou mesmo de acordo com isso!<\/p>\n

O tempo \u00e9 o nosso \u00fanico curador neste mundo ca\u00f3tico porque nos d\u00e1 espa\u00e7o para pensar e reavaliar as nossas pr\u00f3prias emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

It’s like time is telling all of us to take a break from the whole world and get back to ourself where we will have nothing except the understanding of our conversations and reflections.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s fine that you want to be selfish. People have made us believe that there is nothing worse than being selfish.<\/p>\n

Mas entregaste-te demasiado e durante demasiado tempo que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o resta nada de ti!<\/p>\n

Chegaste ao ponto de nem sequer saberes como voltar a ser uma prioridade, porque sempre houve algu\u00e9m mais importante para ti.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Olha para aquilo por que passaste! Quantas vezes tiveste de ouvir essas palavras sa\u00edrem da boca dele?<\/p>\n

He kept on telling you that you were missing ‘something’. He told you how unworthy of love and appreciation you were, he told you that loving you was a mistake.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que s\u00e3o corajosos por estarem aqui connosco hoje!<\/p>\n

Tens a verdadeira coragem e a for\u00e7a de um lutador, por isso n\u00e3o duvides mais de ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

That’s why it’s completely fine to build those walls around your heart to protect yourself. You have been through enough to know that wearing your heart on your sleeve can only cause damage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have learned it the hard way that men don’t have limits when it comes to the words they use to offend you.<\/p>\n

Viste como o homem que mais amavas se transformou num monstro mesmo \u00e0 tua frente e continuaste a am\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Foste tu que arranjaste toda a coragem necess\u00e1ria para te levantares e afastar-se dele<\/a>!<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You are truly an amazing woman, so don’t beat yourself up when people tell you that you are tense.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que essas pessoas passaram pelo mesmo inferno que tu passaste? Essas pessoas viram o que tu viste?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 apenas a ser cauteloso. Queres guarda o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e isso \u00e9 mais do que compreens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Esse teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que te mant\u00e9m vivo est\u00e1 cheio de n\u00f3doas negras e cicatrizes porque j\u00e1 foi partido demasiadas vezes.<\/p>\n

O teu peito doeu tanto, gritando o nome do homem que s\u00f3 se aproveitou de ti, que hoje est\u00e1 dormente.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m pode julg\u00e1-lo pela escolha que fez de ficar sozinho, enquanto constru\u00eda muros \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Esses muros v\u00e3o proteg\u00ea-la de todos os homens que tentam entrar \u00e0 for\u00e7a e que depois s\u00f3 a v\u00e3o desiludir.<\/p>\n

As tuas muralhas s\u00f3 cair\u00e3o para o \u00fanico homem que te perseguir\u00e1, o homem que ir\u00e1 devagar contigo porque sabe que tem de ter cuidado contigo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

At one point, those walls around your heart won’t have a reason to stand strong anymore because someone will come into your life who will guard your heart instead of those walls.<\/p>\n

Until then, it’s OK that you are feeling this way. It’s OK that you want to escape from men who don’t know how to show you love.<\/p>\n

It’s OK that you are afraid to love. It’s OK that tem medo de confiar<\/a>. As pessoas t\u00eam esta estranha vontade de se irem embora depois de terem obtido algo ou algu\u00e9m, por isso passam \u00e0 v\u00edtima seguinte.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to be just one of those women who they won’t even remember.<\/p>\n

You will stick inside their mind as the only woman whose walls were so high and hard that they couldn’t get through and they will forever wonder what would have happened if they had.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque ningu\u00e9m, exceto o homem certo, saber\u00e1 que uma mulher verdadeiramente emp\u00e1tica, doce e gentil se esconde atr\u00e1s dessas paredes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Hey beautiful, I just wanted to tell you that it’s OK. It’s fine that you are shutting yourself off. The way you don’t want to let anyone inside and the way you decided to not form an emotional connection with anyone is understandable. It’s fine that you want to give yourself time. They say that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97200,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/To-The-Girl-Who-Continues-To-Build-Walls-Around-Her-Heart.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21954"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21954\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}