J\u00e1 alguma vez estiveste com algu\u00e9m cuja intensidade m\u00e1xima de amor que \u00e9 capaz de sentir por outra pessoa \u00e9 muito inferior \u00e0 tua?<\/strong><\/p>\n Com algu\u00e9m de quem tem a certeza do seu amor? Com algu\u00e9m que sabes que te ama, mas cujo amor simplesmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para ti?<\/p>\n I have and I wouldn\u2019t wish for anyone to go through anything similar because it is one of the most painful things you can experience.<\/p>\n And you should believe me, because I\u2019ve been involved with guys who didn\u2019t love me<\/a>. And trust me\u2014this one is much worse.<\/p>\n Because when someone doesn\u2019t love you, you just have a hard time accepting that he doesn\u2019t have feelings for you and that this will probably never change.<\/p>\n When someone doesn\u2019t love you, you know very well where you stand and you just have to force yourself to face it.<\/p>\n But when someone loves you but doesn\u2019t love you enough, things are far more complicated.<\/p>\n Quando me juntei a este homem, vi que ele era uma pessoa de cora\u00e7\u00e3o frio.<\/p>\n And as our relationship went on farther and farther, I thought that he simply didn\u2019t like me enough and that I didn\u2019t manage to wake any feelings for me inside of him.<\/p>\n E, durante muito tempo, pensei que eu \u00e9 que era o problema. Pensei que tinha de me esfor\u00e7ar mais e que devia esfor\u00e7ar-me mais para que ele me amasse mais.<\/p>\n Mas depois, \u00e0 medida que fui participando mais na sua vida, apercebi-me de que ele era assim com toda a gente. Apercebi-me que se comportava da mesma maneira com os pais, com o irm\u00e3o e com os amigos.<\/p>\n Era como se ele nos amasse a todos, mas ele nunca amou ningu\u00e9m o suficiente<\/a>. He simply acted like he was happy to have all of us in his life but like he wouldn\u2019t be too bothered if he lost any of us.<\/p>\n Like he was just fine on his own and like there didn\u2019t exist a person in this world who he needed.<\/p>\n I got it\u2014he was a rational person and wasn\u2019t led by his emotions. But I was completely different and I couldn\u2019t stand being in this type of relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n But the point is that I couldn\u2019t walk away from him because I had fallen for this guy like crazy.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que eu estava pronta para aceitar as migalhas do seu amor que ele me estava a dar.<\/strong><\/p>\n Porque mesmo estas migalhas eram melhores do que n\u00e3o o ter de todo. E porque eu sabia que ele nunca me perseguiria e que nunca sentiria a minha falta se eu o deixasse.<\/strong><\/p>\n E depois, em vez de me afastar dele, comecei a procurar justifica\u00e7\u00f5es para o seu comportamento.<\/p>\n Estava sempre a dizer a mim pr\u00f3pria que ele era um homem sens\u00edvel, cheio de amor, mas que tinha dificuldade em exprimir os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n Esperava que fosse eu a mud\u00e1-lo, que fosse eu a ensin\u00e1-lo o que era o verdadeiro amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n But with time, I realized that this really was his true face. He wasn\u2019t pretending to be this tough guy and he wasn\u2019t hiding his feelings.<\/p>\n He just didn\u2019t have any. At least, not the way I wanted for him to have them.<\/p>\n Este tipo simplesmente n\u00e3o era capaz de me amar da forma como Queria que ele me amasse<\/a> e a forma como eu o amava. E n\u00e3o havia nada que eu pudesse fazer quanto a isso.<\/p>\n O momento em que compreendi isto foi tamb\u00e9m o momento em que percebi que ficar com ele significaria sempre que me estaria a contentar com menos.<\/p>\n![\"cabelo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home.jpg\")
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