{"id":22005,"date":"2018-08-17T11:55:08","date_gmt":"2018-08-17T11:55:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22005"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:38:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:38:01","slug":"se-estas-a-procura-de-um-sinal-de-que-deves-deixa-lo-aqui-esta-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-estas-a-procura-de-um-sinal-de-que-deves-deixa-lo-aqui-esta-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"Se est\u00e1s \u00e0 procura de um sinal de que deves deix\u00e1-lo, aqui est\u00e1 ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 um tipo de quem gostas muito. O gajo ama mesmo<\/a>. O tipo por quem far\u00edamos tudo.<\/p>\n

But the truth is that he doesn’t love you back. At least, not the way you love him. At least, not the way you want to be loved.<\/p>\n

E, infelizmente, o senhor deputado sabe-o muito bem.<\/p>\n

For as long as the two of you have known each other, he\u2019s been leading you on. He\u2019s been playing hot and cold mind games with you and he\u2019s been sending you mixed signals.<\/p>\n

There are days when he is cold and when he acts like he doesn\u2019t even know you. And these are the days when you don\u2019t have the slightest idea of what has to be done.<\/p>\n

On other days, you become aware that you need to walk away from this guy and that you can\u2019t wait for a second longer to do so.<\/p>\n

You realize that he doesn\u2019t love you enough, that he never did and that he never will. You realize that he doesn\u2019t appreciate you<\/a> and that he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Percebe que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que sempre imaginou que fosse e que deix\u00e1-lo \u00e9 a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o inteligente para si.<\/p>\n

Mas no momento em que tomas essa decis\u00e3o, ele volta a rastejar para a tua vida.<\/p>\n

E, de repente, ele torna-se o rapaz mais querido de sempre. Torna-se o rapaz por quem nos apaixon\u00e1mos. Torna-se amoroso e carinhoso.<\/p>\n

E, sem mais nem menos, muda de ideias. Esquece a forma como ele a tratou antes e decide dar outra oportunidade a esta quase-rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You hope that this time will be different and that he\u2019ll remain like this.<\/p>\n

But of course, this doesn\u2019t happen. Before you know it, this man goes back to his old ways and you go back to your old thoughts of leaving him.<\/p>\n

And all of this goes on for years. You see that you\u2019ve dragged yourself into an endless circle of love and hatred with this man and you simply don\u2019t know what to do with your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what the right decision is for you.<\/p>\n

If you stick with this guy, you\u2019ll waste years of your life in this type of relationship. You\u2019ll end up miserable and you\u2019ll blame yourself for not walking away from him sooner.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, if you leave him, you\u2019ll always wonder what could have been of the two of you.<\/p>\n

O que teria acontecido se lhe tivesse dado outra oportunidade? Teria ele sido o homem que querias que fosse? E se a sua personalidade am\u00e1vel e carinhosa fosse na realidade a sua verdadeira face?<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t make up your mind and you don\u2019t know what to think about this man. What should you do?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tudo o que queres \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que te ajude a tomar uma decis\u00e3o final. Queres que algu\u00e9m te diga o que fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deseja que aconte\u00e7a algo que o ajude a ver as coisas com mais clareza. Est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de um sinal. Um sinal que lhe diga se deve ficar com ele ou se deve ir embora.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bem, a sua espera chegou ao fim porque \u00e9 agora! Este \u00e9 o teu sinal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is me telling you to walk away from this man who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you and who clearly doesn\u2019t love you enough and to never look back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isto sou eu a aconselhar-vos a diga o seu \u00faltimo adeus<\/a> a este homem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Isto sou eu a dizer-vos que deixar este gajo<\/a> is the only choice you should make. This is me telling you that he is not worthy of you or of all the years you\u2019ve spent with him.<\/p>\n

This is me promising you that you\u2019ll never regret leaving someone like him. That you\u2019ll get over him and that you\u2019ll move on with your life, like he never existed.<\/p>\n

This is me promising you that you\u2019ll be happy without him by your side.<\/p>\n

Promising you that you\u2019ll eventually be glad that you did this and that you\u2019ll eventually realize that this was the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

Isto sou eu a dar-vos um sinal. E isto sou eu a pedir-vos que o aceitem.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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