{"id":22021,"date":"2018-08-20T07:30:40","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T07:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22021"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:37:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:37:36","slug":"evitaste-uma-bala-quando-ele-te-deixou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/evitaste-uma-bala-quando-ele-te-deixou\/","title":{"rendered":"Esquivaste-te de uma bala quando ele te deixou"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve probably often heard the phrase that everything happens for a reason. And you\u2019ve heard that <\/strong>l\u00e1 \u00e9 bom em tudo o que \u00e9 mau.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve heard that sometimes the best thing that can happen to you actually looks like something awful in the beginning.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But you\u2019ve never believed in any of this. And you still don\u2019t. But let me tell you one thing\u2014you definitely should.<\/p>\n

Sei que est\u00e1s a passar por muito agora.<\/p>\n

Tinhas um tipo que amado mais do que a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> e estava convencida de que ele tamb\u00e9m a amava. Pelo menos, era isso que ele te dizia e era assim que ele agia.<\/p>\n

Planeou um futuro com este homem. Queriam casar-se e formar uma fam\u00edlia. Sonhava com uma casa bonita e pequena, com uma veda\u00e7\u00e3o branca \u00e0 frente. Sonhava em ter filhos com esse homem.<\/p>\n

Sonhava em partilhar uma vida com ele. E parecia que ele queria o mesmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Until one day your entire life and all of your dreams and plans for the future collapsed. Until one day you saw that this was all a lie and that he obviously wasn\u2019t the man he pretended to be.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 que um dia, ele deixou-te.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gostar\u00edamos que houvesse algo que pud\u00e9ssemos fazer para voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo, algo que pud\u00e9ssemos fazer para corrigir as coisas.<\/p>\n

Deseja que houvesse algo que pudesse fazer para apagar tudo o que aconteceu e algo que pudesse fazer para que esse homem voltasse para si.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quer a sua antiga vida de volta e deseja que tudo isto n\u00e3o passe de um sonho mau do qual est\u00e1 prestes a acordar.<\/p>\n

Quando ele fez o que fez, pensaste que era a pior coisa que te podia acontecer. Pensaste que a tua vida tinha chegado ao fim e que a tua exist\u00eancia tinha perdido todo o seu prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 completamente diferente.<\/p>\n

Sei que esta \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que quer ouvir, mas a verdade \u00e9 que this man doesn\u2019t love you anymore<\/a> ou ele nunca te amou.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que ele nunca quis passar o resto da sua vida contigo.<\/p>\n

Because if he had felt the same way about you and if he had wanted to stay by your side, he would have. He wouldn\u2019t have left you the way he did.
\nHe wouldn\u2019t have walked away from you, without ever thinking about the consequences. Without thinking how this would affect you and without ever giving you a proper explanation for his actions.<\/p>\n

Was he pretending to be something he wasn\u2019t all along? Has he been wearing a mask all this time and he never showed his true colors until now?<\/p>\n

Ele via-a apenas como algo tempor\u00e1rio? Mentiu que queria envelhecer contigo e que tu eras o amor da vida dele?<\/p>\n

Usou a tua bondade e o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mole? Alguma vez te amou ou apenas gostou de ser amado por ti?<\/p>\n

Or did he simply fall out of love with you? Was he a coward who didn\u2019t have the courage to tell you this to your face so he chose to run away from you?<\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019ll never know. But it doesn\u2019t even matter now. Because whatever the truth is, it is more than clear that este homem nunca te mereceu<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Because what is important is that you should actually be thankful to this guy for leaving you, even though you don\u2019t see it now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que o facto de ele te deixar foi a melhor coisa que te podia acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, tens consci\u00eancia de que este tipo te salvou quando te abandonou?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tem consci\u00eancia de que devia estar feliz por isto ter acontecido agora, antes que fosse demasiado tarde? Tens consci\u00eancia de que te esquivaste de uma bala quando ele te deixou?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because if he hadn\u2019t, you would be spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n

Estaria a partilhar o seu futuro com algu\u00e9m que nunca lhe daria o devido valor e com algu\u00e9m que nunca se preocuparia com os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

You would be spending the rest of your life without love and respect. Without being someone\u2019s priority and with a man who isn\u2019t worthy of you. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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