Os encontros modernos parecem t\u00e3o simples, mas s\u00e3o t\u00e3o complicados. O caminho que leva de um namoro a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o real \u00e9 t\u00e3o longo e cansativo que nos desgasta antes mesmo de come\u00e7armos um romance.<\/p>\n
Patience is not one of my strong suits…especially when it comes to modern dating. I hate playing games and acting like I don\u2019t care when I actually do.<\/p>\n
Detesto todos os c\u00e1lculos e planeamento quando se trata de mensagens de texto<\/a>. Quem enviou a mensagem a quem primeiro? Devo adiar a minha repeti\u00e7\u00e3o? Se eu enviar isto, vou parecer demasiado carente? etc.<\/p>\n Pensar e pensar demasiado em todos os seus passos \u00e9 frustrante. Acaba com toda a piada do namoro.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I send a reply right away if I feel like it. I text first without giving it a second thought. I ignore when something doesn\u2019t sit right with me.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o tenho medo de admitir o que sinto, mesmo que isso me fa\u00e7a parecer estranho. Gosto de falar sobre as coisas e de saber qual \u00e9 a minha posi\u00e7\u00e3o. Caso contr\u00e1rio, sinto que estou a perder o meu tempo.<\/p>\n I get accused of moving too fast and being too clingy when I am just being realistic. Shouldn\u2019t you know after a month of dating if you want to enter a relationship or not?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Nos encontros modernos, aparentemente n\u00e3o. S\u00e3o necess\u00e1rios v\u00e1rios meses ou, em casos piores, anos, para determinar se se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o exclusiva ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n It takes riding emotional roller coasters with men who don\u2019t know what they want…who are afraid of relationships and any sort of commitment.<\/p>\n \u00c9 preciso passar os dias e as noites a falar, a enviar mensagens de texto e a fazer snapchats com algu\u00e9m, e deix\u00e1-lo entrar no nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 para que ele nos possa deixar como se nunca tiv\u00e9ssemos existido e nos deixe a pensar no que aconteceu e onde \u00e9 que err\u00e1mos.<\/p>\n Isn\u2019t it better to know where you stand with somebody as soon as possible?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n It doesn’t have to be on your first date, but a month of dating, calling, texting and browsing through social media accounts should be more than enough if you ask me.<\/p>\n The longer the courtship or the dating game, the more you get attached to a certain person. You get so involved and so hooked, and if it doesn\u2019t work out, it\u2019s so much harder to get over them.<\/p>\n The more time you had with them, the more memories you created, and you felt like you are actually with them. But deep down, you know you have been strung along into something \u2018almost\u2019.<\/p>\n