{"id":22078,"date":"2018-08-20T12:00:33","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T12:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22078"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:44:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:44:08","slug":"10-perguntas-que-nunca-deve-fazer-sobre-o-ex-do-seu-parceiro-e-porque","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-perguntas-que-nunca-deve-fazer-sobre-o-ex-do-seu-parceiro-e-porque\/","title":{"rendered":"10 perguntas que nunca deves fazer sobre o ex do teu parceiro e porqu\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 coisas que s\u00e3o muito importantes para rever sobre as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas, porque h\u00e1 coisas que podem ajudar o seu parceiro e voc\u00ea a ter a melhor rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sempre.<\/p>\n<p>Saber porque \u00e9 que o seu parceiro acabou com <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-para-se-estar-nas-tintas-para-a-ex-dele\/\">a sua ex<\/a> and what made him wish he never dated her are two very important things because in this way you won&#8217;t be making those mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>But, to be honest, there are so many things that you shouldn&#8217;t be asking because they can only be destructive for the both of you.<\/p>\n<p>Se fizer alguma destas perguntas sabendo que n\u00e3o deve saber a resposta, pode acabar por destruir a sua autoestima e fazer com que o seu parceiro se sinta mal consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Saiba apenas que ele est\u00e1 agora consigo e que tudo o que aconteceu no passado deve ficar l\u00e1, onde pertence.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, para que nunca cometas os mesmos erros que eu, eis as perguntas que nunca deves fazer ao teu parceiro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-usar-te-para-esquecer-a-ex\/\">sobre os seus ex<\/a> e todas as raz\u00f5es para isso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Com que frequ\u00eancia faziam sexo?<\/h2>\n<p>Why would you even want to know that? It&#8217;s something very personal and very intimate that you shouldn&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>Se a ex dele tinha um desejo sexual maior ou menor do que o seu, isso pode fazer com que saia da sua zona de conforto e queira ter <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-coisas-picantes-que-os-homens-querem-que-facas-durante-o-sexo\/\">tanto sexo quanto eles.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>What if they didn&#8217;t have sex at all? It&#8217;s just not something you would want to know because it influences your own perceptions and your own needs.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As mamas dela s\u00e3o maiores do que as minhas?<\/h2>\n<p>Isto tamb\u00e9m pode ser usado para todas as outras partes do corpo. Saber se as mamas dela eram maiores (ou o rabo) s\u00f3 faz com que nos comparemos com ela e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Temos de estar conscientes do facto de que existem tantas formas corporais diferentes que n\u00e3o \u00e9 poss\u00edvel sermos todos iguais.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, e se o rabo dela fosse maior? O que \u00e9 que se pode fazer quanto a isso?<\/p>\n<p>Just don&#8217;t ask this question.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Disseste-lhe isso?<\/h2>\n<p>Quando ele lhe est\u00e1 a contar uma hist\u00f3ria importante da sua vida, deve estar a ouvir em vez de pensar se ele tamb\u00e9m a contou a ela.<\/p>\n<p>Se \u00e9 algo muito importante para ele, ent\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma boa hip\u00f3tese de ele lhe ter dito isso. Por que raz\u00e3o quereria ouvi-lo dizer isso?<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que te vai magoar se n\u00e3o fores a primeira a quem ele contou, mas h\u00e1 uma boa hip\u00f3tese de ela tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o ter sido a primeira.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t stress about that. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-esperem-por-ele-ele-nao-vale-a-pena\/\">It&#8217;s not worth it.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Did you tell her, \u201cI love you\u201d?<\/h2>\n<p>J\u00e1 cometi este erro demasiadas vezes. Perguntei sempre se se amavam e se, em algum momento da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o tinham dito um ao outro.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, para ser sincero convosco, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de sabermos isso.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ele a tenha amado, agora est\u00e1 consigo, por isso concentre-se nisso!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Comparas-me com ela?<\/h2>\n<p>Chances are that you are the only one in the relationship comparing yourself to her. Sometimes, she might pop up in his mind but it&#8217;s only there to remind him of how special you are.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se come\u00e7ar a pensar nisso enquanto ele a est\u00e1 a beijar, as coisas podem tornar-se dolorosas num minuto.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t stop yourself from enjoying wonderful moments with him simply because you are obsessed with how he might be thinking of her today.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela fez-te chorar?<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s really hard for a man to admit that he got emotional to the point of crying so if he did, it would be a very vulnerable topic to talk about.<\/p>\n<p>They probably split up in a very dramatic manner, so don&#8217;t make it worse for him by reminding him of that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ela transformou as suas fantasias em realidade?<\/h2>\n<p>Todos n\u00f3s sabemos que os homens t\u00eam as suas mentes perversas, por isso, talvez lhe venha \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a perguntar se ela realizou essas fantasias.<\/p>\n<p>Aconselho-o a n\u00e3o perguntar.<\/p>\n<p>E se ele disser que sim? Conseguir\u00e1s voltar a olh\u00e1-lo nos olhos se souberes o que eles fizeram?<\/p>\n<p>You should be turning your relationship into something unique and authentic. But that can&#8217;t happen if you&#8217;re trying to do the same things she did.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os teus amigos gostavam mais dela?<\/h2>\n<p>No matter whether his friends do or don&#8217;t like you that much, you shouldn&#8217;t ask how it was with her.<br \/>\nMaybe she was a tomboy who they connected with really well over hockey? It&#8217;s a random thought but it could be true.<\/p>\n<p>If his friends liked her more, it doesn&#8217;t mean that he does. So, don&#8217;t worry about it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pensaste em casar com ela?<\/h2>\n<p>Se era uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, provavelmente sim. Podem at\u00e9 ter <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-gerir-as-financas-do-seu-casamento-com-um-orcamento-limitado\/\">planearam o seu casamento.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s all over now, so why does that mean anything to you?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">J\u00e1 me levaste a s\u00edtios onde estiveste com ela?<\/h2>\n<p>Restaurants, cafes and so on shouldn&#8217;t be a problem. He might just like the food or coffee there so don&#8217;t stress out about it.<\/p>\n<p>The world is a huge place to explore and that&#8217;s why you will have a much greater chance of experiencing the world with him than she ever did.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are things that are very important to go over about your past relationships because there are things that can help your partner and you to have the best relationship ever. Knowing why your partner broke up with his ex and what made him wish he never dated her are two very important things because&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":22079,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/keenan-constance-359736-unsplash-1.jpg",800,568,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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