{"id":22092,"date":"2020-11-23T07:19:12","date_gmt":"2020-11-23T07:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22092"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:01:48","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:01:48","slug":"7-razoes-chocantes-para-os-homens-continuarem-solteiros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-chocantes-para-os-homens-continuarem-solteiros\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es chocantes para os homens continuarem solteiros"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Porque \u00e9 que os homens preferem ficar solteiros?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 normal que, a partir de uma certa idade, os homens sintam a necessidade de assentar e de abandonar a vida de solteiro. Mas, nalguns casos, temos a s\u00edndrome de um<em><strong> \u2018forever bachelor\u2019<\/strong><\/em> que parece ser cada vez mais popular no mundo moderno.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that men can\u2019t find their soulmate, their<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-tua-pessoa-para-sempre-fara-estas-12-coisas-que-o-teu-ex-nunca-soube-fazer\/\"> pessoa para sempre<\/a>. It\u2019s just that they simply don\u2019t want to. Life is so much easier when you can do whatever you want, whenever you want.<\/p>\n<p>But let\u2019s not forget\u2014it has its upsides and its downsides too. What these forever single men won\u2019t tell you is that there are moments in their lives when solitude becomes unbearable.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, a maior parte deles anseia profundamente por uma parceria, mas remendam esse desejo com um caso r\u00e1pido para que tudo volte a melhorar.<\/p>\n<p><em>Mas a \u00faltima pergunta \u00e9: porque \u00e9 que os homens querem ficar solteiros?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Eles querem ser livres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122302 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"um homem num campo de trigo desfruta do p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-in-a-wheat-field-enjoys-the-sunset-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re married, you don\u2019t have the luxury to do whatever you want whenever you want it. You have to check with your wife, especially if you have kids. Kids are a huge responsibility, and you should be there for them whenever.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re single, you\u2019re free, and that\u2019s what they crave the most. They can eat whatever they like and where they like. They can watch the game with their friends or go out in the middle of the night to grab a drink.<\/p>\n<p>Simply put, you are the master of your own life. Some guys don\u2019t want to lose that freedom. They want to be their own top priorities. On the one hand, that\u2019s a good thing, but on the other, they are missing out on a lot.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">T\u00eam medo do compromisso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122303 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man.jpg\" alt=\"o retrato de um homem triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-portrait-of-a-sad-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Marriage is all about trust and commitment and that can be scary for someone who isn\u2019t positive about what he wants. These men are not sure of what they want and because of that they don\u2019t want to commit.<\/p>\n<p>Claro, provavelmente n\u00e3o est\u00e3o conscientes do que est\u00e3o a perder, porque o casamento pode ser uma coisa linda. Mas em vez de se concentrarem nas coisas positivas, estes homens concentram-se nas negativas, pelo que optam por ser solteiros.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Acham que uma pessoa n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122304 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"o homem l\u00e1 fora est\u00e1 a pensar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/the-man-outside-is-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are men who simply think that spending your life with one person is not a natural thing. They don\u2019t want to get married because they are already sure that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-sinais-de-que-o-seu-casamento-vai-acabar-em-divorcio\/\">o casamento acabar\u00e1 definitivamente em div\u00f3rcio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, optam por ficar solteiros em vez de discutirem, n\u00e3o terem rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais e gastarem muito dinheiro num div\u00f3rcio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They don\u2019t want to lose the excitement<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122305 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"um homem atraente e sorridente senta-se num sof\u00e1 e utiliza um smartphone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/an-attractive-smiling-man-sits-on-a-sofa-and-uses-a-smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A maior parte dos homens pensa que quando se casam ou entram num <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/why-so-many-people-fail-at-being-committed-to-just-one-person\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>, they are done with adventures and excitement. First of all, that so doesn\u2019t have to be the truth, and second of all, that is really not a valid reason to stay single.<\/p>\n<p>But, as they say, they don\u2019t want to lose the excitement. They want to be able to get up in the morning, start their car and drive up to the mountains if they feel like it.<\/p>\n<p>Also, they don\u2019t want to lose the excitement of doing something for the first time. Now, it becomes more clear why they choose to be single. They don&#8217;t want to lose the feeling of the first kiss or the first sex with a new partner.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s great doing all of those things with your wife or your long term girlfriend, but it\u2019s simply not the same. That is how they look at things.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Acham as rela\u00e7\u00f5es dif\u00edceis<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122307 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"um homem triste a pensar na varanda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-sad-man-thinking-on-the-balcony-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some men just don\u2019t know how to handle the stress of a relationship. For them, it\u2019s so hard to maintain a good and strong relationship without spending too much energy.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s more of an obligation than a pleasure for these men to be in a relationship, and that\u2019s why they avoid it. The truth is, all relationships are hard, but the outcome and the love you get should make them easier.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nunca cresceram realmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122306 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station.jpg\" alt=\"homem negro sorridente joga na consola de jogos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/smiling-black-man-plays-play-station-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some men just never actually grew up, and it\u2019s only logical they are not capable of taking care of someone else. And if you get married, you have children; ergo, you have to take care of them and not yourself anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns homens s\u00e3o ego\u00edstas e querem continuar a ser o centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es porque gostam de ser assim.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They simply don\u2019t believe in marriage<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122308 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair.jpg\" alt=\"um homem a descansar num terra\u00e7o numa poltrona\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/a-man-resting-on-a-terrace-in-an-armchair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe some of them had a bad experience when they were younger. Maybe their parents split and they saw problems in marriage as children which they weren\u2019t supposed to see.<\/p>\n<p>They didn&#8217;t have a good example of a healthy relationship growing up, and it\u2019s only logical they reject it later on in their grown up life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122309 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 raz\u00f5es chocantes para os homens continuarem solteiros\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why do men prefer to stay single? It would be pretty normal that at a certain age, men feel the need to settle down and give up the single life. But in some cases, we have the syndrome of a \u2018forever bachelor\u2019 which seems to be more and more popular in the modern world. It\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":122301,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22092","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Stay-Single-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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