{"id":22162,"date":"2020-08-23T11:19:18","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T11:19:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22162"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:29:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:29:35","slug":"o-que-se-sente-quando-o-seu-quase-amor-escolhe-outra-pessoa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-se-sente-quando-o-seu-quase-amor-escolhe-outra-pessoa\/","title":{"rendered":"Qual \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o quando o seu quase amor escolhe outra pessoa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"O que \u00e9 que mudou?\" \u00e9 o pensamento que ecoa na sua mente e que n\u00e3o pode ser silenciado. H\u00e1 apenas alguns meses, ele n\u00e3o estava pronto para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t want to hear the word commitment, let alone fully be in one.<\/p>\n

However, he is ready now. He is ready for it all with her, like he never was with you and it\u2019s making you nauseous just thinking about it. It just doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

Queres uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o. Est\u00e1 a tentar compreender tudo isto, mas falha sempre.<\/p>\n

The questions keep multiplying but the answers are what\u2019s missing and you seem unable to find them.<\/p>\n

You feel like you have been doubled-crossed and it\u2019s making you mad.<\/b><\/p>\n

You spent so much time with him, giving him all the boyfriend benefits and never once did you hear him call you his girlfriend. He wasn\u2019t em etiquetas <\/a> , he just wasn\u2019t that type.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

De repente, ele n\u00e3o tem problemas com r\u00f3tulos. N\u00e3o tem problemas em publicar fotografias com ela nas redes sociais. N\u00e3o tem problemas em segurar-lhe na m\u00e3o e gritar que ela \u00e9 dele.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what to do or how to behave. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sente que deve telefonar-lhe e deixar sair a sua raiva e desilus\u00e3o. Mas h\u00e1 algo que a impede. Nunca foi oficialmente uma coisa. N\u00e3o tem o direito de o censurar.<\/p>\n

Quer enviar-lhe uma longa mensagem, exigindo uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o, dizendo-lhe o quanto se sente mal e o quanto esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o o magoa. Mas antes de carregar no bot\u00e3o enviar, muda de ideias.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve to know how much damage his behavior has caused. He doesn\u2019t need to know that he has the power to hurt you that much.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de todos os momentos significativos passados com ele. <\/b><\/p>\n

The memories just don\u2019t leave you be. You have this vivid picture in your mind of every time you were close, of every nice thing he did, of every kiss and every hug and you are making things worse on yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You go even further and analyze his texts and every word he ever mumbled. It\u2019s like you are in self-destruct mode and you have no power to put a stop to it.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a tentar encontrar um sentido onde n\u00e3o existe nenhum. <\/b><\/p>\n

What does she have that you don\u2019t? What is it inside of her that made him change his mind? What made him want a real relationship with her when he wanted something casual with you?<\/p>\n

You were there for him. You did everything right. You didn\u2019t suffocate him, you gave him space, you were never pegajoso <\/a> and he still chose her over you. It just doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

Sente-se que ela tomou o seu lugar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sente-se como se tivesse sido roubada. Depois de todo o tempo que passou com ele, era voc\u00ea que ele devia ter levado de f\u00e9rias, era voc\u00ea que devia estar a sorrir enquanto ele lhe beijava a face naquela fotografia.<\/p>\n

You feel like the life you were entitled to was taken away from right under your nose and you can\u2019t do anything about it. You feel powerless and deprived. Sadness consumes you.<\/p>\n

Finalmente, temos aquele momento de clareza. <\/b><\/p>\n

You realize that it couldn\u2019t be you. Your place was never beside him because he never made room for you. He always held you at arm’s length.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele deu-te sempre migalhas, mas nunca tudo. Nunca disse que iriam ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio. Ele s\u00f3 se inscreveu para o quase. Ele s\u00f3 queria um pequeno papel na sua vida e nunca um papel principal.<\/p>\n

Sabes que isto tinha de acontecer e que n\u00e3o tem nada a ver contigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t blame him. You don\u2019t blame that other woman. Lastly, you don\u2019t blame yourself either. Things happened because you let them happen. He was something you needed.<\/p>\n

He was someone you needed in that chapter of your life. But it\u2019s time now to write some new ones. He made you see that you were never an almost relationship type of girl.<\/p>\n

Ele fez-te perceber que precisas de mais. Que precisas de algu\u00e9m que tenha a certeza de que quer estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que te pega pela m\u00e3o e te leva para a sua vida sem que tenhas de o pedir.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 clareza e paz na sua vida, de que precisava h\u00e1 tanto tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even realize how that unsteady relationship you had with him was bad for you. You never knew where you stood.<\/p>\n

Estavas sobrecarregado.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea ficou \u00e0 espera <\/a> para que as coisas fossem mais reais. Querias mais. N\u00e3o tinhas paz e a felicidade era uma no\u00e7\u00e3o que mudava consoante os bons e os maus dias que passavas com ele.<\/p>\n

You are calm at last. The hoping has stopped. You know that you were never meant to be. You know he wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/p>\n

You know that it\u2019s up to you to create your happiness. Now you know that next time you enter into a relationship, it will be real and never again almost.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Qual<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u2018What changed?\u2019 is the thought that\u2019s echoing in your mind and cannot be silenced. Just a few months back, he wasn\u2019t ready for a relationship. He didn\u2019t want to hear the word commitment, let alone fully be in one. However, he is ready now. He is ready for it all with her, like he never…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":110504,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22162","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/What-It-Feels-Like-When-Your-Almost-Love-Chooses-Someone-Else-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22162","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22162"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22162\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}