{"id":22171,"date":"2020-08-23T11:48:27","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T11:48:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22171"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:27:15","slug":"e-assim-que-se-sente-quando-se-aceita-o-pedido-de-desculpas-que-nunca-se-recebeu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-sente-quando-se-aceita-o-pedido-de-desculpas-que-nunca-se-recebeu\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de aceitar o pedido de desculpas que nunca recebeste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca te consideraste perfeito. Sempre soube que tinha muitos defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ve always known that sometimes, you make mistakes.<\/p>\n

That sometimes you hurt people without even wanting to and that you probably even broke someone\u2019s heart without the intention of doing so.<\/p>\n

Mas mesmo quando fazemos algo prejudicial, temos a capacidade de nos apercebermos disso mais tarde. E sentimo-nos mal connosco pr\u00f3prios at\u00e9 corrigirmos as coisas.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve always been someone who knew when it was time to apologize and to do whatever it took just to make the other person understand how really sorry you were.<\/p>\n

And at the same time, you\u2019ve always tried to encontrar a for\u00e7a para perdoar<\/a> aqueles que te magoaram. E quando eras mais novo, pensavas que todos eram iguais a ti.<\/p>\n

Assumiu que as pessoas nunca tiveram a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o magoar e, mesmo quando o fizeram, fizeram-no sem pensar nas consequ\u00eancias dos seus actos.<\/p>\n

Mas a vida ensinou-lhe outra coisa. Ensinou-te que nem todos s\u00e3o como tu. Que simplesmente existem pessoas m\u00e1s e perversas cujo \u00fanico objetivo \u00e9 causar dor emocional aos outros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Que h\u00e1 pessoas que gostam de ver os outros infelizes e que gostam que os outros chorem por elas.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve learned that there are people who refuse to take responsibility for their actions, even when they are clearly wrong.<\/p>\n

That there are people who wouldn\u2019t admit that they were wrong, even if it was the last thing they did.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve learned that there are people who don\u2019t care if they do you some harm. And people who simply don\u2019t want to or don\u2019t know how to say they are sorry, even if they are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A vida ensinou-nos que, por vezes, temos de aceitar as desculpas que nunca recebemos. Mas nunca ningu\u00e9m te disse como o fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como deixar de se agarrar a algumas experi\u00eancias dolorosas do passado. How to forgive someone who doesn\u2019t want to be forgiven.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How to make yourself forget everything you\u2019ve been through when the person who has done you harm never showed the slightest sign of regret.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Como deixar de estar enjaulado pela amargura que essa pessoa lhe causou quando o desiludiu ou abandonou.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How to set yourself free from all the hatred you feel, although you know you shouldn\u2019t feel it. How to really let go of the resentment that has been eating you up from the inside out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And how to do all of this when you know very well that this person doesn\u2019t deserve anything good from you. When you know that the last thing they deserve is your forgiveness.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014I am not advising you to forget about everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o estou de modo algum a aconselh\u00e1-la a deixar que essas pessoas que lhe fizeram mal voltem a entrar na sua vida, porque isso significaria que lhes estaria a dar permiss\u00e3o para a magoarem de novo.<\/p>\n

But you shouldn\u2019t let this define you. You shouldn\u2019t let resentment and a dor define-o<\/a> because that would mean they\u2019ve won.<\/p>\n

Isso significaria que tudo o que lhe fizeram foi proveitoso e que conseguiram fazer de si um prisioneiro das suas palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And that is why you shouldn\u2019t have doubts about forgiving anyone who has hurt you in the past. But don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not telling you to do it for their sake.<\/p>\n

Estou a dizer-vos que o fa\u00e7am para bem da vossa sa\u00fade emocional e mental. Que o fa\u00e7a por si e por mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Porque esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de te libertares. A \u00fanica maneira de aceitar tudo o que lhe aconteceu e de o deixar no passado, onde ele pertence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica maneira de deixar de permitir que essas coisas nocivas e pessoas ainda mais nocivas do passado tenham um impacto no seu presente e no seu futuro.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica maneira de os cortar realmente e de eles perderem um lugar na sua mente, no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Because let\u2019s face it\u2014all of this consumes you even when you\u2019ve physically removed yourself from those who have caused you pain.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the only way to deixar de lado a negatividade e seguir em frente<\/a> com a tua vida e a \u00fanica maneira de os derrotar de uma vez por todas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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