{"id":22257,"date":"2020-02-26T11:12:24","date_gmt":"2020-02-26T11:12:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22257"},"modified":"2022-08-21T10:26:00","modified_gmt":"2022-08-21T10:26:00","slug":"tens-de-o-deixar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tens-de-o-deixar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Se um homem que amas faz estas 7 coisas, tens de o deixar ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Relationships are unpredictable, and there is nothing you can do about it. It may start off as perfect, and you may even think that you\u2019re going to love and be with each other for the rest of your lives.<\/p>\n

But sadly, things don\u2019t always work that way. Sadly, sometimes the situation takes its own course, and no matter what you try to do about it, you\u2019ll fail.<\/p>\n

Love is not easy, and it shouldn’t be easy. Imagine all those emotions and experiences intertwined with each other. How could that not be complicated?<\/p>\n

O amor d\u00e1 trabalho e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es d\u00e3o trabalho. Tudo o que vale a pena ter requer trabalho e sacrif\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por isso, quando se deparam com um obst\u00e1culo na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, t\u00eam de lutar e tentar melhorar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Be mature about it, and consider it like you\u2019ve hit a dead end. Now, you have to do something about it. Don\u2019t quit because that\u2019s the easy way to go, and anyone can quit.<\/p>\n

Seja um lutador e fa\u00e7a tudo o que puder para salvar algo que provavelmente vale a pena salvar.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma forma de ver as coisas. Mas h\u00e1 o outro lado da hist\u00f3ria. Tal como \u00e9 preciso saber quando se deve ser teimoso e lutar, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 preciso saber quando se deve desistir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t make up love out of thin air. You can\u2019t force passion and emotions. If they aren\u2019t there, then you\u2019ll definitely have to call it quits.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If the relationship you\u2019re in is just not for you, it\u2019s never going to work out. No matter how hard you try, you\u2019re never going to be happy.<\/p>\n

So the best thing you can do, but also the hardest one if you love the man you\u2019re with, is to just deix\u00e1-lo ir<\/a>. It\u2019s something that has to be done sooner or later.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, it will be hard, and you\u2019re going to hurt, but as time goes by, you\u2019ll see that you made the right call.<\/p>\n

If he does these things, don\u2019t think twice and just leave:<\/p>\n

1. Os seus interesses s\u00e3o diferentes<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You\u2019re simply not on the same page. You like one thing, and he likes something else completely. You can\u2019t change that.<\/p>\n

You can try to do something together, but if neither of you enjoys it, then what\u2019s the point?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t seem to see eye to eye when it comes to the future. You want to do or have one thing, and he wants something completely else.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se pensarmos bem, a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 definido para falhar<\/a> from the beginning, so why wait? Break it off right now. You\u2019ll thank yourself later.<\/p>\n

2. Est\u00e3o sempre a discutir sobre as mesmas coisas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019re going around in circles. You fight, then you make up and everything is perfect for the next few days, but that doesn\u2019t last for long.<\/p>\n

After the short-term peace, you fight again and surprise, surprise – it\u2019s about the same thing again.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t sort out the thing you\u2019re fighting about constantly, then you\u2019re not made for each other.<\/p>\n

There is clearly something he resents you for doing and the other way around. If you can\u2019t work that out, let him go.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s needy<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/span><\/h2>\n

You think you can spot neediness miles away? Well, it\u2019s not as simple as that every time. Neediness comes in different forms.<\/p>\n

Uma delas \u00e9 ele fazer de ti o centro do seu universo.<\/p>\n

That can easily be mistaken for love, when it\u2019s actually him being incompetent to live without you.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a assim e acaba com ele a proibir-te de sa\u00edres e de andares com outras pessoas.<\/p>\n

Then, he\u2019ll get more and more jealous, and your life will slowly turn into a living hell.<\/p>\n

4. Ele quebra a tua confian\u00e7a<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He is not fully in love as much as you. He doesn\u2019t have problems with hurting you. Yes, he apologizes and says he didn\u2019t mean it, but then he completely does the same thing all over again.<\/p>\n

Isto torna-nos vulner\u00e1veis e parte-nos o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Mais importante ainda, quebra a sua confian\u00e7a. Passado algum tempo, as suas palavras e promessas n\u00e3o significar\u00e3o absolutamente nada para si.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t go on living with someone you don\u2019t trust.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re the only one trying<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It takes two to tango, and he left you completely alone. Obviously, he doesn\u2019t care about the two of you as much as you do.<\/p>\n

Relationships take hard work, and if both of you are not giving it all you\u2019ve got, then the relationship will come to an end.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely heartless to let one person do all the work and show up in the end when everything is done. Rela\u00e7\u00f5es unilaterais<\/a> don\u2019t work and if you\u2019re in one, do yourself a favor and leave.<\/p>\n

6. Sente-se inferior a ele<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/span><\/h2>\n

In your relationship, you don\u2019t feel like an equal to your partner. You feel like you\u2019re giving a lot and receiving nothing in return.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try to make him feel comfortable and happy in your relationship, you continuously feel like you\u2019re not giving your best and that maybe you\u2019re even incapable of doing so.<\/p>\n

He makes you feel like you\u2019re not good enough because everything you do is not enough for him. This hurts your self-esteem, and you feel like shit. If this is the case, leave.<\/p>\n

7. You\u2019re not happy<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it. Your life is shit. You\u2019re not happy, and love provokes pain and stress rather than beautiful feelings. Well, love is hard, but it doesn\u2019t work that way.<\/p>\n

When you truly love someone and he loves you back, even if you fight to the bone, you\u2019ll kiss and make up.<\/p>\n

O facto de voltarem um para o outro e as emo\u00e7\u00f5es que sentem apagam todas as coisas m\u00e1s que aconteceram antes.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s true love. No pain. No hurting because real love makes you forget all of it.<\/p>\n

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