{"id":22291,"date":"2020-08-27T12:06:47","date_gmt":"2020-08-27T12:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22291"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:42:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:42:48","slug":"5-movimentos-de-poder-que-uma-mulher-deve-fazer-se-quiser-uma-relacao-a-serio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-movimentos-de-poder-que-uma-mulher-deve-fazer-se-quiser-uma-relacao-a-serio\/","title":{"rendered":"5 movimentos de poder que uma mulher deve fazer se quiser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t you just wish you were born in an era of that old-fashioned love? It seems like it was all easier back then. If nothing else, everything was more genuine and honest.<\/p>\n

Hoje em dia, namorar e encontrar o amor \u00e9 uma confus\u00e3o. A arte do namoro e dos longos per\u00edodos de namoro foi substitu\u00edda por sair e engatar, o que fez uma confus\u00e3o gigantesca nas nossas vidas amorosas.<\/p>\n

Acabamos por ficar com uma vida med\u00edocre relacionamentos situacionais<\/a> instead of being in a real relationship. And it isn\u2019t like we don\u2019t want something meaningful. It\u2019s just that it is hard to come by.<\/p>\n

It’s hard but it is not impossible, especially if we know what to do. There are 5 power moves a woman can pull if she wants a real relationship:<\/p>\n

Eliminar imediatamente todas as aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros gratuitas<\/h2>\n

\"\u00e0<\/p>\n

De certeza que conhece algu\u00e9m, ou conhece algu\u00e9m que conhece algu\u00e9m, que encontrou o amor atrav\u00e9s de aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros. Mas essas pessoas s\u00e3o realmente raras. S\u00e3o excep\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Se utiliza o Hinge, o Tinder ou algo semelhante, j\u00e1 deve ter reparado em todos os creeps que andam por a\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Se h\u00e1 algu\u00e9m decente por a\u00ed, est\u00e1 a ser ofuscado por todos aqueles que est\u00e3o a tentar dar uma queca ou que est\u00e3o apenas a matar tempo e, nesse processo, a desperdi\u00e7ar o seu.<\/p>\n

So if you are serious about finding real love, chances are these apps won’t help you. They will just steal your time and exhaust your efforts.<\/p>\n

Don’t settle for fake, last minute, mediocre dates<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

\u201cI have nothing better to do, so I might as well hang out with her.\u201d is not the date you are supposed to go on. You don\u2019t need someone calling you out of the blue just because it\u2019s convenient for them.<\/p>\n

Make sure to tell them it\u2019s not convenient for you, and that they should have asked you earlier. You are not one who sits by the phone and jumps as soon as it ringsl\u2014at least you shouldn\u2019t be.<\/p>\n

Dates should be preplanned, thought of and give you something to look forward to. They don\u2019t have to be luxurious or expensive\u2014that\u2019s not the point.<\/p>\n

The point is that you see he put some thought into it and that he can\u2019t wait to see you. Only a man who makes an effort is worthy of your time.<\/p>\n

O seu esfor\u00e7o no primeiro encontro dir-lhe-\u00e1 muito.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him cross the doorstep of your home too soon<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go to his place either. It\u2019s a trap. Most of us are prone to chilling and spending time in the comfort of our homes.<\/p>\n

A maioria de n\u00f3s comete o erro de convidar algu\u00e9m para essa zona de conforto demasiado cedo.<\/p>\n

This makes people subconsciously think that by doing, we are up for a more laid back and casual relationship. It\u2019s not just about n\u00e3o ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais demasiado cedo<\/a>. It\u2019s about turning the date into hanging out.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give all the boyfriend benefits to someone who is not your boyfriend.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 melhor mant\u00ea-lo afastado do seu sof\u00e1, pelo menos durante as primeiras semanas, at\u00e9 o conhecer melhor. Mais tarde, haver\u00e1 muito tempo para sof\u00e1s, mimos, Netflix e relaxamento.<\/p>\n

4. Desmont\u00e1-lo suavemente se ele come\u00e7ar a fazer jogos<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

By now, you can spot a player from a mile away. He will play texting games. One minute he\u2019ll be there and the next nowhere to be found. He will lead you on in all the ways possible.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t put up with that. Been there, done that. There is no point in going through it again. That\u2019s why you have to send that text you don\u2019t really want to send, but you know you have to.<\/p>\n

Pode ser mais ou menos assim:
\n\u201c Hi there. I don\u2019t like beating around the bush so I\u2019ll be honest with you. I am not into casual hookups. I like real dates and I believe men who make efforts are extremely hot. I need time to get to know someone better in order to jump into bed with them and only them. If you don\u2019t share my opinion that\u2019s ok. I like to let people know where they stand with me.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

Know what you want and don\u2019t be afraid to say it<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Normalmente mentimos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. Envolvemo-nos em algo com algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o envolve qualquer tipo de compromisso com evitar parecer demasiado carente no in\u00edcio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, esse in\u00edcio prolonga-se e acabamos numa quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem o desejarmos. E tudo o que fazemos \u00e9 magoar os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es e desperdi\u00e7ar o nosso tempo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let somebody put words in your mouth that aren\u2019t yours. Don\u2019t say you are not into labels and that you don\u2019t mind keeping things casual if instead, you truly want to be somebody\u2019s girlfriend.<\/p>\n

So be honest with yourself first, and be honest with the person you are dating. Determine your boundaries, and don\u2019t drift far away from as suas normas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you want a real relationship with someone who is not afraid to be in one and who is willing to match all your efforts, don\u2019t settle for anything less.<\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t you just wish you were born in an era of that old-fashioned love? It seems like it was all easier back then. If nothing else, everything was more genuine and honest. Nowadays, dating and finding love is messy. The art of courtship and long dating periods has been replaced by hanging out and hooking…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":109461,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Power-Moves-A-Woman-Should-Pull-If-She-Wants-A-Real-Relationship-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22291\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}