{"id":22325,"date":"2020-08-28T11:20:26","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T11:20:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22325"},"modified":"2022-08-21T10:27:02","modified_gmt":"2022-08-21T10:27:02","slug":"se-ele-faz-estas-7-coisas-esta-numa-relacao-falsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-faz-estas-7-coisas-esta-numa-relacao-falsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele faz estas 7 coisas, voc\u00ea est\u00e1 num relacionamento falso"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o falsa?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a relationship that has no future. It\u2019s a relationship you\u2019re staying in because either you\u2019re afraid of being alone and moving on, or you\u2019re convinced that things are vai mudar<\/a>mas n\u00e3o o far\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Many of us don\u2019t even know that we are in fake relationships. It\u2019s hard to explain why that is so but one guess would be that we simply refuse to open our eyes and consider a change.<\/p>\n

Change is difficult and not many people welcome it. No matter whether it\u2019s good or bad, at the time when you have to make a decision that you know is going to make things different, change is just hard.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re letting go of everything you know and starting something completely different.<\/p>\n

That future that awaits you is scary because, naturally, you don\u2019t know what is going to happen.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why some of us choose to believe that our relationship is the right one.<\/p>\n

Because it\u2019s easier to live believing that the problems between you and your partner are just temporary.<\/p>\n

Caso contr\u00e1rio, a \u00fanica coisa que lhe resta \u00e9 aceitar que est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o falsa.<\/p>\n

To make things easier for you and to make you open your eyes and embrace what\u2019s coming next, here are the things he does that actually show you are in a fake relationship which has no future. You\u2019re just prolonging the inevitable.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t talk to you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Onde n\u00e3o h\u00e1 comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 amor. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Because, if your partner doesn\u2019t talk to you, if he doesn\u2019t share his thoughts and his feelings with you, how are you supposed to know this person?<\/p>\n

Maintaining communication doesn\u2019t mean you have to call each other or text each other every second but when you get home from work, it would be great if you talked a bit about how your day went or how you\u2019re feeling, just to keep up with things.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, how would you know what\u2019s going on in your partner\u2019s life? Communication is the key.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t talk to you, you won\u2019t know what\u2019s bothering him.<\/p>\n

E guardar os sentimentos dentro de si s\u00f3 pode causar problemas a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

When he leaves, you don\u2019t know where he\u2019s going<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He is being a bit secretive about where he\u2019s going and when he\u2019s coming back.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just saying, you are not compiling a police report and you don\u2019t have to know all the details but it would be nice if he\u2019s going out just to tell you where or with whom?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a>, but if he acts this way all the time, you\u2019re going to develop trust issues.<\/p>\n

E quando deixar de confiar nele, n\u00e3o vale a pena manter a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

The fact alone that he doesn\u2019t want to tell you where he\u2019s going is very suspicious and it can only show you that he doesn\u2019t take your relationship seriously and probably isn\u2019t even planning on staying for much longer.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just a plano de reserva<\/a> at\u00e9 encontrar algo melhor. Esta \u00e9 definitivamente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o falsa.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s all over you in public<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Poder-se-ia pensar que um PDA \u00e9, de facto, uma coisa boa, mas, como tudo o resto, o excesso de algo pode ser muito suspeito e prejudicial.<\/p>\n

If he is all over you in public and you\u2019re playing along with his charade, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n

He is probably trying to prove to others that he is happy and by doing the same you’re just helping him.<\/p>\n

When you get home, he\u2019ll turn into the cold shadow that he was before. That is anything but a real relationship.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to prove your love to anyone. If he has the need to do it excessively, then you\u2019re definitely in a fake relationship.<\/p>\n

As raz\u00f5es para manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o falsa podem ser in\u00fameras, mas sejam elas quais forem, fa\u00e7a um favor a si pr\u00f3prio e saia imediatamente, antes que se magoe seriamente.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always the one starting the conversation<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 fala consigo quando precisa de alguma coisa de si. Isso significa que ele est\u00e1 consciente do que est\u00e1 a fazer e do tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se encontra.<\/p>\n

Isto significa que este tipo de cen\u00e1rio funciona para ele neste momento.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him use you and just break it off. You\u2019ve tried enough and you\u2019ve started so many conversations which were all a one-way street.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve pulled the words out of him and it never ended well.<\/p>\n

That man simply doesn’t want to open up to you. Maybe you\u2019re not that interesting to him, or he just has different plans.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, tu \u00e9s a v\u00edtima e tens de deixar esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o falsa.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que t\u00eam \u00e9 qu\u00edmica sexual<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Sex is great and it\u2019s super that you have that kind of chemistry between the two of you.<\/p>\n

But there is something you shouldn\u2019t disregard so easily. Sex is great but it\u2019s not the most important thing in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If the only thing you have left is sex, then you\u2019re in a fake relationship. You can’t just communicate through passion. For a true relationship, you need much more.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o sexo desempenha um papel importante nas vossas vidas.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just getting to know each other and you\u2019re exploring each other, but after some time, things have to grow into something bigger and more serious.<\/p>\n

Se nunca o fizerem, essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 definido para falhar.<\/a><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t share great moments together<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Your relationship is actually boring. You\u2019re stuck in a rut where you do one thing again and again.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 preso a uma rotina que \u00e9 tudo menos divertida ou criativa. As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam de ser divertidas e turbulentas.<\/p>\n

You have to experience a lot of things together. You have to be able to remember all the crazy, goofy, romantic or sad moments you\u2019ve lived together. You have to have them to remember them.<\/p>\n

If this is lacking in your relationship, it means that the relationship you\u2019re in is not a real one. It\u2019s a try which was worth it for a while but it failed.<\/p>\n

O seu ego \u00e9 demasiado grande<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam a ver com compromissos e se uma pessoa tem de ter sempre raz\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o h\u00e1 algo de errado com essa imagem.<\/p>\n

Se ele insiste em que as coisas sejam sempre feitas \u00e0 sua maneira, isso significa que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem amor.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you\u2019ll show him that by letting go from time to time. Even if you think you\u2019re one hundred percent right, you\u2019re going to listen to your partner.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca faz isso. Ele acredita que tem raz\u00e3o e mesmo que voc\u00ea tenha raz\u00e3o e n\u00e3o ele, ele n\u00e3o o vai admitir. O seu ego \u00e9 demasiado grande para aceitar que cometeu um erro.<\/p>\n

That is not a relationship. That\u2019s a crock.<\/p>\n

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What is a fake relationship? It\u2019s a relationship that has no future. It\u2019s a relationship you\u2019re staying in because either you\u2019re afraid of being alone and moving on, or you\u2019re convinced that things are going to change, but they will not. Many of us don\u2019t even know that we are in fake relationships. It\u2019s hard…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":105503,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/If-He-Does-These-7-Things-Youre-In-A-Fake-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22325"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22325\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}