{"id":22365,"date":"2020-08-29T06:39:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T06:39:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22365"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:02:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:02:24","slug":"ser-suficientemente-corajoso-para-partir-o-seu-proprio-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-suficientemente-corajoso-para-partir-o-seu-proprio-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Seja corajoso o suficiente para partir o seu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se trata das nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, todos n\u00f3s temos um objetivo comum. Todos queremos fazer o que for preciso para evitar que os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es se partam.<\/p>\n

E pessoas diferentes usam estrat\u00e9gias diferentes para proteger o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Alguns optam por agir sem cora\u00e7\u00e3o para com todos os que os rodeiam, para que ningu\u00e9m tenha sequer a oportunidade de os magoar.<\/p>\n

Alguns tomam a decis\u00e3o de nunca se apaixonarem e de nunca deixarem ningu\u00e9m entrar, pensando que isso os ajudar\u00e1 a protegerem-se.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, todos temos o objetivo de nos mantermos afastados de tudo e de todos que possam partir o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o, porque todos sabemos o qu\u00e3o dolorosa \u00e9 esta experi\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you had your heart broken in the past or you saw someone close to you going through this. The point is the same\u2014this is the last thing you wish to happen to yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E, sem d\u00favida, curar um cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido requer muita for\u00e7a e coragem. Nunca acontece de um dia para o outro e \u00e9 sempre um processo dif\u00edcil que nem todos conseguem suportar.<\/p>\n

Mas o que acontece quando somos n\u00f3s que temos de partir o nosso pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando sabemos que temos de tomar uma decis\u00e3o que \u00e9 objetivamente a mais acertada? Mas sabe que essa decis\u00e3o o vai desfazer em peda\u00e7os?<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que acontece quando amamos algu\u00e9m at\u00e9 aos ossos, mas sabemos simplesmente que essa pessoa n\u00e3o \u00e9 a certa para n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n

When you love someone, but you know that the two of you are not compatible and that you\u2019ll never get along? When you know that you\u2019ll never have a future with this person?<\/p>\n

Ou quando amamos algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 est\u00e1 comprometido e proibido para n\u00f3s, e sabemos que estar com essa pessoa \u00e9 mais do que errado?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O que acontece quando se ama algu\u00e9m que doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/a>e sabes que tens de te afastar deles para teu pr\u00f3prio bem?<\/p>\n

Ou quando estamos loucamente apaixonados por algu\u00e9m, mas simplesmente sabemos que temos de nos afastar dessa pessoa se quisermos salvar-nos?<\/p>\n

In these scenarios, you are very well aware that you\u2019ll break your own heart whatever you do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you stay with this person, knowing that you shouldn\u2019t and knowing that this is a bad idea, you know you\u2019ll make yourself miserable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you leave them, you know you\u2019ll suffer without them and miss them, even though that was the best choice you could ever make.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know you\u2019ll go through an enormous amount of emotional pain and that you\u2019ll be the one who caused your own misery.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And whatever you do, you\u2019ll know that there will come a time when you\u2019ll probably blame yourself for everything. That you\u2019ll feel guilty for causing yourself this much suffering.<\/p>\n

Mas, por vezes, tudo isto tem simplesmente de ser feito. Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso partir o seu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> para o vosso pr\u00f3prio bem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014doing this takes more courage than you might think, and it is everything but easy. In fact, it is probably one of the bravest things you\u2019ll ever do in your life.<\/p>\n

Mas h\u00e1 alturas em que uma coisa destas tem simplesmente de ser feita e em que n\u00e3o temos outra sa\u00edda se quisermos salvar-nos.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 alturas em que temos de nos magoar agora em nome da nossa felicidade futura. Quando o \u00fanico caminho para curar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 partindo-o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And trust me\u2014although in the beginning you might even regret making this decision, eventually, you\u2019ll see that it was the right one.<\/p>\n

Eventually, you\u2019ll see that it payed off.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll thank yourself for doing what needed to be done.<\/p>\n

But most of all, you\u2019ll be proud of yourself. Whenever you look back, you\u2019ll be proud of yourself and of your bravery.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be proud of the fact that you had enough courage to do the thing which you knew would hurt you.<\/p>\n

Orgulhoso do facto de ter sido suficientemente forte para proteger o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a si pr\u00f3prio a tempo, antes que fosse demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

E ver\u00e1 que todos os sacrif\u00edcios emocionais que fez valeram a pena.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Seja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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