{"id":22419,"date":"2018-08-31T06:33:03","date_gmt":"2018-08-31T06:33:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22419"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:33:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:33:34","slug":"ele-mente-me-ele-nao-me-mente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-mente-me-ele-nao-me-mente\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele mente para mim, ele n\u00e3o mente para mim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever thought someone you trusted was lying to you, and you deserve to know the truth no matter how much it may hurt? You just can\u2019t put your finger on what it is that\u2019s being concealed, but you know there is more than what meets the eye. What is it about this person that is untrustworthy, and how can you tell you\u2019re being lied to? Why do things just feel desligado<\/em>? \u00c9 tu<\/em>? Est\u00e1 apenas a ser paranoico?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Os especialistas sugerem que mesmo os mais experientes os mentirosos podem ser facilmente detectados<\/a><\/strong> e denunciados em segundos se soubermos o que procurar. H\u00e1 certos sinais que os outros emitem sem sequer o saberem. E, apesar dos seus melhores esfor\u00e7os, os mentirosos n\u00e3o podem fugir da verdade para sempre.<\/p>\n

Eventualmente, as suas hist\u00f3rias acabam por os apanhar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you know what to ask someone you\u2019re suspicious of and how to talk them into circles, you\u2019ll soon get answers. Eis alguns m\u00e9todos para desmascarar as falsidades.<\/strong> Se jogar as suas cartas corretamente, ser\u00e1 o detentor do baralho vencedor ao chamar o culpado para o seu bluff.<\/p>\n

When engaging in conversation, start by asking a few non-threatening questions such as, \u201cIs work going well?\u201d or \u201cWhat are your plans for the summer?\u201d Small, everyday questions you would ask just about anyone. These are considered baseline conversation starters, easy-to-answer probes that will help establish comfortability.<\/p>\n

Getting another to be comfortable while talking will help you to better understand his or her natural mannerisms that are used when telling the truth or without feeling cornered. These can be later used to decipher when the person is being honest and when they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Next, up it a notch and begin to inquire about more personal subjects, such as, \u201cWhat time did you get to so-and-so\u2019s last night?\u201d or \u201cWhat time did you say you left the party?\u201d Inquire about things that could cause the culprit to come clean, but probably won\u2019t. More than likely, they\u2019ll only serve to help you understand what mannerisms denote an anxious alibi.<\/p>\n

This should only be done after you\u2019ve determined how the recipient reacts during the initial phase, though. Porque mesmo quando dizem a verdade ou falam de algo relativamente pouco substancial, as pessoas tendem a usar certos maneirismos subconscientes.<\/strong> These are unique to the individual, and what could be considered suspicious for one person could be simply second nature to another. So, just because the potential perpetrator is nervous doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re guilty. And, just because one person is clearly lying when they do \u2018xyz\u2019 doesn\u2019t mean everyone is.<\/p>\n

Ao mascarar a verdade, muitas pessoas puxam o tronco para dentro como se quisessem encolher-se. Isto faz com que a fabrica\u00e7\u00e3o seja menos importante para elas, uma vez que acreditam que parecem realmente mais pequenas. Tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 comum encolher os ombros e ter as palmas das m\u00e3os subitamente inquietas ou tr\u00e9mulas ou coxear.<\/p>\n

Take note of observable nervousness such as nostril flaring, blushing, redness around the ears, finger or foot tapping, or biting one\u2019s lip. Other common reactions are removing oneself from the tale altogether, making a story mostly about someone else entirely, or using a different tone of voice that subconsciously helps the individual to mutate into a new persona.<\/p>\n

Mentir nunca \u00e9 divertido, especialmente quando a mentira \u00e9 f\u00edsica, mental ou emocionalmente prejudicial ou muda a paisagem de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o indefinidamente.<\/strong> Uma vez quebrada a confian\u00e7a, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, se n\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel, repar\u00e1-la. Dependendo da magnitude da mentira, afastar-se pode ser a \u00fanica forma de garantir a sua seguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a ignor\u00e2ncia n\u00e3o \u00e9 felicidade.<\/strong> Uma vez que uma mentira passa despercebida, torna-se mais f\u00e1cil para um indiv\u00edduo continuar a repetir esse comportamento desonesto. \u00c9 muito prov\u00e1vel que, por mais pr\u00f3ximo que se pense estar da pessoa, isso continue a acontecer uma e outra vez. E, como as mentiras<\/a> come\u00e7am a somar, come\u00e7am a cortar um pouco mais fundo. The longer you stay in a situation believing something exists when it doesn\u2019t, the harder the truth will be to accept once the false facade is finally forgotten.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s always better to know the truth than to participate in a lie, <\/strong>and a seasoned manipulator needs to be outed to stop him or her from hurting others. There is no guarantee you can stop it altogether, but you can stop participating. Know when to say, \u2018Enough is enough!\u2019<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever thought someone you trusted was lying to you, and you deserve to know the truth no matter how much it may hurt? You just can\u2019t put your finger on what it is that\u2019s being concealed, but you know there is more than what meets the eye. What is it about this person…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22420,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22419","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/azlan-baharudin-798053-unsplash.jpg",800,527,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22419","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22419"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22419\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22420"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22419"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22419"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22419"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}