{"id":22422,"date":"2020-07-31T06:39:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-31T06:39:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22422"},"modified":"2022-01-24T21:48:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T21:48:20","slug":"quando-ele-voltar-para-ti-nao-o-vais-querer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-ele-voltar-para-ti-nao-o-vais-querer\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando ele voltar para ti, n\u00e3o o vais querer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando o homem que amamos nos deixa e sai da nossa vida, pensamos que \u00e9 a pior coisa que nos pode acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You spend your days waiting for him to come back to you and thinking about ways to make this happen. You literally put your life on hold, and you don\u2019t see a way for yourself to move on.<\/p>\n

Enquanto isto est\u00e1 a acontecer, s\u00f3 te lembras das coisas boas. Esqueces-te de tudo de mau que este tipo te fez passar.<\/p>\n

De repente, esquece-se de toda a dor e das l\u00e1grimas. Esqueces-te de como ele te fez sentir miser\u00e1vel e infeliz durante toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

De repente, sente que os dois poderiam resolver todos os seus problemas e ultrapassar todas as suas diferen\u00e7as se as coisas voltassem a ser como dantes.<\/p>\n

Pensas que a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com este homem merecem uma segunda oportunidade<\/a> e que, desta vez, voc\u00eas os dois v\u00e3o fazer com que as coisas resultem.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pensa que a sua vida \u00e9 mais forte do que qualquer obst\u00e1culo e s\u00f3 quer ter esse homem na sua vida novamente.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 queres beij\u00e1-lo mais uma vez. Adormecer nos seus bra\u00e7os e acordar ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

But that isn\u2019t happening, despite all of your wishes and efforts.<\/p>\n

And I know I you don\u2019t think this way now but trust me, it\u2019s better this way.<\/p>\n

I know you won\u2019t believe me, but you only think that having this man back in your life would put you out of your misery.<\/p>\n

You only think you want him back but trust me\u2014you don\u2019t. And you would understand all of this the moment he came back to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The truth is that you idealize this guy just because you don\u2019t have him anymore.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve managed to forget all about his flaws and negative sides and that you\u2019ve focused on his positive qualities just because you miss him.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you romanticize him and your relationship and that you don\u2019t look it realistically.<\/p>\n

But the two of you took separate ways for a strong reason. And that reason won\u2019t go away overnight.<\/p>\n

Because you are still the person you\u2019ve always been and ele continua a ser o mesmo homem<\/a>. And any time apart won\u2019t change that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se ele volta para si<\/a>Se n\u00e3o se aperceberem, todas as vossas diferen\u00e7as e problemas voltar\u00e3o a aparecer \u00e0 superf\u00edcie.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If he comes back to you, you\u2019ll see that you never wanted this to happen and that him leaving you was the best thing that could occur.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that he is not the man for you and that you probably just miss the feeling of belonging to someone and the feeling of partnership.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that your ego was more hurt than your heart; that you just couldn\u2019t stand this man you think you love not wanting to be with you anymore.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve spent all this time trying to get him back simply because you wanted to prove to yourself that he is still yours.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque querias provar aos dois que o podes ter quando e como quiseres.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he comes back to you, you\u2019ll see that you should have never given him a second chance; that he hasn\u2019t changed his ways and that he\u2019ll always be the man who caused you emotional pain.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se ele voltar para ti, s\u00f3 pensas que lhe vais perdoar tudo o que ele fez.<\/p>\n

But trust me\u2014-you\u2019ll always hold grudges. You\u2019ll always resent him for leaving you, without taking your feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always question his reasons for walking away, and you\u2019ll always doubt his love for you, even if he makes an effort to prove it to you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll want to know every single detail of his bachelor life. Has he been seeing some other girls?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que ele andava a fazer? Como \u00e9 que ele passava os dias, enquanto tu continuavas \u00e0 espera que ele voltasse?<\/p>\n

Se ele volta para si<\/a>, you\u2019ll see that the two of you have no future and that things should have stayed the way they were.<\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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